black widow(er) effect

[David Dalton]

Incompatible relationships are an abomination, so for a gay man
(man attracted just to men) to have sex with a woman, often by
thinking of a man who is not there, or for a lesbian (woman
attracted just to women) to have sex with a man, sometimes
by thinking of a woman who is not there, is an abomination.

And associated with that is a black widow effect, when a lesbian
is married to a man the man’s lifespan is shortened, and a
black widower effect, when a gay man is married to a woman
the woman’s lifespan is shortened. (That does not apply to
platonic gay--lesbian parental units.)

One example of this that I intuited with my past matchmaking
ability is that UN Secretary General Antonio Guterres is
gay, and that resulted in the early death of his first wife.
However he is optimally sexually compatible with his
current wife, who is bimT.

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https://www.nfld.com/~dalton/dtales.html Salmon on the Thorns (mystic page)
“‘Then you saw me from the cathedral/Well I'm an ancient heart/Yes,
you saw me from the cathedral/And here we are just falling apart" (T.T.)

[David Dalton]

On Jun 30, 2022, David Dalton wrote
(in article<0001HW.286D64F500...@news.eternal-september.org>):

> Incompatible relationships are an abomination, so for a gay man
> (man attracted just to men) to have sex with a woman, often by
> thinking of a man who is not there, or for a lesbian (woman
> attracted just to women) to have sex with a man, sometimes
> by thinking of a woman who is not there, is an abomination.
>
> And associated with that is a black widow effect, when a lesbian
> is married to a man the man’s lifespan is shortened, and a
> black widower effect, when a gay man is married to a woman
> the woman’s lifespan is shortened. (That does not apply to
> platonic gay--lesbian parental units.)
>
> One example of this that I intuited with my past matchmaking
> ability is that UN Secretary General Antonio Guterres is
> gay, and that resulted in the early death of his first wife.
> However he is optimally sexually compatible with his
> current wife, who is bimT.

While in the long term there can be detrimental effects to the
physical health of the deceived partner, in the short term
there may be detrimental mental health effects.