Gweebles
These people can be dangerous. A gun can be dangerous, or it can put food on
the table. Same with magic(k).
However, do not assume that all your problems are
magic(k)ally induced. More than one relationship/marriage has broken off
because of simple lack of communication. Also, more than one relationship
has broken off because some drug-addicted idiot can seem to kick his habit.
It is not nesscessarily your fault, or the other woman's fault.
Sometimes the man is just a jerk. That is the nature of the human animal. We
are not all mature. We are not all knowing, all loving, or even always able
to balance a checkbook. Some people (75% plus) don't know how to make an
international call without reaching an operator. Look to the mundane before
you blame the spiritual.
Was there a problem at work? Money problems at home? Was his self-esteem
lowered in some way? Has he suffered repeated bouts of depression? Did he
play around with every other woman you knew before you met? How many times
has he done this in the last five years? Multiply it by 10 and tell me if
you can handle this happening that many times during the rest of your life,
assuming he doesn't OD first? Do you want someone with a drug addiction
living with your CHILD?
I am not saying that he isn't worth keeping. I am not at "ground zero" and I
can't offer advice without more information. Still, talk to someone. The
health department will refer you to a good counselor, or you can speak to
any number of people from the various "anonymous" support groups about how
hard it is to kick the habit and be what others percieve as "healthy."
If you're still convinced it's magic(k)al, find someone nearby to help. Talk
to the owner of a pagan/witchcraft related shop. Put out a "hey, can anybody
here help me?" in your local pagan newsletter. (Some do it for free, others
charge a small fee.)
ADM
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