Where do you go from here :-(

[Mikey]

Hello, to anyone listening

I am on the verge of letting my soulmate go forever. We have been
apart for about a year now and I think it is about time I "Let Go". I
think this is probably one of the hardest thing I've ever had to do in
my whole life. They say once you do it it's like water under the bridge
. In a way, it feels like my heart and soul are down there with it.
People say,"Move on!" I say ,"I can't walk . I don't even know what
direction to head in."
If anyone would like to talk about anything please write :-) If
you have any questions I'd be happy to answer them.

"There's a place....
A place......
Where we belong,
Don't give up"

Peter Gabriel

We belong together,
Mike

[Mike]

Mikey <mbo...@gl.umbc.edu> wrote:

>>Hello, to anyone listening

>> I am on the verge of letting my soulmate go forever. We have been
>>apart for about a year now and I think it is about time I "Let Go". I
>>think this is probably one of the hardest thing I've ever had to do in
>>my whole life. They say once you do it it's like water under the bridge
>>. In a way, it feels like my heart and soul are down there with it.
>>People say,"Move on!" I say ,"I can't walk . I don't even know what
>>direction to head in."
>> If anyone would like to talk about anything please write :-) If
>>you have any questions I'd be happy to answer them.

Gee !

I am too, in a mood distictivly sober tonight, and have decided to
write a few lines to some of the articles here in SoulMates.

Mikey,
Have you ever recalled the moments when you and your Soulmate first
met. There was an anticipation that is hard to describe, there was a
willingness, a yearning and a desire for more. Remember how that was
all you thought about for days and days on end, recall how you dreamed
of what was to be, try to recall the promises you made in your heart
at that time.

Sometimes Soulmates do seem to dissappear for a while, sometimes
though, they never go far away.
You see, as far as I can tell, and I may be no-one special, but once
you re-find your Soulmate, you become wholeagain. To me, it is as
though I was once, many lifetimes ago, a single entity, and for some
reason, had the desire to follow more than one path, so I became two.
My other half is my Soulmate, and each lifetime I search for her, and
sometimes find her, and sometimes miss her. But always I need her.
Along the way, there are many false starts and twists and turns. But
when you do meet your true soulmate, you will know it. If need be, you
will give up everything for her, I know, I have. I will do anything I
possible can for her, and it is made only the easier, because without
the need to ask, I know that she will do anything and everything she
can do for me.

I am not going to suggest that you move on, or stay, I somehow know
just how you feel, and know that I cannot give you help or advise,
because you are creating your own path regardless of what the voices
say about you. But, what I would dare to suggest is that if your
Soulmate has been found, and YOU know it is so, you will do anything
and everything to keep your mate and keep them happy. A year may seem
like a long time, but in this lifetime it is but a moment. If the
person that you think is your soulmate, but is not, then you have
nothing to fear, and a lesson learned maybe, but none-the-less, a
vital one.

---Nothing to Hide, No need to run----

[Lolita]

Mikey wrote:
>
> Hello, to anyone listening
>
> I am on the verge of letting my soulmate go forever. We have been
> apart for about a year now and I think it is about time I "Let Go". I
> think this is probably one of the hardest thing I've ever had to do in
> my whole life. They say once you do it it's like water under the bridge
> . In a way, it feels like my heart and soul are down there with it.
> People say,"Move on!" I say ,"I can't walk . I don't even know what
> direction to head in."
> If anyone would like to talk about anything please write :-) If
> you have any questions I'd be happy to answer them.
>

> "There's a place....
> A place......
> Where we belong,
> Don't give up"
>
> Peter Gabriel
>
> We belong together,
> Mike

WHY ARE YOU LETTING GO????

YOU CAN NEVER DO IT!

WHO THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOU ARE KIDDING??

SO SORRY>>

Lss

[Mydogzr1]

You are wrong about one thing. You will not give up anything for your
soulmate.

I met my soulmate three years ago. We worked together and shared many
interests and passions and became great friends. I was madly in love with
him from the first moment I saw him. It was magical and wonderful and I
knew he was the one. A year ago he confessed that he felt the same about
me. One problem, he's married. He got married very young and has three
kids. He is unhappy in his marriage. (no that's not just a line he tells
me. It was apparent before we confessed our feelings for each other.) He
was going to leave her so we could be together. He has decided to stay
with his wife because he can't stand the thought of being a part time
father.

I always thought my soulmate was waiting for me, as I was for him. I was
wrong. He says he wishes he would have waited for me, but now it's too
late and there's nothing we can do. I also thought that soulmates would
do anything to be together. Wrong again. I thought that if we loved each
other enough, somehow it would all work out. Now I don't know what to do.

I searched for 28 years to find him only to learn that we can't be
together. I have never loved this way. I know I will never want anyone
else. I desparately and hopelessly love this man. I have to be with him.
But I love him enough to respect that he is happiest with his children,
so I backed off. Now I face the rest of my life without him and I don't
want to go on. I miss him and even in a crowd, I am so lonely without him
it hurts. I feel like I am just waiting to die so the pain will finally
end.

How can I go on knowing that if it weren't for those three wonderful kids,
I'd be more happy than anyone ever deserves to be?

[Lolita]

OHHHHH You story is so typical.
You and he are both unselfish lovers.
You have both sacrificed your love for something more important.???

He is hurting as much as you. This is such a tragic story.
All I can say is this....

TIME WILL HEAL YOU>
PLease believe in that.
Don't do anything you can't undo.
Maybe in a few years time, when his children are older, he may find the
strength to leave them for you.

You need to carry on with your life in the meanwhile.
Keep yourself so busy that you will not have the time to think about
him. Just keep him in your heart. That will soothe you for now.
I feel for you and know what it is like.
YOU WILL SURVIVE...

lss

[elis]

Mike,

I agree that once one finds ones soulmate one will do anything for
one's soulmate. I think that sometimes, in some lifetimes, the best thing
one can do for one's soulmate is to physically depart from one another.
That is the hardest thing do allowing the physical presence of a person
to depart from your life if circumstances are such that it is best. Yet,
the soul itself does not "leave" if it is connected to another soul.

E.

[mich...@concentric.net]

elis <ast...@computek.net> wrote:

>Mike,

> E.

True, but that is so very hard to deal with. My soulmate and I are
apart, we may never be together again, I really don't know. I blew
it, I hurt her, and may have given up that part of my soul. I still
look in the mirror and in my eyes I see her, I hear her voice inside
my head, telling me she loves me. And I think (I'm still trying to
grasp this) I even have felt her soul physically touch me once to give
me a hug and wipe my tears and the other to dance with me. This may
sound really corny and silly, but I really feel it happened. I don't
know what will become of our future, I know I have looked into the
eyes of my own soul, I have touched her soul, and our souls have come
together. The tough part is continuing to move on with life, I know I
have to and have forced myself to do some things that I really don't
WANT to do but know I have to so that I will be a healthy, whole
person. I have a date tonight, really nice girl, but she's not my
soulmate. Time will tell I suppose but it's difficult to accept that
I may not be able to spend my life with my soulmate. I ramble.... :)

Michael

[Cyohtee]

Mikey wrote:
>
> Hello, to anyone listening
>
> I am on the verge of letting my soulmate go forever. We have been
> apart for about a year now and I think it is about time I "Let Go". I
> think this is probably one of the hardest thing I've ever had to do in
> my whole life. They say once you do it it's like water under the bridge
> . In a way, it feels like my heart and soul are down there with it.
> People say,"Move on!" I say ,"I can't walk . I don't even know what
> direction to head in."
> If anyone would like to talk about anything please write :-) If
> you have any questions I'd be happy to answer them.
>
> "There's a place....
> A place......
> Where we belong,
> Don't give up"
>
> Peter Gabriel
>
> We belong together,
> Mike

I have no advice for you, as I have been dealing with this for a year
now. My Wife and soulmate decided that I wasn't her soulmate after all
and left me. I find myself thinking of her and the five years of our
marriage every time I have nothing else to occupy my time. It is truly
the worst feelings you coud possibly have. I feel for you, and wish I
sould "let go" as well, but even though I may have a piece of paper
that says I am no longer married, my vows said till death, and I am
not dead yet, so I have to ask as well, what does a person do when
they lose their soulmate?

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[Nanpatch]

What to do when you have "lost" your soul mate? There are many, many
soulmates in each lifetime, some are good, some are bad experiences, some
are a mixture of both. The pain that you feel at this loss is profound,
indeed, and also necessary on some level. Try to feel it and learn from
it. It is ok to feel the pain and be in it... But I will tell you now
that even though you have "lost" a soul who may have travelled with you
before in other lifetimes, they are on their own journey too and you have
to allow them the freedom to learn their lessons however they must. If
they are truly a soul mate, you will travel with them again. You also must
learn your lessons, from this experience as well as from those that are
still to come. There will be others, perhaps as friends, perhaps as
lovers, that will fulfill needs and be important role players in your life
and in your soul's evolution. This is not the end of something old, but
rather the beginning of something new.

Nan