Why
Justin case
transsexual while attacking real transsexuals?
Has he been missed by the mental health services?
JenniferFlusher
He hasn't been missed at all. In fact he's been selected and slotted
and placed into a half-way house where he receives a rent subsidy and a
day job in order to pay his rent. He has been there since 2004 - an
apparently permanent resident of a Tenderloin Housing Clinic facility.
Thomas Usher is exactly where he belongs. Be thankful they didn't
release him into YOUR neighborhood!
Willow
used to dealing with addicts, mentally deficient and derilicks. Which
one is Usher? All three.
He tries to cover a massive problem if self-esteme by bullying and
claiming superiority. He seems to think if he repeats this enough
times, along with denigrating others and occasionally finding a twit
to agree with him (Sue Anne Robins, for example) he can somehow gain
some stature. He has indeed written of his first night in SF,
arriving by bus and then being sweapt off his feet b y a person just
hanging around the bus depot. Do you know what types hang around bus
depots in busy cities? Then the Sugir thing - which Usher himself
made public domain. No one had to know about two old farts feeling
each other up, but Usher had to then claim a "female orgasm" on the
basis that what he "felt" with his penis "felt like " that which women
had described to him. Go figure. The endless lies about the Dean's
list when he had quit the nursing (almost nursing, that is) school,
and then working for a TG/TS support group when he hates TGs. As
stated, a KKK member being hired by the NAACP. I have skipped parts
of his story for brevity. If recent he has taken to bragging about
what he would do if we were to meet. What a lark. I would not stay
in his part of town if I return to ISPS, your local police and more,
then complains when you respond,. As someone has writtne, Blake was
of better class. Usher is steps down,
Sonia and I have our own house, which we own and have been busy again
renovating 0 the bedrooms this time, with paint, new doors, crown
moldings and baseboards and more. Usher rents a SRO in a flea
infested building. We have a minivan, drive around a lot. Usher
walks or buses. We have been together for eight years now; Usher has
had a few flings but really is a loner with no hope of changing that
status at all. That is why he is on line all the time and replies in
seconds. Do we live close to a trailer park? Yes, we do - and each
and every trailer there is much larger and nicer than Usher's SRO. WE
have several computers, a large flat screen TV, and every new gadget
we need, right down to the latest Susan Boyle CD. We do not attend a
fundamentalist church as does Usher - another way of trying to be
"holier than thou" and failing. Think of how false Usher is - in the
middle of one of the most liberal cities in North America, she remains
fundie and says she "fits right in". Bah! Only with the hypocrites
and free meal type bible thumpers. And Usher has the gall to say that
her fundie churches are more accepting of gays, lesbians and TS. What
rot. An y TV news or religious show shows what a lie that is, along
with the books they churn out on Gays and the rest.
I don't have to play with HBS and the like. Being happily post-op, I
am a transsexual woman. To say we do not retain an y male traits is
simply foolishness. No one can be male for almost fifty years and not
continue some old habits. Besides,that is what makes me Willow, and
not someone else. Usher spends so much time trying to pretend he is
what he is not that he has to be "100% woman" or he is a total failure
in his mind. I am self-confident enough to know to keep the good of
the past along with the good of today. I join the club women in
flying RC aircraft and helicopters, but I don't give it up because it
is a "male things". Usher, in his posts, shows how hard he is trying,
and you know, trying is not the name of the game. It is being. And
if you are trying, you are not being...
Simple, really... Usher is still the transvestite he originally
claimed to be. The no-name surgery was no surgery; the job a make
work thing that would have fired his ass but for a union. So into the
back rooms where he can do no harm to those TG and TS he is supposed
to be helping. Maybe a typing pool in the far back room so the rest
of the staff can snicker and laugh.
Willow
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Jennifer Usher
"Willow" <pang...@telus.net> wrote in message
news:c825b9bb-2085-4f23...@u16g2000pru.googlegroups.com...
> Too true. One advantage of his living in the Mission is that they are
> used to dealing with addicts, mentally deficient and derilicks. Which
> one is Usher? All three.
Hmm, I am not sure if that counts as one lie or three. Oh, and at least I
can spell derelict.
> He tries to cover a massive problem if self-esteme by bullying and
> claiming superiority. He seems to think if he repeats this enough
> times, along with denigrating others and occasionally finding a twit
> to agree with him (Sue Anne Robins, for example) he can somehow gain
> some stature. He has indeed written of his first night in SF,
> arriving by bus and then being sweapt off his feet b y a person just
> hanging around the bus depot. Do you know what types hang around bus
> depots in busy cities? Then the Sugir thing - which Usher himself
> made public domain. No one had to know about two old farts feeling
> each other up, but Usher had to then claim a "female orgasm" on the
> basis that what he "felt" with his penis "felt like " that which women
> had described to him. Go figure. The endless lies about the Dean's
> list when he had quit the nursing (almost nursing, that is) school,
> and then working for a TG/TS support group when he hates TGs. As
> stated, a KKK member being hired by the NAACP. I have skipped parts
> of his story for brevity. If recent he has taken to bragging about
> what he would do if we were to meet. What a lark. I would not stay
> in his part of town if I return to ISPS, your local police and more,
> then complains when you respond,. As someone has writtne, Blake was
> of better class. Usher is steps down,
Well, let's see...this one contains at least four outright lies, and several
distortions of the truth. And yes, I have stated what I would do if I met
Willy Boy in person. Given his history of stalking, I would assume that any
such meeting was not accidental. Not a brag at all. But then, as I have
pointed out, he has, by his own admission, no hope of entering the United
States.
> Sonia and I have our own house, which we own and have been busy again
> renovating 0 the bedrooms this time, with paint, new doors, crown
> moldings and baseboards and more. Usher rents a SRO in a flea
> infested building. We have a minivan, drive around a lot. Usher
> walks or buses. We have been together for eight years now; Usher has
> had a few flings but really is a loner with no hope of changing that
> status at all. That is why he is on line all the time and replies in
> seconds. Do we live close to a trailer park? Yes, we do - and each
> and every trailer there is much larger and nicer than Usher's SRO. WE
> have several computers, a large flat screen TV, and every new gadget
> we need, right down to the latest Susan Boyle CD. We do not attend a
> fundamentalist church as does Usher - another way of trying to be
> "holier than thou" and failing. Think of how false Usher is - in the
> middle of one of the most liberal cities in North America, she remains
> fundie and says she "fits right in". Bah! Only with the hypocrites
> and free meal type bible thumpers. And Usher has the gall to say that
> her fundie churches are more accepting of gays, lesbians and TS. What
> rot. An y TV news or religious show shows what a lie that is, along
> with the books they churn out on Gays and the rest.
Let's see...three outright lies, and quite a bit of distortion. For
example, Willy Boy owns NOTHING. He previously admitted that Sonia owns the
house. When she dies, he is allowed to stay there, but if he leaves, or he
dies, it passes to here kids. And no, I do not attend a fundamentalist
church. Willy Boy knows NOTHING about where I go to church, and no I am not
remotely stupid enough to provide any such information.
> I don't have to play with HBS and the like. Being happily post-op, I
> am a transsexual woman. To say we do not retain an y male traits is
> simply foolishness. No one can be male for almost fifty years and not
> continue some old habits. Besides,that is what makes me Willow, and
> not someone else. Usher spends so much time trying to pretend he is
> what he is not that he has to be "100% woman" or he is a total failure
> in his mind. I am self-confident enough to know to keep the good of
> the past along with the good of today. I join the club women in
> flying RC aircraft and helicopters, but I don't give it up because it
> is a "male things". Usher, in his posts, shows how hard he is trying,
> and you know, trying is not the name of the game. It is being. And
> if you are trying, you are not being...
Well, let's see...at least two outright lies, and again a lot of
distortions. Again, it seems that men, such as Willy Boy, cannot get away
from the idea that womanhood is quantifiable. I mean, one is either a
woman, or not. There is no such thing as a 75% woman, or such. But Willy
Boy seems to think that way. I do wonder unit he uses to measure womanhood?
> Simple, really... Usher is still the transvestite he originally
> claimed to be. The no-name surgery was no surgery; the job a make
> work thing that would have fired his ass but for a union. So into the
> back rooms where he can do no harm to those TG and TS he is supposed
> to be helping. Maybe a typing pool in the far back room so the rest
> of the staff can snicker and laugh.
Four outright lies, and a speculation that is pure fantasy. His claims that
my surgeon was "no-name" results from the fact that I declined to divulge
certain information...here. I simply did not want to be subjected to
possible harassment. Given some of what I have been subjected to, caution
is a wise path. As I have pointed out, more than once, I no longer work for
any project that directly deals with TG or TS. That project, simply put,
moved to a different organization when the principal investigator's contract
was not renewed. I was given a better job right as that happened. Nope,
not a make work job at all, but if it makes Willy Boy feel superior to make
such a claim (does anyone else remotely have the basic intelligence to see
the irony here?) then hey, let him and any other twit believe it. I mean,
he has no job at all. He lives off of disability payments and Sonia's
pension.
Oh well, same old, same old.
--
Jennifer Usher
barbie
> Too true. One advantage of his living in the Mission is that they are
> used to dealing with addicts, mentally deficient and derilicks. Which
> one is Usher? All three.
In the spirit of the season, let's be generous.
An addict? Well, let's be nice and say obsessive. I guess you could
say addicted to posting here, trying to *prove* something.
Mentally deficient? Usher lacks the ability to see that every
aspersion and piece of nastiness cast upon others really applies, in
spades, to Usher more than anyone else. Do we call this mentally
deficient, or just an excess of hubris coupled with a lack of
empathy? Now it's true that some studies have suggested a genetic
component to empathy, and that bullies like Usher might have a genetic
excuse for behaving ignorantly, but in Usher's case, I would be loathe
to ascribe to either genetics or ignorance what can be attributed to
plain simple malice.
Derelict? Certainly in the past, and probably in the future when
budgets get further compressed, but for now, a room in the Vice Hotel
and a workfare job ... while it's nothing that any woman would aspire
to, it's "living well" for Usher.
Still not pretty, and more worthy of pity than scorn, if it hadn't
been going on for SOOOO LONG. I guess after a certain point, if it
looks like a mentally deficient addicted derelict one step removed,
acts like a mentally deficient addicted derelict one step removed, and
posts like a mentally deficient addicted derelict one step removed, it
must be an Usher.
> He tries to cover a massive problem if self-esteme by bullying and
> claiming superiority.
THAT is the problem. You and I can disagree on some fundamental
concepts without it degenerating into nastiness, because we see that
there's a human being on the other end. Usher doesn't see that -
anyone who disagrees is worth less, which quickly becomes
"worthless". Bullies do this because it's all they have. "The other
person deserves it." Of course, when you turn it back on them, they
get all bent out of shape. And for some reason compulsively type
"ROTFL" (and no, I don't want to picture Usher rolling on the floor,
laughing or otherwise, thank you very much).
> He seems to think if he repeats this enough
> times, along with denigrating others and occasionally finding a twit
> to agree with him (Sue Anne Robins, for example) he can somehow gain
> some stature.
Those days are long gone. Everyone knows the history here, and that
Usher has lied too many times to be taken seriously.
> He has indeed written of his first night in SF,
> arriving by bus and then being sweapt off his feet b y a person just
> hanging around the bus depot. Do you know what types hang around bus
> depots in busy cities?
I can imagine ... but I'd rather not.
>Then the Sugir thing - which Usher himself
> made public domain. No one had to know about two old farts feeling
> each other up, but Usher had to then claim a "female orgasm" on the
> basis that what he "felt" with his penis "felt like " that which women
> had described to him. Go figure.
All I can say is "Thank $_DIETY that the 'pics or it didn't happen"
meme wasn't around then. I don't claim to understand all that went on
then (I dropped out around the time it started). ... (/me goes and
does a search) ... ow, now I have to bleach my brainz! I could say
more, but at this point I won't.
> The endless lies about the Dean's
> list when he had quit the nursing (almost nursing, that is) school,
> and then working for a TG/TS support group when he hates TGs.
Usher only hates TGs and TSs that don't toe the official Usher Party
Line and dare to speak up.
I'll give you an 80% on that (because the other 20% probably either
roll their eyes when Usher starts or just pretend they agree to avoid
an argument, then quickly change the subject).
> We do not attend a
> fundamentalist church as does Usher - another way of trying to be
> "holier than thou" and failing.
The fundies chose to part ways with Usher quite a while back ...
around the time of the Sugir denouement, IIRC.
> I don't have to play with HBS and the like.
Considering that Harry Benjamin repeatedly said in his speeches that
MtoF transsexuals are really men who are "psychically damaged" and
"deviants", I don't blame you.
And for those who don't believe this is what Benjamin said:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transsexualism
&<========&<========&<========&<========
Harry Benjamin wrote, "Summarizing my impression, I would like to
repeat here
what I said in my first lecture on the subject more than 10 years ago:
Our genetic
and endocrine equipment constitutes either an unresponsive [or]
fertile soil on
which the wrong conditional and a psychic trauma can grow and develop
into
such a basic conflict that subsequently a deviation like
transsexualism
can result."
&<========&<========&<========&<========
Harry Benjamin considered male-to-female transsexuals to be
psychological deviants suffering from a mental trauma. Not women in
mens' bodies, but men in men's bodies, traumatized deviants.
You can follow the links on Wikipedia to the actual text. As far as I
can tell, HBS is "by men, for men", and while Benjamin was a pioneer,
he still carried a lot of baggage from his own time.
> Simple, really... Usher is still the transvestite he originally
> claimed to be. The no-name surgery was no surgery; the job a make
> work thing that would have fired his ass but for a union. So into the
> back rooms where he can do no harm to those TG and TS he is supposed
> to be helping. Maybe a typing pool in the far back room so the rest
> of the staff can snicker and laugh.
If Usher hadn't such a long history of meanness, nobody would be
questioning the surgery. But the meanness, combined with the
documented lies and all the alpha male behaviour, means that
everything is questioned. Did Usher have surgery? I don't know, and
I honestly don't care. In the context of someone who self-identifies
as HBS, Usher is, in Harry Benjamins' terms, a deviant man, so the
whole surgery question is a side issue. If Ushers' god, Harry
Benjamin, says Usher is a deviant man, who am I to say otherwise?
Just don't try to apply the HBS label to anyone who rejects it!
Now let's say, for the sake of argument, that maybe Usher is not HBS,
and not a transvestite ... but that would then bring on the whole
question of WHY the whole control-freak / bullying / meanness? I'm
not saying women don't also indulge in such behaviour, but it
generally shows itself differently - it would be seen as being "a real
b****" or the c-word, not an arrogant prick. That's why I think the
HBS bit may actually be what used to be called a "Freudian slip" on
Usher's part.
We can speculate all day, but in the end, there are only a few
concrete conclusions:
1. Usher is a bully. Why is unimportant. What is important is to
recognize it for what it is, and deal with it.
2. Usher has lied about a lot of things. That's why nobody believes
anything Usher posts any more.
3. We can "name it and shame it" and still have a useful discussion
about other things.