On 9/26/13 11:22 PM, Mack A. Damia wrote:
> On Thu, 26 Sep 2013 23:07:34 -0600, Jerry Friedman
> <
jerry_f...@yahoo.com> wrote:
>
>> On 9/26/13 10:37 PM, Mack A. Damia wrote:
>>> On Thu, 26 Sep 2013 22:35:06 -0600, Jerry Friedman
>>> <
jerry_f...@yahoo.com> wrote:
>>>
>>>> On 9/26/13 4:38 PM, Mack A. Damia wrote:
[bother and bugger]
>>>>> Is the connection an old (wives') tale?
>>>>>
>>>>> Bugger has nothing to do with bother - although they could be used in
>>>>> the same vein - but not by the same class of people.
>>>>>
>>>>> Bugger comes from the Bulgars of Eastern Europe, a 16th Century sect
>>>>> that practiced anal sex.
The OED says,
< French /bougre/ < Latin /Bulgarus/ Bulgarian, a name given to a sect
of heretics who came from Bulgaria in the 11th cent., afterwards to
other �heretics� (to whom abominable practices were ascribed), also to
usurers.
I wonder whether they're going to revise "abominable".
>>>>> "Bother" is thought to come from the
>>>>> Scottish, "pother". or "bather".
>>>>
>>>> Paul "Curlytop" was saying that "bother" was a euphemism for "bugger",
>>>> not etymologically connected to it. It's like "darn" for "damn".
>>>
>>> So do you question everybody who says, "Oh, bother!"?
>>>
>>> "Did you mean "bugger?"
>>
>> Huh? First, the idea that "bother" is a euphemism for "bugger" was new
>> to me when Paul mentioned it. Second, I don't think I've ever heard
>> anyone say "Oh, bother!" except as a quote from Milne. Third, I don't
>> question people who use what I think are euphemisms, and I don't see why
>> you'd even consider that I might.
>
> I don't and never did. I don't know how you read my reply. It was my
> attempt at making the issue humorous. If somebody (anybody) says,
> "Oh, bother!", do you ask them if they meant, "Oh, bugger!"?
Ah, sometimes I completely miss humor.
> I'm fairly certain I have heard "Oh, bother!", but it's certainly not
> a common phrase.
>
>> On the other hand, I do sometimes ask in a.u.e. how people understand a
>> word.
>
> Back to my original point. Upon what basis does Curlytop have for his
> claim? Are there any references?
That's why I was taking the poll.
The OED doesn't mention the possibility. However, at least the dates
are right. Its first citation for "bugger" as a curse is from 1794, and
for "bother" as a curse from 1841 (/The Old Curiosity Shop/).
Partridge doesn't mention the euphemistic connection for "Bother!" but
he does for "I'll be bothered."
http://books.google.com/books?id=JRuNMHNcu5cC&pg=PT424
Keith Allan and Kate Burridge, in /Euphemism and Dysphemism: Language
Used as Shield and Weapon/, relate it to "blast" and "blow" as
euphemisms for "damn", though they mention that "bugger" may be another
word in this "b" group.
http://books.google.com/books?ei=k4tFUtrkCOn22gXroYGwBg&id=Z8NZAAAAMAAJ&dq=euphemism+bother+bugger&q=bother#search_anchor
http://tinyurl.com/ln6mdt6
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Jerry Friedman