WESTERFIELD'S MOTHER SPEAKS - *He's a Horn Dog*
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(06-26-2002) - Death Penalty Would Mean Loss of Second Son
By David Gotfredson, LOCAL 8 News
It may be impossible to imagine the range of emotions a mother goes through
following the death of a son. But at the age of 69, Laura Nan Westerfield
is facing the possibility of going through that painful experience a second
time.
Laura Westerfield’s youngest son, Earl Edson Westerfield, died of AIDS at
the age of 36. Now her first born, 50-year-old David Westerfield, is facing
the possibility of a death sentence in one of the most heinous crimes in
San Diego County history: the kidnapping and murder of 7-year-old Danielle
van Dam.
Laura Westerfield lives alone in a one-bedroom apartment behind the walls
of a gated, senior complex in Clairemont. An avid reader of novels, Ms.
Westerfield fancies herself an amateur sleuth.
“I love to read mystery novels. It used to take me until the final two
chapters to guess who did it. Now, I can guess before I’m halfway through.
There’s always something that gives you a clue,” she recently commented.
But, when it comes to the real-life mystery of her son’s murder case, Laura
Westerfield has no clues. Asked about possible psychological events in
David Westerfield’s childhood that could lead him to cold-blooded murder,
Ms. Westerfield responded, “There’s nothing.”
“He didn’t cut off puppy dog tails. He never hurt anybody in all his life,”
she said.
Confronted with the pile of evidence in the murder of Danielle van Dam, Ms.
Westerfield alternates between defending her son and disbelief.
“I am predisposed to the fact that he did not do this. (David) wouldn’t do
something like that.”
“What happened? Can somebody tell me what happened? How could he have
possibly done it? I did the best I could. He’s a great person. I have no
idea how the hell it happened. Something happened to him.”
Of the van Dam family, Ms. Westerfield says she understands their pain.
“I should know how awful it is to lose a child,” she said. “When Danielle
first went missing, I cried for the mother. Poor little girl, I would have
loved to hug her.”
David Alan Westerfield is the oldest of three children. His sister, Tania
Pecina, lives in Clairemont in the same house where she and her siblings
were raised from the time they were teenagers. Pecina has three children:
one from a previous marriage and two by her present husband. Westerfield’s
brother Earl, the middle child in the family, was openly gay and died of
AIDS in 1990.
The family was aware of Earl Westerfield’s sexual preference from the time
he was a young boy, according to his mother. “I started noticing there was
something different about Earl about the time he was five years old,” she
said.
Earl Westerfield’s infection with HIV, which he contracted from a longtime
companion, eventually led to his hospitalization. The Westerfield family
supported him financially through a series of costly treatments until his
death at an Oceanside hospice called Fraternity House.
“I hugged Earl the day before he died. I wrapped my arms around him and he
was just bones. I told him he could die. He asked me if it would be okay
and I said yes,” recalled Ms. Westerfield. “It was a hard time for the
family.”
David Westerfield was not overly distraught by his brother’s passing,
according to Ms. Westerfield. “Alan was close to his brother, but he dealt
with it,” she said. (In conversation, Laura Westerfield refers to her son
by his middle name, Alan, because his father was also named David).
Ms. Westerfield’s late husband, David Horatio Westerfield -- who died in
1993 of colon cancer -- served as a lawmaker in the Maine House of
Representatives in 1961. He and Laura Westerfield divorced when “Alan” was
26.
David H. Westerfield graduated in 1949 from Point Loma High School and
attended San Diego State University for three and a half years. He studied
archeology but never received a degree.
“He never did quite make it. He didn’t think it was important,” Ms.
Westerfield said of her late husband.
Preferring artistic endeavors, David H. Westerfield held a variety of jobs
during his time in San Diego, including landscape architect, still
photographer, portrait artist and magazine layout editor. Laura Westerfield
herself also worked for a number of years doing layout and editing for
Dicta, a San Diego law magazine.
Ms. Westerfield describes her son’s relationship with his father as normal,
although she admits her late husband was authoritative, if not strict.
“Well, I wouldn’t say strict, but he wouldn’t give you more than two or
three chances to do what he said,” she remembered.
David H. Westerfield filed for divorce in 1978, although it was Laura
Westerfield who first left home. “I finally got out of that situation after
25 years of being subjugated,” she said.
“We grew apart. In fact, I was bored – empty nest syndrome. It wasn’t very
difficult, just one of those things that had to happen.”
“I ran away from home. I left him the house. I left him his daughter. Both
the boys were gone. They moved out of the house when they were 18. That was
the rule of the house. When you’re 18, you move out. You’re old enough to
look after yourself. And Alan was. He was old enough at 14.”
“We supported (the children) as best we could when they moved out. Set them
up in apartments. I had been saving some money for them. All the things
moms do.”
Regardless of the problems in her marriage, Ms. Westerfield insists there
was never any physical or sexual abuse within the family, and certainly
none involving her son “Alan.” She describes the family unit as close
during David Westerfield’s childhood.
“We talked about everything under the sun at the dinner table. It was a
rule. You had to be there at six o’clock every day.”
David Alan Westerfield spent most of his life in San Diego County. Born in
National City’s Paradise Hospital in 1952, he lived with his parents and
siblings in Point Loma and Clairemont until he was five. That’s when the
family moved to Maine, where they stayed for 11 years, according to Ms.
Westerfield.
At the age of 15, David Westerfield returned with his family to
Clairemont – his mother is a San Diego native – and attended Madison High
School where he graduated with the Class of 1970.
Laura Westerfield says her son tried out for football at Madison High but
left the team after playing just one game. She says “Alan” became upset
with the coaches and players for what he perceived as poor sportsmanship.
“The coaches wanted the players to (hit) the opposing players with known
injuries. Alan was disgusted by this and told me he didn’t want to play
football anymore,” she said.
On another occasion, Ms. Westerfield remembers her son getting into a fight
with one of the other football players and punching him in the face.
Ms. Westerfield says her son was not exceedingly popular at school. “He was
the biggest square you’ve ever seen,” she recalled, using her fingers to
outline the shape of a box. Asked whether her son ever smoked marijuana,
Ms. Westerfield said, “Not that I know of. Alan was just too square.”
A neighbor who lived across the street from the Westerfields for three
decades described David Westerfield during his teenage years as a loner.
“He was a very quiet, private person. You couldn’t get two words out of
him,” the neighbor said. “I don’t think he had any friends at school ever.”
Classmates describe David Westerfield as being involved in math and
engineering clubs, though his high school senior yearbook does not list him
as a member of any social, athletic or academic group.
After graduating high school, Westerfield attended Mesa College for three
years, and worked at Saska’s restaurant in Mission Beach during the early
1970s, his mother said.
Madison High School was also the place where David Westerfield met his
first wife, Deborah Kyle. They were high school sweethearts. The two
married in 1973, when Westerfield was 21 and Kyle was 19. They were married
for six years and had no children before divorcing in 1979. Kyle now lives
in Rancho Penasquitos.
Eight months after his divorce, Westerfield married Jackie Neal in December
of 1979. He was 27; she was 21. Eventually, the couple had two children,
Lisa and Neal Westerfield. (Neal’s first name also is David but he goes by
his middle name.)
“Alan was a good father to his children,” according to Ms. Westerfield. “He
hugged his son. Something I could never get his father to do.”
During his 17-year marriage to Jackie Neal, David Westerfield’s career as a
design engineer developed. He worked for several North County companies
before creating his own business in 1995, Spectrum Design.
Westerfield currently holds three U.S. patents: one for a surgically
implanted knuckle prosthesis, another for a continuous passive motion
device used in knee surgery rehabilitation, and a third for a metal pulley.
Friends say he also designed the mechanism for a popular line of electric
garage door openers.
Sources close to the family described Westerfield as a demanding husband
who enjoyed a party lifestyle, often returning home in the early hours of
the morning. He and his wife Jackie Neal separated in July of 1995. She
filed for divorce three months later and the dissolution became final in
June of 1996. The couple received joint custody of their two children, now
ages 21 and 18. Lisa and Neal Westerfield live with their mother in Poway
and attend college.
In recent years, David Westerfield’s drinking and womanizing became more
prevalent, according to his mother. These traits he apparently had in
common with his father.
“Alan’s a horn dog. That’s what my daughter calls him. She called her
father that, too,” said Ms. Westerfield. “I think Alan taught his father a
few things about (womanizing). They would go out together after the
divorce.”
On March 2, 1996, San Diego Police arrested David Westerfield for the first
time. An officer noticed Westerfield “weaving from side to side” on
Northbound Interstate 15 near Highway 52. Westerfield did poorly on a field
sobriety test and was booked into jail with a blood alcohol level almost
twice the legal limit.
The DUI appears to be David Westerfield’s only criminal conviction and it
came as a complete surprise to his mother.
“Alan never drank. Never. That’s why this whole last year is so out of
character. He had a DUI. Ick!”
Court records show that Laura Westerfield has two drunken driving
convictions of her own, one from 1983 and one from 1990. In 1991, Ms.
Westerfield also was convicted of driving on a suspended driver’s license,
according to court records.
David Westerfield purchased his home on Mountain Pass Road in Sabre Springs
in June of 1996, according to property records. (The van Dams moved into
the neighborhood two years later.)
In October of 1998, a woman Westerfield had been dating for about two
months moved into his Sabre Springs home with her two children from a
previous marriage, a boy and a girl ages 14 and 11 respectively. Tamera
Weibrecht apparently was engaged to Westerfield for a short time but the
relationship did not last long. Weibrecht and her two children moved out
nine months later because of Westerfield’s “party lifestyle,” according
Weibrecht’s present husband Jim Graves.
“He liked to party, but at some point that gets pretty old. At some point
you have to give that up and settle down,” said Graves. “That’s what Tamera
wanted to do. She also had an interest in religion and (Westerfield) didn’t
want anything to do with religion.”
Weibrecht had no comment regarding her domestic relationship with
Westerfield, which ended in 1999. Graves says police officers have spoken
with both of the children and there is no evidence of any sexual abuse
involving Westerfield and Weibrecht’s kids.
In 2000, Westerfield found himself living with another woman in virtually
the same scenario.
Susan Lelek met Westerfield at the Big Stone Lodge in Poway and dated him
for about three months before moving into Westerfield’s Sabre Springs home
with her 15-year-old daughter and 9-year-old son. The relationship lasted a
bout a year until the couple “grew apart,” said Lelek.
Lelek recently defended Westerfield during an interview in Mira Mesa, where
she is now living with her children. Lelek says photographs taken by
Westerfield in his backyard of her teenage daughter lounging in a bikini
poolside were not sexual in nature.
Police officers found the photos on a computer disk in Westerfield’s
office. Prosecutors entered the images into evidence at the preliminary
hearing, as well as Westerfield’s criminal trial.
Lelek insists the photographs were “blown way out of proportion” by the
prosecution. “Those were just a few of hundreds of photographs David took
by the pool during barbeques with his children and their friends,” Lelek
said.
“Yes, the towel was over her face. Yes, her legs were spread, and the angle
was sort of looking up, and her hand was in a strange position, but that’s
just the way teenagers act sometimes. It was totally innocent.”
Laura Westerfield was unaware that her son had lived with either Lelek or
Weibrecht. David Westerfield apparently maintained a distant relationship
with his mother. Ms. Westerfield recalled that her son had sent her a
Christmas card each year.
“I did not see Alan a lot over the past year,” said Ms. Westerfield. “I saw
him at Tania’s house. But I didn’t ask about his lifestyle in any way,
shape or form. It was none of my business. When your kids get older, you
don’t ask a lot.”
Westerfield never visited his mother’s apartment either. “I knew where he
was. He knew where I was,” Ms. Westerfield said. “We spoke on the
telephone.”
Ms. Westerfield first discovered her son had been arrested as a suspect in
the van Dam kidnapping from television news reports, though she claims she
had a premonition something was happening with her son the night Danielle
went missing.
“Alan and I have a connection,” she said.
The news was devastating.
“You can’t imagine how much it hurts. I’ve cried until my eyeballs are
poking out,” Ms. Westerfield said.
“How would you feel? I turn on the television every day and there’s my son,
‘the murderer.’ ”
Ms. Westerfield had no contact with her son following his arrest until the
first day of his preliminary hearing on March 11, 2002. She attended the
hearing in person – after taking three buses to the downtown courthouse –
making eye-to-eye contact with her son in open court.
During a break in the hearing, a member of the defense team approached Ms.
Westerfield and whispered something to her.
The attorneys apparently wanted Ms. Westerfield to understand that
jailhouse deputies read mail before it is delivered to inmates. They did
not want Ms. Westerfield writing anything confidential in correspondence to
her son.
Laura Westerfield since has written one letter to her son in jail. He did
not reply. They have not spoken on the telephone and Ms. Westerfield has no
plans to visit him behind bars. “I’m waiting for him to contact me,” she
said.
If it turns out David Westerfield is found guilty of the special
circumstance of murder during the course of a kidnapping, relatives likely
will be called to testify on his behalf during the penalty phase of the
trial. Ms. Westerfield says she will not be in attendance.
Instead, she will watch the decision come down on television in her
apartment, just as she did on the final day of her son’s preliminary
hearing.
“When the judge announced his decision at the end of the hearing,” she
said, “Alan was crying. He was crying. A mother can tell.”
David Gotfredson: (858) 495-7555; dgotf...@kfmb.com
Patty
relationship lasted about a year until the couple "grew apart," said
Lelek.
The news was devastating.
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Thanks for posting this, Desi, I just happened to catch it now (she
posted it on June 27.) I wonder how this loner became a party guy,
and it still seems like he wasn't a participant but a observer. Also
seems like he never established any meaningful relationships with
women, had a fear of committment. And what is going on between he and
his mother, is he so ashamed that he's not reaching out, but why
doesn't she. Weird family dynamics.
Found the original article and it had a few family pictures.
http://www.kfmb.com/topstory.php?storyID=9488
Patty
DedNdogYrs
treat her sons like foster children? She might look to herself about why her
oldest son turned out like he did.
Dogs & children first.
Jane Cactus
> his mother, is he so ashamed that he's not reaching out, but why
> doesn't she. Weird family dynamics.
>
> Found the original article and it had a few family pictures.
> http://www.kfmb.com/topstory.php?storyID=9488
>
> Patty
Thx for this link, Patty. I always like seeing the pics. I don't think DW's
mother's been very helpful to his cause. The word dysfunction was made for
this family IMO.
JC
vond...@hotmail.com
DedNdogYrs wrote:
Doesn't sound like a very close family, any way you look at it. Could explain why
Westerfield doesn't have any problem tossing his teenaged son into the mix re the
child porn.
Vonda