I Grew Up In The Children Of God, A Doomsday Cult. Here’s How I Finally Got Out.
Our leader believed the world would burn when the Great Apocalypse arrived.
By Flor Edwards, Guest Writer
Flor Edwards, third from left, and with seven of her siblings in the rural Thai province of Udon Thani. (1987)
COURTESY OF FLOR EDWARDS
Flor Edwards, third from left, and with seven of her siblings in the rural Thai province of Udon Thani. (1987)
Growing up in ― and leaving ― a cult is something from which a person never fully recovers.
My parents met in Spain shortly after they both had joined the Children of God cult in 1978. Mom said she joined because Father David, the charismatic leader of the religious doomsday cult, offered the youth of her generation a purpose in life and a way to serve God without joining a church. One day, when my mother was in Sweden and on her way to buy a ticket to Tunisia in search of some new adventure, she met a man sitting on a street corner strumming a guitar. He told her about Jesus and Father David and living with a group of other followers. The man invited her over for dinner; she joined the Children of God that night.
My dad, although also adventurous, was more known for his sense of daring achievement and insatiable curiosity. Dad, a geology student at the top of his class at the University of California, Davis, quit his studies just weeks before graduating. He followed his five older siblings in joining the Children of God, which had swept through California in the late ’70s, and moved to Spain soon after.
Father David lived in hiding and never revealed his face because he was running from the law due to some of his teachings regarding sexual freedom and child discipline. He passed on his visions and edicts to his 12,000 devotees spread out across the United States, Europe, Southeast Asia, Africa and South America.
Father David believed he needed a large army to prepare the world for the Great Apocalypse, which he claimed would come in 1993. In 1985, he ordered all of his followers to flee Western nations because he thought the West would be the first to burn in the fires of hell.
Father David believed he needed a large army to prepare the world for the Great Apocalypse, which he claimed would come in 1993. In 1985, he ordered all of his followers to flee Western nations and head for developing countries in the East because he thought the West would be the first to burn in the fires of hell. I spent most of my childhood in Thailand, never knowing what was outside the walls of the compound I shared with my family and 30 other members of the Children of God.
By the time I was 12, I could count 24 places I had lived on three continents. In Phuket, Thailand, the gate separating our yard from the dirt road outside was boarded with wood. In the afternoon, when the sun softened its rays, the children were allowed to go outside for one hour as long as we stayed within the perimeters of the walls. When no one was looking, I would press my nose against the metal bars of the gate. I would stare through a tiny crack in the wall where I saw a slow-moving rickshaw, or a shimmering snake, or a mother carrying a child on her back while balancing a bucket on her head.
The children’s wake-up call was at 7 a.m. each day, and our room had to be immaculate by 7:30. We gathered ourselves into neat rows and stood at attention. We filed down the stairs and through the hall just like little soldiers. As we marched, I often heard sounds coming from the narrow, screen-covered windows at the top of the walls. They were the sounds of women moaning, beds creaking and men breathing heavily. We were told the adults, who we were required to call “Uncle” and “Aunty” even if they weren’t related to us, were participating in “God’s love,” and they were encouraged to do so continuously.
It seems like Father David didn’t know he was starting a cult. As a young pastor, he’d been ostracized from the Christian Missionary Alliance after he invited barefoot Native Americans into his Arizona parish and offered them salvation. Father David had wrestled with the constant conflict between his sexual desires and his commitment to follow in the footsteps of his mother, a well-known preacher who spoke to crowds of thousands across the U.S. With the Children of God, he found a way to marry the two.
When the world didn’t end in 1993 as he had predicted, Father David claimed to receive another prophecy that told him it was time to move his followers back to the West. My family of 13 relocated to Illinois and joined a home with 30 other members in the Chicago suburb of Berwyn.
The first difference I noticed about life in America was that the only protection we had from the outside world was a chain-link fence that reached to my waist. The second thing I noticed was how plentiful the food was. When we woke up on our first morning in the U.S., we found a bowl of sweet, thick-skinned oranges on the dining room table. We were allowed to eat even if it wasn’t mealtime ― even if we weren’t hungry ― something I’d never experienced before.
Edwards in Phuket, Thailand, taking a photo to illustrate homeschooling (1989).
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Edwards in Phuket, Thailand, taking a photo to illustrate homeschooling (1989).
On the morning of Feb. 15, 1995, we gathered in the living room of our compound for the annual birthday celebration of Father David. We were told there would be a special announcement after breakfast. A light snow had begun to fall. I noticed that some of the adults had been acting a bit differently ― both pensive and somber ― over the previous few days. There was a strange sensation of electricity buzzing in the air.
Then the words I never expected to hear echoed through the living room: “Our beloved Father in the Lord has gone to be with Jesus.”
There was a moment of silence so sharp I could almost hear the fresh snow flakes settling on the sidewalk outside. The adults immediately broke into tears.
Uncle Tim, the home leader, said we’d discuss details of how the family would move forward without Father David by utilizing The Charter, a new book of rules that had been issued by Mama Maria, Father David’s wife.
According to The Charter, adults could now live wherever they chose and with whom they wished ― as long as they lived with three other consenting adults, tithed 10 percent of their income to the leadership, continued to witness to non-believers, and stayed updated with the cult by reading monthly mailings sent out by Mama Maria. Because of their newfound freedom, some of the adults opened communication with their families and relatives after years of absence.
My dad found a small, three-bedroom house with cheap rent a few blocks from where we had initially settled. Another couple, Steven and Mary, joined us in our new home. Our parents told my siblings and me that they still wanted to be part of the Children of God and that they intended to follow The Charter. “Our goals might be different now without Father David’s guidance,” Mom said, but she still seemed excited to be following his mission.
We continued to try to keep the daily routine we’d followed when we lived communally in the Children of God’s compound. There were 11 kids in our family, plus Steven and Mary’s three children, and Mom divided up the chores amongst everyone. The women in the family took care of the children while Dad, my older brother and Uncle Steven were responsible for getting the money we needed for food and utilities by selling goods at local swap meets. After spending two very difficult years in Chicago trying to make ends meet with no savings, stable jobs or traditional education to lean on, my family moved to California to live near my dad’s sister. Steven and Mary went to live with relatives in the Philippines.
The author (first row, second from right) and several of her siblings witnessing to Thai locals (1987).
COURTESY OF FLOR EDWARDS
The author (first row, second from right) and several of her siblings witnessing to Thai locals (1987).
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Dad enrolled me, as well as my sisters Tamar and Mary Ann, in a home-schooling supplemental course called HOPES: Home Opportunity Program for Educational Success. I was 15 years old and had never attended any kind of true schooling program. It was my first step toward a future outside of the Children of God ― something I desperately wanted ― and I was thrilled. It wasn’t long before Tamar, Mary Ann and I decided we wanted to go to public school. More than that, we wanted normal lives. We weren’t exactly sure what that meant but we knew it meant starting over and leaving behind everything we’d known from the moment we were born. So, after the slow disintegration of the cult following Father David’s death, and with no real structure or guidance left in place beyond the mailings of Mama Maria, Mom and Dad decided we would leave the Children of God.
Aside from starting school, which I whole-heartedly took to almost immediately despite finding it incredibly strange due to its sheer newness, I began reading books and magazines and watching movies and TV ― things that had been forbidden while I was growing up in the Children of God. One day, I stopped at the library on my way home from school and picked up an issue of Seventeen Magazine. Flipping through it in my bedroom, I found a feature titled, “Did You Grow Up in a Cult? Take this Quiz and Find Out Now.”
After taking the quiz in what must have been record time, I came to a line that read, “If you have answered ‘yes’ to three or more of these five questions, you may have grown up in a cult.” I had answered yes to all five.
For a moment my world tumbled out of orbit. I knew my upbringing had been unorthodox ― to say the least ― but I had never realized exactly how different my experiences had been compared to those of other kids. As unbelievable as it may seem, it took a silly quiz in a magazine to make me begin to understand what I had been through and who I was because of it. I just kept repeating, “Oh my God! I grew up in a cult. OH MY GOD! I GREW UP IN A CULT!”
An avalanche of thoughts overwhelmed me as I began, for the very first time, to try to unravel the knots of my past. I had never chosen to join the Children of God ― it was a life I was born into and then forced to endure for 15 years. I was a victim and I suddenly saw my parents in a completely new light. At the same time, I knew they were also victims, both of Father David and of the mainstream world they were trying to escape by joining the Children of God. So, who could I blame? Father David was dead. My parents were struggling to make it in a world with which they had a complicated relationship. As hard as I tried, I found I just couldn’t be mad at them.
After taking the magazine quiz, I came to a line that read, ‘If you have answered ‘yes’ to three or more of these five questions, you may have grown up in a cult.’ I had answered yes to all five.
I knew there was no way to go back and change things in the past, but I was here, alive and finally free. For now, all I could do was cope with the present ― the unbearable now. I realized for me, the worst part about growing up in or joining a cult was actually leaving the cult. When the safety net that the leader carefully wove to manipulate the vulnerabilities and weaknesses of its members was ripped out ― or willingly cut ― it was a long, slow and harsh descent into reality.
As more time passed without the leadership of Father David to anchor the Children of God, more and more members left the church and went to live near their families while taking up the difficult task of attempting to adjust to life in the real world. Others sent their children out into the world while they continued to remain in the Children of God. Stories of kids who had left the cult and died by suicide shortly began to surface. I felt lucky to have the support and love of my parents and siblings ― and to not have been abused, as I knew some of the second-generation members of the cult had been. My family had its share of unique struggles because of our past, but we were together and we began to cope ― and even heal ― in our own ways.
The Children of God slowly disbanded. It still exists under the name The Family International, but it claims to be an independent group of missionaries with a few members scattered in various countries doing what is called “charity work” ― supposedly helping at orphanages, distributing food to those in need and helping with disaster relief.
The author at a reading of her memoir, 'Apocalypse Child: A Life in End Times.' (2018)
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The author at a reading of her memoir, ‘Apocalypse Child: A Life in End Times.’ (2018)
Having been denied an education for most of my life, my schooling became my top priority as I continued to try to process what I had been through ― the life I had led up until that point. When I was 17, I enrolled in Mt. San Antonio College, a community college nestled in the foothills of Mt. Baldy, even though I had grown up never knowing that colleges even existed.
No one in my family ever returned of the Children of God and none of us have any kind of contact with the community. Some of my siblings went on to pursue their degrees, some are working, while others succumbed to the path of addiction like many children who grew up in the Children of God did. My father earned his masters in mathematics and became a tenured professor while my mother battled and healed from an advanced stage of cancer.
I don’t think I’ll ever be able to fully explain what it’s like to try to adjust to “normal” life after being raised in such abnormal circumstances. I know my childhood is something I can never get back, so instead of focusing on the past, I have spent every day since I left the Children of God choosing to focus on my future. Now, 20 years after finding freedom, I continue to be passionate about education and I am currently pursuing a second graduate degree to become a college professor. Eventually, I want to work with disadvantaged students in colleges and universities in hopes of helping them to find their own voices and think independently. After spending so much time as a prisoner of someone else’s way of seeing the world, I can think of nothing more important.
Flor Edwards is an author and lives in Los Angeles. Her memoir, Apocalypse Child: A Life in End Times, was published in 2018. Visit her website here.
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4. Joaquin Phoenix
The renegade thesp, along with his late brother River and their other siblings, were raised by his parents in the Children of God cult, originally founded by David Berg, in Puerto Rico, then moved around South America.
His parents soon became disillusioned by the cult's dangerous practices, which allegedly involved child molestation, changed their last name from "Bottom" to "Phoenix," and broke away back to the US in the late '70s. Before getting their children into acting, the Phoenix parents made their kids perform on the streets for money (fun!).
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Joaquin Phoenix and Rose McGowan Spent Their Early Years in a Religious Cult. Then it Became Infamous.
Here's what you need to know about the Children of God.
By Gabrielle Bruney
Oct 5, 2019
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Joker star Joaquin Phoenix had an unconventional early childhood, living in Venezuela, Florida, and eventually Hollywood with his peripatetic parents and siblings Summer, Liberty, Rain, and late fellow actor River. But until Phoenix was around three years old in 1977, the family were followers of the Children of God, a cult helmed by a rogue preacher called David Berg that would later become notorious amid allegations of child sexual abuse. And he’s not the only celebrity who spent some of their early years in the group—Rose McGowan also spent part of her childhood in the cult. Here’s what you need to know.
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Who are the Children of God?
In 1968, preacher David Brandt Berg founded a group initially called Teens for Christ, which at first consisted of young runaways and hippies. This church would evolve into the Children of God, which at one point counted 15,000 members around the world.
The church believed in group living and zealous proselytizing, and soon grew to include hundreds of communes. Members of these communities could be isolated, as they didn’t work—people who held real-world jobs were called “systemites”—or send their children to school.
Berg’s church melded worship of Jesus Christ with ’60s-era free love, and preached a fairly standard cult leader prophecy—the apocalypse was coming, and soon. This doomsday predication encouraged his followers to live hand-to-mouth rather than making long-term plans; ex-members later told The Guardian of begging for alms and subsisting off of donated food.
Happy family atmosphere provided by religious groups such as this Toronto gathering of the Children ...
Members of the Children of God dance in Toronto in 1972.
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What are the allegations against the group?
The cult earned notoriety for its sexual practices, which included what Berg dubbed “flirty fishing,” and which found him ordering female followers to have sex with men in order to bring them into the cult. In 1979, he reported that “flirty fishers” had added 19,000 members to the group’s ranks. "It was religious prostitution," one of Berg's daughters told Timeline in 2017.
Joaquin Phoenix told Vanity Fair that the introduction of the "flirty fishing" policy drove his parents to leave the group. "They got some letter, or however it came, some suggestion of that," he said, "and they were like, 'Fuck this, we’re outta here.’"
His mother, Heart Phoenix, told the magazine that "it took several years to get over our pain and loneliness" after leaving the group. Rose McGowan’s family also escaped the cult during her childhood.
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Members of the group sit down to a communal meal in 1974 California.
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Some in the cult reportedly extended its sexual policies to children, allegedly permitting and even encouraging child sex abuse. Berg himself was accused of sexual abusing young girls, including his daughters and granddaughters. "It definitely wasn’t a safe place to grow up, especially if you were a girl," one former member told The Guardian in 2017. "Close friends of mine growing up were abused and raped."
In 1993, a former member of the group named Ricky Dupuy appeared on Larry King Live, and told the host that he’d been ordered by the group to rape a 10-year-old. Dupuy, like other ex-members of the group, later committed suicide.
David Berg died in 1994, and at the time of his death he was under investigation from both Interpol and the FBI. His wife, Karen Zerby, inherited leadership. But the cult landed in the headlines again in 2005 after their son, Ricky Rodriguez, killed himself and another former member of the group.
Rodriguez was well-known in the cult—his childhood had been recounted in a parenting manual spread among the members. The New York Times, after reviewing pages of the book sent by former followers, reported that in it, "the toddler Ricky is described or else pictured as watching intercourse and orgies, fondling his nanny's breasts and having his genitals fondled."
Rodriguez left the cult in adulthood, and his wife told The Times that he wanted his mother “prosecuted for child abuse.” He also supported other women’s accounts that Berg had sexually abused his own daughters and granddaughters.
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Children of God followers worship in 1980 Germany.
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At the age of 29, Rodriguez invited one of his former nannies—a woman who appeared in the book documenting his alleged abuse—and stabbed her to death before killing himself. His wife gave reporters a video he recorded the night before the murder-suicide. "He said he saw himself as a vigilante avenging children like him and his sisters who had been subject to rapes and beatings," wrote The Times of the footage.
A spokeswoman for the group recently told the BBC that, "although the Family International has apologized on a number of occasions to former members for any hurt, real or perceived, that they may have suffered during their time in our membership, we do not give credence to tales of institutionalized abuse."
What is the status of the group now?
In 2004, the church again changed its name to the Family International. In the years following Berg’s death, the group relaxed many of its demands of its followers in an apparent attempt to boost declining membership. Followers are now allowed to live in private homes and work outside of the cult. In 2009, the leadership announced that they no longer believed the apocalypse to be imminent. The church still exists, and though its website says that the group underwent a “reorganization in 2010 as an online community,” it claims to have 1,700 members.
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The Family International
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Not to be confused with Family, The Fellowship (Christian organization), or The Family (Australian New Age group).
The Family International
Abbreviation TFI
Type Christian cult
Leader Karen Zerby (1994–present)
Founder David Berg
Branched from The Family
Other name(s) Teens for Christ
The Children of God
The Family of Love
The Family
Official website
thefamilyinternational.org
The Family International (TFI) is a cult[1][2] that was founded in Huntington Beach, California, US in 1968. It was originally named Teens for Christ and it later gained notoriety as The Children of God (COG). It was later renamed and reorganized as The Family of Love, which was eventually shortened to The Family. It is currently named The Family International.
Contents
1 Overview
2 History
2.1 The Children of God (1968–1977)
2.2 The Family of Love (1978–1981)
2.3 The Family (1982–1994)
2.4 The Family (1995–2003)
2.5 The Family International (2004–present)
2.6 Recent teachings
2.6.1 Spirit Helpers
2.6.2 The Keys of the Kingdom
2.6.3 Loving Jesus
3 Issues
4 Reception
5 Notable members (past and present)
5.1 Raised in the COG as children, but left it later in their lives
6 Media featuring the group
7 See also
8 References
9 Further reading
9.1 Academic
9.2 Journalistic and popular
10 External links
Overview
TFI initially spread a message of salvation, apocalypticism, spiritual "revolution and happiness" and distrust of the outside world, which the members called The System. In 1976,[3] it began a method of evangelism called Flirty Fishing that used sex to "show God's love and mercy" and win converts, resulting in controversy.[4] TFI's founder and prophetic leader, David Berg (who was first called "Moses David" in the Texas press), gave himself the titles of "King", "The Last Endtime Prophet", "Moses", and "David".
He communicated with his followers via "Mo Letters"—letters of instruction and counsel on myriad spiritual and practical subjects—until his death in late 1994.[5] After his death, his widow Karen Zerby became the leader of TFI, taking the titles of "Queen" and "Prophetess". She married Steve Kelly (also known as Peter Amsterdam), an assistant of Berg's whom Berg had handpicked as her "consort". Kelly took the title of "King Peter" and became the face of TFI, speaking in public more often than either David Berg or Karen Zerby. There have been multiple allegations of child sexual abuse made by past members.[6][7]
History
The Children of God (1968–1977)
Members of The Children of God (COG) founded communes, first called colonies (now referred to as homes), in various cities. They would proselytize in the streets and distribute pamphlets. Leaders within COG were referred to as The Chain.
The founder of the movement, David Brandt Berg (1919–1994), was a former Christian and Missionary Alliance pastor.[8]
Berg communicated with his followers by writing letters. He published nearly 3,000 letters over a period of 24 years, referred to as the Mo Letters.[9] In a letter written in January 1972, Berg stated that he was God's prophet for the contemporary world, attempting to further solidify his spiritual authority within the group. Berg's letters also contained public acknowledgement of his own failings and weaknesses.[10][verification needed]
By 1972, COG had 130 communities around the world.[11]
The Children of God was abolished in February 1978. Berg reorganized the movement amid reports of serious misconduct and financial mismanagement, The Chain's abuse of authority, and disagreements within it about the continued use of Flirty Fishing. The group was also accused of sexually abusing and raping minors within the organization, with considerable evidence to support this claim. One-eighth of the total membership left the movement. Those who remained became part of a reorganized movement called the Family of Love, and later, The Family. The majority of the group's beliefs remained the same.[12]
The Family of Love (1978–1981)
A form of love bombing, Flirty Fishing encouraged female members to enter sexual relationships with potential converts
The Family of Love era was characterized by international expansion.
In 1976, before the dissolution of The Children of God,[3] David Berg had introduced a new proselytizing method called Flirty Fishing (or FFing), which encouraged female members to "show God's love" through sexual relationships with potential converts. Flirty Fishing was practiced by members of Berg's inner circle starting in 1973, and was introduced to the general membership in 1976 and became common practice within the group. In some areas flirty fishers used escort agencies to meet potential converts. According to TFI "over 100,000 received God's gift of salvation through Jesus, and some chose to live the life of a disciple and missionary" as a result of Flirty Fishing.[12] Researcher Bill Bainbridge obtained data from TFI suggesting that, from 1974 until 1987, members had sexual contact with 223,989 people while practicing Flirty Fishing.[13]
The Family (1982–1994)
In March 1989, TF issued a statement that, in "early 1985", an urgent memorandum had been sent to all members "reminding them that any such activities [adult–child sexual contact] are strictly forbidden within our group" (emphasis in original), and such activities were grounds for immediate excommunication from the group.[14] In January 2005, Claire Borowik, a spokesperson for TFI, stated:
Due to the fact that our current zero-tolerance policy regarding sexual interaction between adults and underage minors was not in our literature published before 1986, we came to the realization that during a transitional stage of our movement, from 1978 until 1986, there were cases when some minors were subject to sexually inappropriate advances ... This was corrected officially in 1986, when any contact between an adult and minor (any person under 21 years of age) was declared an excommunicable offense.[15]
The Family (1995–2003)
After Berg's death in October 1994, Karen Zerby (known in the group as Mama Maria, Queen Maria, Maria David, or Maria Fontaine), assumed leadership of the group.
In February 1995, the group introduced the Love Charter,[16] which defined the rights and responsibilities of Charter Members and Homes. The Charter also included the Fundamental Family Rules, a summary of rules and guidelines from past TF publications which were still in effect.
In the 1994–95 British court case, the Rt. Hon. Lord Justice Alan Ward ruled that the group, including some of its top leaders, had in the past engaged in abusive sexual practices involving minors and had also used severe corporal punishment and sequestration of minors.[17] He found that by 1995 TF had abandoned these practices and concluded that they were a safe environment for children. Nevertheless, he did require that the group cease all corporal punishment of children in the United Kingdom and denounce any of Berg's writings that were "responsible for children in TF having been subjected to sexually inappropriate behaviour".[18]
The Family International (2004–present)
The Love Charter is The Family's set governing document that entails each member's rights, responsibilities and requirements, while the Missionary Member Statutes and Fellow Member Statutes were written for the governance of TFI's Missionary member and Fellow Member circles, respectively. FD Homes were reviewed every six months against a published set of criteria. The Love Charter increased the number of single family homes as well as homes that relied on jobs such as self-employment.[19]
Recent teachings
TFI's recent teachings are based on beliefs which they term the "new [spiritual] weapons". TFI members believe that they are soldiers in the spiritual war of good versus evil for the souls and hearts of men.
Spirit Helpers
These include angels, departed humans, other religious and mythical figures, and even celebrities; for example the goddess Aphrodite, the Snowman, Merlin, the Sphinx, Elvis,[20] Marilyn Monroe, Audrey Hepburn,[21] Richard Nixon, and Winston Churchill.
The Keys of the Kingdom
TFI believes that the Biblical passage "I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven, and whatsoever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatsoever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven",[22] refers to an increasing amount of spiritual authority that was given to Peter and the early disciples. According to TFI beliefs, this passage refers to keys that were hidden and unused in the centuries that followed, but were again revealed through Karen Zerby as more power to pray and obtain miracles. TFI members call on the various Keys of the Kingdom for extra effect during prayer. The Keys, like most TFI beliefs, were published in magazines that looked like comic-books in order to make them teachable to children.[23] These beliefs are still generally held and practiced, even after the "reboot" documents of 2010.
Loving Jesus
This is a term TFI members use to describe their intimate, sexual relationship with Jesus. TFI describes its "Loving Jesus" teaching as a radical form of bridal theology.[24] They believe the church of followers is Christ's bride, called to love and serve him with wifely fervor. But they take bridal theology further, encouraging members to imagine Jesus is joining them during sexual intercourse and masturbation. Male members are cautioned to visualize themselves as women, in order to avoid a homosexual relationship with Jesus. Many TFI publications, and spirit messages claimed to be from Jesus himself, elaborate this intimate, sexual relation they believe Jesus desires and needs. TFI imagines itself as his special "bride" in graphic poetry, guided visualizations, artwork,[25] and songs.[26] Some TFI literature is not brought into conservative countries for fear it may be classified at customs as pornography.[27] The literature outlining this view of Jesus and his desire for a sexual relationship with believers was edited for younger teens,[28] then further edited for children.[29]
Issues
Second-generation adults (known as "SGAs") are adults born or reared in TFI.
Anti-TFI sentiment has been publicly expressed by some who have left the group; examples include sisters Celeste Jones, Kristina Jones, and Juliana Buhring, who wrote a book[30] on their lives in TFI.[31]
TFI members are expected to respect legal and civil authorities where they live. Members have typically cooperated with appointed authorities, even during the police and social-service raids of their communities in the early 1990s.[32]
Reception
The group has been criticized by the press and the anti-cult movement. In 1971, an organization called FREECOG was founded by concerned parents and others, including deprogrammer Ted Patrick, to "free" members of the COG from their involvement in the group. Academics were divided[citation needed], with some[who?] categorizing TFI as a "new religious movement", and others, such as Benjamin Beit-Hallahmi[33] and John Huxley,[34] labeling the group a "cult".
Notable members (past and present)
Jeremy Spencer, blues slide guitarist and a founding member of Fleetwood Mac, which he left in 1971 when he joined TFI.[35]
Raised in the COG as children, but left it later in their lives
Christopher Owens: musician, of San Francisco indie band Girls, was brought up in TFI by his parents.[36][37]
Celeste Jones and Kristina Jones: co-authors, along with Juliana Buhring, of Not Without My Sister, an autobiography detailing extensive abuse they suffered in COG.[38] This book is used by the organization RAINN as a reference for child sexual abuse victims.
Juliana Buhring: first woman to bicycle around the world[39] and co-author of Not Without My Sister.
Rose McGowan: film actress, described her TFI childhood in interviews with Howard Stern,[40] People magazine[41] and later in her book "Brave".
River Phoenix, Joaquin Phoenix, Rain Phoenix, and Summer Phoenix: actors, were members of the group (with their sister Liberty Phoenix) from 1972 to 1978. River Phoenix, who died of a drug overdose in 1993, told Details magazine in November 1991 that "they're ruining people's lives."[42]
Susan Justice: American pop rock singer-songwriter and guitarist, known best for her debut self-recorded album, The Subway Recordings.
Tina Dupuy: American journalist and syndicated columnist.
Ricky Rodriguez: subject of the suppressed manual advocating adult-child sexual contact, committed a murder-suicide in 2005, killing one of the women who raised and allegedly sexually abused him, then himself.[6]
Lauren Hough: author,[43] brought up in TFI.
Flor Edwards, author, [44] who was raised inside the cult before her parents moved out.
Dawn Watson: Brazilian, victim of sexual abuse while living in a TFI community.[7]
Taylor Stevens, author, [45]brought up in the cult from age 12 until she left in her twenties with her two children.
Media featuring the group
The Jesus Trip (1971), a documentary by Denis Tuohy that has interviews with Children of God members.
Children of God (1994), a 63-minute Channel 4 documentary by John Smithson; detailing the Padilla family and the abuse of their three underage daughters and the death of another.
Children of God: Lost and Found, a 75-minute documentary by Noah Thomson, featured at the 2007 Slamdance Film Festival[46]
Cult Killer: The Rick Rodriguez Story (53-minute UK documentary with transcript)[47]
In the first episode of Louis Theroux's Weird Weekends, "Born Again Christians", Louis visits a Texas TFI family.
Buzzcocks mentions the group (as "Children Of God") in their song, "Orgasm Addict".
RedLetterMedia featured the Family International video "S.O.S." on an episode of "Best of the Worst."[48]
Mentioned in Tony Robbins: I Am Not Your Guru documentary at 52 minutes of the film as an organization where children are forced to have sex from the age of six.[49]
The Parcast Podcast Cults: Episodes 11 & 12.[50]
Citizen Rose: A five part documentary series shown on the E! Channel. The first episode premiered on January 30, 2018. The series follows actress Rose McGowan who was born into the cult.
The Last Podcast on the Left did a four part series on the cult: Episodes 248-251
The Dan Cummins podcast Timesuck covered the cult in episode 104, "The Children of God Sex Cult."
A&E's Cults and Extreme Belief, episode 3 (2018) is about the Children of God.[51]
See also
Comet Kohoutek was viewed by David Berg as a prophetic sign of imminent disaster.
Jim Palosaari co-formed the Jesus People Army, left it before the group joined the Children of God, and tried to convince Linda Meissner not to join it.
Love bombing describes a manipulative style of recruiting.
Panton Hill, Victoria, the location of one of the communes, where a large government raid occurred and many children were removed by social services
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