Actually, I did experience this, but the soreness was confined to the
right side (the one that hangs higher). For me this came about a year
after the vas. The good news is, it doesn't happen much any more
(almost 8 years after). Also, it was always very mild. If you're
having more serious pain, I'd have it checked out. I can add that I
also experienced some mild soreness in the first year after the vas.
But instead of being relieved by ejac., ejac seemed to cause it--more
particularly, multiple ejacs in the same session. Again, the soreness
was only on the right side and was very mild.
My theory is that in the first year after, I'd get soreness because
heavy sex would cause sperm to build-up and stress the tube and/or
apply back-up pressure to the nut. I think after the first year, small
fissures developed in the seal, allowing sperm to escape during the
usual contractions of orgasm (these contractions apparently occur all
along the vas tubes even after vasectomy). As a result of release
through these fissures, I no longer experience soreness due to back
pressure UNLESS I go too long without ejac. Well, that's my theory.
lol
Anyway, to recapitulate: I don't think what you are experiencing is
that unusual after vasectomy. But if the pain is more than mild, and
if it is getting worse rather than better, I'd go see the doc. You
might even want to talk to him about it just to put your mind at ease.
If it were painful, I'd talk with my doctor and see if this is
something to be concerned about.
Hopefully this brings you some comfort. Vasectomy is a HUGE step and in
a lot of cases, there is more pain and discomfort than they tell you to
expect at the onset.
This group has been a Godsend for information and in dispelling a lot
of the horrors you read about!
You're not alone...we have BEEN THERE, or are going through it!