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Clay

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Jan 24, 2005, 4:56:56 PM1/24/05
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Today I finally got the all clear and now my wife doesn't want
anything to do with me. She just wants to sit by herself and cry.
Everytime I go near her she withdraws and tells me to go away. I am so
frustrated!

Giraud

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Jan 24, 2005, 6:07:54 PM1/24/05
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Clay, so sorry to hear that - it must be very frustrating. I forget if
this was mentioned before, but would telling her that IVF could always
be used in the unlikely event you and she want more kids give her peace
at all on this? I gather neither of you actually want more, but that
its the possibility of options that she laments losing?

Giraud

partyoffive

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Jan 29, 2005, 5:35:02 PM1/29/05
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Clay,
Sorry to hear that things are not going well, you probably don't
remember me but I am the person whose husband had a vasectomy (under
poor circumstances and without much consideration) it effected our
marriage in a negative way also.
Sounds like there is a need for continued joint counseling to help
resolve the issues.

A.

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