On Apr 10, 11:05 pm, Mike L <
n...@yahoo.co.uk> wrote:
> On Tue, 10 Apr 2012 10:24:36 +0100, Nick Spalding <
spald...@iol.ie>
> wrote:
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> >Peter Brooks wrote, in
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Quite - I understood that it was the personal column, but wasn't clear
if 'agony column' was, in fact, simply as you say, an obvious
jocularity, or if it was a reference to something else well known.
So, now I've looked it up:
[OED]
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1. a.1.a Anguish of mind, sore trouble or distress, a paroxysm of
grief. agony column, (a) the column of a newspaper that contains
special advertisements, particularly those for missing relatives or
friends, and thus often gives evidence of great distress; (b) a
regular newspaper or magazine feature containing readers' questions
about personal difficulties, with replies from the columnist; cf.
problem page s.v. problem 7 (b); agony aunt(ie), a familiar name for
the (female) editor of an agony column (sense b); in extended use, an
adviser on personal, psychological, etc., problems.
c 1386 Chaucer Miller's T. 266 This man is falle‥In som woodnesse,
or in som agonye. 1494 Fabyan v. cxvii. 91 Fredegunda‥sore was
abasshed, and in great fere and agony. 1611 Bible 2 Mac. iii. 14
There was no small agonie throughout the whole citie. 1769 Junius
Lett. xix. 83 He sunk under the charge in an agony of confusion and
despair. 1863 Burton Bk. Hunter 40 It was agony to him to hear the
beggar's cry of distress. 1863 Fun 3 Oct. 23/2 Our own agony
column. 1880 Times 28 Dec. 10/1 A cryptogram in the agony column.
1930 Wyndham Lewis Let. 30 July (1963) 190 The agony-column of the
Times has echoed the rage of people who considered themselves attacked
in the Apes. 1975 P. Makins Evelyn Home Story 9 Perhaps the biggest
obstacle the ‘agony aunties’ faced in the 'thirties was that neither
the queries they dealt with nor the publications which printed them
were taken seriously. Ibid. xiv. 158 The actual writing style of
agony columns has changed quite noticeably over the years. 1979
Observer 11 Mar. 9 Marriage is something I've never wanted and writing
an agony column has confirmed that.—Irma Kurtz. 1979 R. Kent Aunt
Agony Advises xii. 265 Perhaps a university should start an agony
auntie course. 1983 Daily Tel. 7 Nov. 3/4 Confidential counselling
‘agony aunts’—to help police officers under stress is recommended in a
report presented to chief constables. 1984 S. Townsend Growing
Pains A. Mole 19, I can't go on like this. I have written to Auntie
Clara, the Agony Aunt.
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1880 Times 28 Dec. 10/1 In every case of deciphering—whether it be of
a Cypriote inscription of a cryptogram in the agony column.
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1933 ‘N. West’ (title) Miss Lonelyhearts. Ibid. 14 Miss
Lonelyhearts tells the story of a reporter,‥detailed to write an agony
column and answer daily the letters desperate with human misery
addressed to his paper.
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1979 Observer 11 Mar. 9 Marriage is something I've never wanted and
writing an agony column has confirmed that.—Irma Kurtz.
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[agonist]
3.3 One who advertises in an ‘agony column’ (see agony 1 a).
1915 Chambers's Jrnl. 6 Feb. 149/1 Yet somebody must respond, or a
number of the ‘agonists’ would require to retire‥from the business.
1934 I. Brown in Essays of Year 1933–4 p. xx, He even scours the
advertisements, for the Agonists of The Times are often helpful.
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