"Victor, you sound more like someone determined to keep the discussion
going regardless rather than one seeking resolution."
< Well, I think the discussion ends when both sides agree, or if one
side is not cooperating well. And esp in this case, if one side goes
around in circles in their arguments, then we should let them know,
but we have to be sure of that. If they won't stop or disagree, then
it's good for us to step out of the conversation, WHILE letting them
know why we stepped out.
But I **feel** that I can get somewhere with this, esp by using the
Black Board. I don't know if you know why I started that, but it
certainly has helped me dissect the conversation and know where we are
agreeing at, and where we aren't.
One thing that gives me a good step is the fact that Jon at least
agrees that the FFs believes that broad Christianity should influence
politics, education, etc. I've recently updated the Black Board to
reflect this. (the Black Board is found in "Pages" and called "Summary
Of All Debates including agreements from both parties "). Please
familiarize yourself with this useful tool.
TL, we should pray about the discussion, that it can actually be
worthwhile, and that the opposing parties eyes can be opened up if
surely they are wrong. And also pray that we aren't turning a blind
eye to an important argument that Jon and his pals are presenting.
"I know you see this as your role, since you got the ball rolling in
the first place,"
< Actually, I only started the group, but I didn't start the debate,
(unless you consider posting up American Heritage videos as starting
it).
"but at what point does point-counterpoint finally sink into the Abyss
of Gobbledegook?"
< Till those conditions are met: "discussion ends when both sides
agree, or if one side is not cooperating well. "
"I'm all for Jon having his say, just as the rest of us, but at what
cost?"
< I'm not exactly sure what you mean? If all Jon is offering is mere
opinion and no argument, then I'm not in this debate for that, neither
did I start this group for that. You might think that Jon is really
just biased, but let's confirm that nothing else is stopping him from
believing in what we're believing. After all, he has been posting up
some interesting quotes and facts.
"I'm not a patient person - a flaw in my makeup when I sense we're
going in circles. Review everything said up to now and you'll find us
all where I see us now...back at Square One with everyone in the group
most likely just as convinced of their position, if not more, than
when we began!"
< You might be right, because :/ I'm not able to re-read
everything now. But with the Black Board and some prayer, I feel
otherwise.
BTW, one strategy I'm using here is asking clarification questions,
like asking Jon to define certain words, like Unitarian. Once I sense
him getting into a logic trap with twisted definitions, I'll accuse.
I'm sure Jon won't mind if he's an honest person.
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