__Jeff
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Before you buy.
"Proximity to" is the usual choice of educated
English speakers. "Proximity with" is seldom
used. That makes "proximity to" more correct.
Why? Because that's what "correct" means (to
me) in matters of usage.
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Michael West
Melbourne, Australia
Ooooo . . . trolling?
But seriously folks: Michael is, in this context (in others my second
will send in my card, or however that's done) 100% correct. The choice
of preposition in English and--I am told--many, most, or all other
European languages is nearly pure idiosyncracy: little or no logic,
euphony, parallelism, or other guidance. Yet few things make speech or
writing sound more unauthentic (in English and, I would thus suppose,
those other languages) than an infelicitous pronoun. I don't say an
ill selection is "wrong," because it is not truly grammar--alternatives
are logically defensible--but such avoiding such ill selections must be
a high priority for anyone who wants to seem fluent in a language.
The remedy, sad to say, is sheer memorization.
Have you really sen or heard "proximity with"? That would be a new one
on me. Still, as long as it isn't "close proximity with"!
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Cordially,
Eric Walker
Owlcroft House
'With' would imply that the other nearby object is a co-conspirator, which
generally isnt the case. Usually the proximate object is rather uninvolved, it
has no choice in the matter. It cant really be proximate along with you, you
can be proximate to it however.
You and a friend could be proximate with each other proximate to the water
cooler. "I was proximate with Bob to the water cooler as it shattered"