On Sun, 13 Oct 2019 16:07:15 -0400, Quinn C
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lispa...@crommatograph.info> wrote:
>* Tony Cooper:
>
>> On Sun, 13 Oct 2019 06:04:01 -0700 (PDT), "Peter T. Daniels"
>> <
gram...@verizon.net> wrote:
>>
>>>On Saturday, October 12, 2019 at 5:08:23 PM UTC-4, Tony Cooper wrote:
>>>> On Sat, 12 Oct 2019 15:20:54 +0100, the Omrud <
usenet...@gmail.com>
>>>> wrote:
>>>
>>>> >I've never heard of a fingertip towel. Hand towel is the normal UK term.
>>>>
>>>> Maybe it's so-called because your wife says "Don't put a fingertip on
>>>> that towel in the guest bathroom!". Wives are prone to put out fancy
>>>> towels in the guest bathroom before guests arrive, but they are not to
>>>> be sullied by members of the family.
>>>>
>>>> When the guests leave, the regular, tatty, hand towels are put back in
>>>> place.
>>>
>>>So he's bringing his tatty Anglomania with him to the condo. Along
>>>with his sexist attitudes.
>>
>> You are assuming that "wife" indicates gender. If you were in a
>> relationship, your "wife" could be male or you could be the "wife".
>
>It really fascinates you that a small minority of gay couples maybe use
>that word, doesn't it?
>
I wouldn't describe my interest as "fascinating". It's more a matter
of the subject being completely out of my area of experience.
I don't socialize with any gay people or gay couples. Not because of
any prejudice or bias, but because my social life just doesn't include
any gay people or gay couples. I don't come into social contact with
any, and it's not something where I want to recruit anyone just to say
I do socialize with some. At my age, my social circle has been
established for several years and I have no interest in expanding it.
Death and divorce are shrinking the circle as it is.
I do have contact with some gay people (some that I'm not aware of as
being gay, I'm sure), but subjects like "What do you call your
partner?" don't come up in the conversation. It's not something that
I'd consider to be polite to ask.
When you refer to a "small minority", you are employing some
experience or knowledge that I don't have. I wouldn't know if the
person I'm chatting with is part of the majority or minority.
I don't know why I'm supposed to be au courant with all the right
terms. It's not like this is a subject that comes up in conversations
I have with people. I don't want to offend people by using the wrong
terms, but I don't think they should be offended if I do.
You, in your posts, bring up subject matter that no one else that I'm
around ever would. Frankly, sometimes it's TMI.
>To them, you might well be a "bitch".
If so, they'd be disqualified as recruits.