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Dish1991

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Apr 5, 2002, 7:12:56 PM4/5/02
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ok...hubby and i were invited to an event that in the past has always been
black tie. however, the invitation says 'cocktail attire'. ooookaaay?? what
does that mean "exactly"?????

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Mary McCool

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Apr 5, 2002, 7:29:51 PM4/5/02
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Dish1991 wrote:

> ok...hubby and i were invited to an event that in the
> past has always been black tie. however, the invitation
> says 'cocktail attire'. ooookaaay?? what does that
> mean "exactly"?????

You wear a necklace made up of those little cocktail weinies?

You wear clothes that are comfortable to wear when drinking
cocktails?

You wear rooster tail feathers in your hair or hat?

Seriously I believe that means a nice dress or pantsuit for
you and a suit for hubby. Of course, I haven't been to a
cocktail party in years and years. Now if ya'll were in
town, I'd host a cocktail party next week ... with casual
attire!

Mary

Leigh Claffey

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Apr 5, 2002, 7:31:49 PM4/5/02
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Dish1991 wrote:

> ok...hubby and i were invited to an event that in the past has always been
> black tie. however, the invitation says 'cocktail attire'. ooookaaay?? what
> does that mean "exactly"?????
>
> ...

I'm guessing business suits for the guys and 'cocktail dresses' for the ladies?
You might call your host and ask. Sometimes only they know for sure what
they're talking about.
Maybe they've decided that formal is too formal and have adjusted accordingly?
Maybe they're wondering who actually reads the invite for content beyond
RSVP and the time it starts?

--Leigh

Laura M. Young

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Apr 5, 2002, 7:37:09 PM4/5/02
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Dish1991 wrote:

> ok...hubby and i were invited to an event that in the past has always been
> black tie. however, the invitation says 'cocktail attire'. ooookaaay?? what
> does that mean "exactly"?????

I would think for you that would mean a short dress rather than a long.

Teapot Mom

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Apr 5, 2002, 7:55:36 PM4/5/02
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"Dish1991" wrote:

> ok...hubby and i were invited to an event that in the past has always been
> black tie. however, the invitation says 'cocktail attire'. ooookaaay??
what
> does that mean "exactly"?????

I think hubby is supposed to wear a suit and you a 'cocktail' dress, like
the ever popular 'little black dress'. Something very dressy, but not
flashy. When is your big night out? My hubby and I are actually going out
tomorrow to the big city to celebrate our anniversary. But we're not doing
anything near as fancy as you and a cocktail party. We're just doin' dinner
and maybe throw in a movie. Hope you have fun!

Teapot


Tra

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Apr 5, 2002, 8:04:44 PM4/5/02
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Safe bet Dish...dressy little black dress with pearls :)

Dish asked:


>
>ok...hubby and i were invited to an event that in the past has always been
>black tie. however, the invitation says 'cocktail attire'. ooookaaay?? what
>does that mean "exactly"?????
>

Tra
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peggo

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Apr 5, 2002, 9:33:18 PM4/5/02
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"Mary McCool" <mmc...@prodigy.net> wrote in message
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> Dish1991 wrote:
>
> > ok...hubby and i were invited to an event that in the
> > past has always been black tie. however, the invitation
> > says 'cocktail attire'. ooookaaay?? what does that
> > mean "exactly"?????
>
>
> You wear rooster tail feathers in your hair or hat?
>

I like this one best.

> Seriously I believe that means a nice dress or pantsuit for
> you and a suit for hubby.

yep.

> Of course, I haven't been to a
> cocktail party in years and years. Now if ya'll were in
> town, I'd host a cocktail party next week ... with casual
> attire!
>

I really have no idea what a cocktail party is. Is it like a kegger?

> Mary
>

peggo


Dish1991

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Apr 5, 2002, 9:57:33 PM4/5/02
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>From: Mary McCool

>You wear a necklace made up of those little cocktail weinies?

rotflmao!
and pizza bagel earrings!!
haha!!

>You wear rooster tail feathers in your hair or hat?

awe, no roach clip!

hehe ;)

> Of course, I haven't been to a
>cocktail party in years and years. Now if ya'll were in
>town, I'd host a cocktail party next week ... with casual
>attire!

and we'd have a great time! we could play pin the zit on carly!!! or pin a
brain on jason!! of course we'd have to hire a guy like reginald to tend to our
needs, sonny to cook, zander to clean up and roy as the dj!!!

Dish1991

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Apr 5, 2002, 10:00:22 PM4/5/02
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>From: "peggo"

>I really have no idea what a cocktail party is. Is it like a kegger?

oh man peggo! not with the folks who'll be here! rotfreakin floor! they'll have
those blanched aspagus all rolled up in that thin expensive italian ham...not
sure on the spelling, prucutto.

Dish1991

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Apr 5, 2002, 10:04:05 PM4/5/02
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>From: Leigh Claffey

>You might call your host and ask.

oh leigh...these aren't the kind of people you call, ya know what i mean. to
them, everyone's supposed to know this stuff! lol

Dish1991

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Apr 5, 2002, 10:05:05 PM4/5/02
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>From: "Teapot Mom"

>When is your big night out?

the end of the month tea!

>My hubby and I are actually going out
>tomorrow t

we are too!!
:)
enjoy!

Dish1991

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Apr 5, 2002, 10:07:07 PM4/5/02
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>From: tranorris

>Safe bet Dish...dressy little black dress with pearls :)

thanks everyone, but on doing some online research just now, i found out it's
formal. why didn't they just write black tie like every other year????
oh ya, that was when christie whitman was running the show (rep.) now we have
jim mcgreevey :) (dem)!!!

Tra

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Apr 5, 2002, 10:46:33 PM4/5/02
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well then! Get on ebay and buy an inexpensive evening gown *cheap*! That's
what I've done!! :)

Dish wrote:

>thanks everyone, but on doing some online research just now, i found out it's
>formal. why didn't they just write black tie like every other year????
>oh ya, that was when christie whitman was running the show (rep.) now we have
>jim mcgreevey :) (dem)!!!
>
>...

Nic

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Apr 6, 2002, 12:59:21 AM4/6/02
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"Teapot Mom" <este...@attbi.com> wrote in message
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Happy Anniversary Tea! Hope you and hubby have a great time!

Nic


Teapot Mom

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Apr 6, 2002, 11:13:50 AM4/6/02
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"Nic" wrote:

> Happy Anniversary Tea! Hope you and hubby have a great time!

Thanks, Nic. We seldom go anywhere without the kids along, so this should be
nice for a change. Of course, hubby wanted to drive 3 hours away so we could
have dinner with our college daughter, but I nixed that plan. A 40 minute
drive to 'the city' is far enough for me.

Teapot


Mary McCool

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Apr 6, 2002, 11:43:40 AM4/6/02
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Teapot Mom wrote:


> We seldom go anywhere without the kids along, so this
> should be nice for a change. Of course, hubby wanted to
> drive 3 hours away so we could have dinner with our
> college daughter, but I nixed that plan. A 40 minute drive
> to 'the city' is far enough for me.

It's not your daughter's anniversary, after all! How many
years is this? Have a great time!

Mary

Geri P

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Apr 6, 2002, 1:16:52 PM4/6/02
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"Dish1991" <dish...@aol.comNOSPAM> wrote in message
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>
> and we'd have a great time! we could play pin the zit on carly!!! or pin a
> brain on jason!! of course we'd have to hire a guy like reginald to tend
to our
> needs, sonny to cook, zander to clean up and roy as the dj!!!
>
Can we have them dressed like Chippendales? Yum!


Teapot Mom

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Apr 6, 2002, 9:27:31 PM4/6/02
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"Mary McCool" wrote:

> It's not your daughter's anniversary, after all! How many
> years is this? Have a great time!

We ususally include the kids in every thing, so he didn't want her left out.
Neither did I, but I wasn't up to a long trip. This makes 28 years! Yikes!!!
That makes us sound really old, doesn't it? I wouldn't trade away a single
day of it, either. Thanks for the well wishes, Mary.

Teapot


RoseTower

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Apr 8, 2002, 3:04:02 AM4/8/02
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peggo wrote:

Nah, keggers are a lot more fun. Especially, when they fill the water
cooler with kamikazes

Eve

RoseTower

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Apr 8, 2002, 3:06:11 AM4/8/02
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Dish1991 wrote:

> >From: Mary McCool
>
> >You wear a necklace made up of those little cocktail weinies?
>
> rotflmao!
> and pizza bagel earrings!!
> haha!!
>
> >You wear rooster tail feathers in your hair or hat?
>
> awe, no roach clip!
>
> hehe ;)
>
> > Of course, I haven't been to a
> >cocktail party in years and years. Now if ya'll were in
> >town, I'd host a cocktail party next week ... with casual
> >attire!
>
> and we'd have a great time! we could play pin the zit on carly!!! or pin a
> brain on jason!! of course we'd have to hire a guy like reginald to tend to our
> needs, sonny to cook, zander to clean up and roy as the dj!!!

You have ny RSVP right now!

Eve

RoseTower

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Apr 8, 2002, 3:15:59 AM4/8/02
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Geri P wrote:

YES!!! Pleeeeeaaaaseeeee?

Eve

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