Hi Michael,
I am not aware of any SQL packages or a general package repo for Amber, but is SQL+Amber really what you want to use? Amber is compiled to JS, so it makes most sense to use it for web frontends / SPAs. You can use Amber on NodeJS, but on a server where you can choose your runtime, you'll most likely be better off using Pharo because it has a better IDE, dynamic programming features and real Smalltalk libraries. On Pharo, you eg have
https://github.com/svenvc/P3 for SQL, but again, perhaps you want to use a document oriented database like Voyage because you won't have to evolve a DB schema as your domain models evolve.
There is also PharoJS for cross-compiling Pharo to a JS runtime which is actively maintained, but is used to be buggy and undocumented for a long time, so it can be a head-scratching experience.
What are your goals? Personally I'm very happy with Iliad -
https://iliadproject.github.io/ - for responsive / AJAX web apps and real Pharo coding server-side. But it needs to be ported to recent Pharos.
HTH
Siemen