Dear Anne
I'm 15. My sister and I were at home alone while Mum and Dad were on
holiday. We started talking about sex. One thing led to another and we
started to experiment with each other. We had full sex. It only
happened the once but I think I ejaculated inside her and I'm worried
that she is pregnant. What should I do? I am so worried that Mum and
Dad will find out. Ralph
Dear Ralph
Thank you for your letter. It may sound unkind but I'm glad you're
worried. Apart from anything else it shows you're aware you've done
something wrong. However old your sister is, you and she shouldn't be
having sex. It's incest. If you and she were to have a child together,
the close blood relationship between you means you stand a very high
chance of creating a baby who is unhealthy either physically or
mentally. Moreover, most people would be utterly horrified if they
found out that a brother and sister were the baby's parents. Also if
you're the older, you should be responsible for her, and vice versa,
not putting her into situations of what is probably child abuse since
you at least are only 15.
The first thing is for your sister to seek professional advice. She
can contact the Brook Advisory Centre on 0800 0185023 and talk to them
in confidence. They will be able to help her make good, self-
supportive decisions. This may, of course, include whether to have an
abortion. If this is necessary, it's important that it be carried out
sooner rather than later. They can also tell her how best to approach
your parents, so please urge her to contact them as soon as possible.
Assuming she's not pregnant, you and she now have choices. I hope you
will both understand that you were curious about sex and decided to
follow that curiosity through, but more than that, I hope you and she
will agree that you will never, ever, put yourselves in a situation
where you might be tempted to do anything sexual with each other
again. You could also decide what you would gain by telling your
parents, and therefore whether you will inform them. If you need to
talk to someone about it yourself, the Brook Advisory would be there
for you too. They will be helpful rather than judgmental, and you
might feel better for talking it through with someone responsible but
confidential.
I hope all goes well with your sister, and that both of you have
learned from this that sex between you is not acceptable. Good luck.
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