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distantear...@yahoo.com

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Dec 1, 2002, 8:23:23 AM12/1/02
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Hi:

I'm curious what the origin is of the expression "to hand someone
their lunch". I've heard it used to mean something akin to
figuratively beating someone badly. Where did this come from and what
is the image it is supposed to conjure up which would convey that?

Gary Vellenzer

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Dec 1, 2002, 9:42:12 AM12/1/02
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In article <b3e07f2c.02120...@posting.google.com>,
distantear...@yahoo.com says...

Their lunch comes back (becomes visible again) as a result of your
action.

Gary

Brian Wickham

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Dec 1, 2002, 7:38:31 PM12/1/02
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I've never heard it. But I have heard "eating someone's lunch" which
means to, figuratively, beat someone badly. The usage would be:
"Was he beaten?"
"Beaten? They ate his lunch!"

The analogy is to the schoolyard bully who takes the lunch away from
his victim.

To me the expression "to hand someone their lunch" sounds like a
conflated "ate his lunch" and "handed him his head."

Brian Wickham

Evan Kirshenbaum

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Dec 5, 2002, 6:58:20 PM12/5/02
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bwic...@nyc.rr.com (Brian Wickham) writes:

> On 1 Dec 2002 05:23:23 -0800, distantear...@yahoo.com wrote:
>
> >Hi:
> >
> > I'm curious what the origin is of the expression "to hand
> >someone their lunch". I've heard it used to mean something akin to
> >figuratively beating someone badly. Where did this come from and
> >what is the image it is supposed to conjure up which would convey
> >that?
>

> The analogy is to the schoolyard bully who takes the lunch away from
> his victim.
>
> To me the expression "to hand someone their lunch" sounds like a
> conflated "ate his lunch" and "handed him his head."

I've heard it, but more often as someone getting their *hat* handed to
them. Google confirms both, but they're both reasonably rare. My
sense is it's sort of a here's-your-hat-and-what's-your-hurry
reference to someone being dismissed, say, from a competition.

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coach...@gmail.com

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Feb 7, 2013, 10:24:20 PM2/7/13
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I have heard this phrase rather frequently, and distinctly from "handing ones head" or 'hat'. I have no idea of its original etymology.

hardrock...@gmail.com

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Feb 8, 2013, 2:40:13 AM2/8/13
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On Sunday, December 1, 2002 8:23:23 AM UTC-5, distantear...@yahoo.com wrote:
> Hi:I'm curious what the origin is of the expression "to hand someone their lunch". I've heard it used to mean something akin to figuratively beating someone badly. Where did this come from and what is the image it is supposed to conjure up which would convey that?

A polite co-worker bringing you something from the staff kitchen??

Mike Lalonde
Sudbury, Ontario
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Evan Kirshenbaum

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Feb 8, 2013, 1:38:37 PM2/8/13
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Lewis <g.k...@gmail.com.dontsendmecopies> writes:

> In message <6e6d99eb-f84a-4698...@googlegroups.com>
> Hanging you head and hanging your hat are entirely different.
>
> But I have no idea where "hand someone his lunch" comes from. I guess I
> always assumed it was somehow related to "send him packing" though I
> can't say why.

My reading has always been that the only personal items most people
would bring with them to a job (other than things they were wearing)
would have been a hat and a lunch box/bag/pail. So if they were
fired, they would be told to take their stuff and and get out.

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Tony Cooper

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Feb 8, 2013, 10:23:26 PM2/8/13
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On Fri, 08 Feb 2013 10:38:37 -0800, Evan Kirshenbaum
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>Lewis <g.k...@gmail.com.dontsendmecopies> writes:
>
>> In message <6e6d99eb-f84a-4698...@googlegroups.com>
>> coach...@gmail.com <coach...@gmail.com> wrote:
>>> On Sunday, December 1, 2002 5:23:23 AM UTC-8, distantear...@yahoo.com wrote:
>>>> Hi:
>>>>
>>>> I'm curious what the origin is of the expression "to hand someone
>>>> their lunch". I've heard it used to mean something akin to
>>>> figuratively beating someone badly. Where did this come from and what
>>>> is the image it is supposed to conjure up which would convey that?
>>
>>>I have heard this phrase rather frequently, and distinctly from
>>>"handing ones head" or 'hat'. I have no idea of its original etymology.
>>
>> Hanging you head and hanging your hat are entirely different.
>>
>> But I have no idea where "hand someone his lunch" comes from. I guess I
>> always assumed it was somehow related to "send him packing" though I
>> can't say why.
>
>My reading has always been that the only personal items most people
>would bring with them to a job (other than things they were wearing)
>would have been a hat and a lunch box/bag/pail. So if they were
>fired, they would be told to take their stuff and and get out.

Hmmm. I haven't heard the expression used that much, but it's always
involved a violent send-off when someone has been handed their lunch.
Like a fist sandwich.

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Curlytop

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Feb 9, 2013, 2:01:51 PM2/9/13
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Evan Kirshenbaum set the following eddies spiralling through the space-time
continuum:

>> But I have no idea where "hand someone his lunch" comes from. I guess I
>> always assumed it was somehow related to "send him packing" though I
>> can't say why.
>
> My reading has always been that the only personal items most people
> would bring with them to a job (other than things they were wearing)
> would have been a hat and a lunch box/bag/pail. So if they were
> fired, they would be told to take their stuff and and get out.

Never heard that one. More usually in the UK one would be handed his "cards"
or his "P45". These expressions refer respectively to the old National
Insurance cards that the employer stamps to indicate that tax has been paid
on the wages, and the form that the person takes to his new employer.
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Harrison Hill

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Feb 9, 2013, 2:21:16 PM2/9/13
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I've never heard it either; so until "Ice Road Truckers" brings it
into the UK, it remains an Americanism.

Mike L

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Feb 9, 2013, 5:15:01 PM2/9/13
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"Lick 'em and stick 'em."

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Robert Bannister

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Feb 9, 2013, 6:18:44 PM2/9/13
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Robert Bannister

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Feb 9, 2013, 6:19:32 PM2/9/13
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On 10/02/13 3:21 AM, Harrison Hill wrote:
To start with, I thought it meant "vomit all over him". It still sounds
like that.
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Evan Kirshenbaum

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Feb 11, 2013, 7:55:14 PM2/11/13
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Lewis <g.k...@gmail.com.dontsendmecopies> writes:

> In message <96gbh81v32s02j4ef...@4ax.com>
> Or if not violent, at least physical. Showing up to a football game and
> being handed your lunch means you got beat badly.

That's the main context. If not getting fired, then maybe just being
metaphorically told that you're not good enough to play. Take your
lunch and go over there with the little kids.

Surprisingly, I don't see it attested in the _NY Times_ until 1990:

"We just had our lunch handed to us," [Phoenix Cardinals' coach
Joe] Bugel said. [12/23/1990]

"I mean, the only place I could've done it was here with Tony,"
Eckersley said. "Because he does it right. You can't overuse me
at my age, or I'll get my lunch handed to me." [10/7/1996]

Wayne Gretzky, who scored one Ranger goal and assisted on the
other two, said "We got our lunch handed to us". [12/17/1998]

The first hit in Google Books is from 1991, in a baseball context:

We had our lunch handed to us tonight, 16-2. None of our pitchers
escaped unscathed.

Fireovid & Winegardner, _The 26th Man_, 1991

I first see it outside a sports context that year:

Market characteristics aside, most experts stress that investing
in commercial real estate is generally a high-stakes game that
should be played only by veterans. "Unless you're a big player,
don't get into commercial buying or you'll get your lunch handed
to you," warns Chicago Title's Pfister.

_Black Enterprise_, June, 1991

If someone has the 1999 _New Dickson Baseball Dictionary_, they might
want to look in there. Google Books implies that there's an entry,
but neither it nor Amazon will show it. I've got the original, 1989,
edition, but it's not in there, which again lobbies for an origin
around 1990. I would have bet money that it was a fair bit older.

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