Robert Bannister
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Off Topic as it concerns human behaviour rather than language, but it
started bothering me, and to whom should I turn but to you, dear readers
of the AUE?
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"I stepped forward and kissed the air above Veronica's cheek, a gesture
that, combined with the form of the thanks, surprised me perhaps more
than it did her. Hospitals did odd things to one's personality, even if
one were only passing through.
Fighting the urge to wiggle my fingertips at them in farewell, I left
them to their uncomfortable love."
Laurie R King, _A Monstrous Regiment of Women".
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Now, this story is set in about 1920. I'm not sure about air-kissing,
but to the best of my knowledge finger-wiggling has only been around for
about the last twenty years. We all learn to wave round about the time
we start to talk - "Say bye-bye/ta-ta" - and we learn to wave more or
less from the elbow. Many of us continued to wave that way; others
adopted a more daring wave from the wrist. There is the Queen's wave,
the limp-wristed wave, the not-quite-military salute-wave, but
wiggle-fingers is something fairly new for me.
To the best of my recollection, it began mainly with younger (i.e.
younger than many of us) women and spread out from there - I'm not even
sure how long I've been doing it myself. What is your reaction? Do you
remember when or how it started or do you believe that you and yours
have always waved that way?
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Robert Bannister