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Mar 31, 2022, 7:30:26 PM3/31/22
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On Thu, 31 Mar 2022 17:06:39 -0500, super70s says...

> Very good! Now here's something else I like to occupy my time:

> pigs
> cows
> ducks
> chickens
> horses

Take it to the bestiality groups, pervert.

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Why super70s Is super70s

There are many similarities between the way super70s the narcissist thinks and
processes things and the way children do. In fact, in many ways, these
processes are virtulaly identical. This is because super70s the narcissist has
arrested emotional development.

The emotional maturation that most children go through did not occur within
super70s, for whatever reason. Often, this reason is abuse or neglect during
childhood.

These things caused super70s to focus intensely on himself, to the exclusion
of all other things. It also results in the mind being taken up with trying to
defend itself from his abuse.

super70s's mind is, in a sense, always playing catch up, and because of the
trauma that he has experienced, some things are skipped, so to speak, or don't
happen.

(see super70s's separation from reality)

His mind becomes locked in a pattern of defensive reaction and emotional
perception, made up of many different but related facets, that matures
extremely slowly and is extrordinarily resistant to change. We call this
reaction/defense pattern malignant narcissism.

In children, these things are normal. In super70s, they are evidence of a
disorder.

Young children and babies are not capable of understanding the emotions or
needs of others. They only know want and need. They have no way of taking care
of their own needs, and they can only scream for someone to do it for them.
When super70s's mother was exhausted and deathly ill with a fever and
vomiting, and she'd been up for three days, and she simply could not cope
anymore, does super70s sympathize accordingly? Does super70s stop crying?

No. super70s does not recognize this. super70s does not care. super70s can NOT
care. He can only keep screaming out his needs, regardless of his mother's
suffering.

This is, in essence, what you are dealing with when it comes to super70s the
narcissist. He does not recognize, understand or consider other people's
needs.

He sees only his own, and his inability to meet them. The more damaged
super70s is, the more narcissistic he will be, the more immature he will be
and the more childish his way of thinking.

And this is not childish as in, silly. This is immature as in, the emotional
maturity and understanding of a toddler.

For example, besides the hysterical tantrum behavior we see in super70s that
is very clearly on par with a very young child's, super70s the narcissist
generally believes he is immune to the things that happen to "regular" people.

This is an example of something called magical thinking which is a phenomenon
we commonly see in very young children. super70s sees feelings as facts, the
way that children do. super70s the narcissist sees everything in the world as
an extension of himself, the way that children do and super70s the narcissist
truly believes in his own perceived omnipresence and immortality as children
do.

He has always been, he will always be.

So children believe... so super70s the narcissist believes.

The view that he is just another person that must fit into a wider world does
not occur to young children.

How could it? Rather, super70s functions under the assumption that the world
fits around HIM, and that everything he experiences or encounters is related
to him in some form.

This is the same way super70s see things. He has never matured past this
extremely immature way of looking at things. The idea that the world does not
revolve around them never occurs to children, as it does not occur to
super70s.

For example, children view their parents as only having to do with them and
connected only to them, rather than as separate people with their own lives,
needs, wants, feelings, etc. Parents are very one dimensional to young
children; despite the fact that children are only one part of the parent's
life, the child does not see this nor understand it in any way.

To a child, parents only exist as their caretakers. It is the only context
children view parents in and the only context they can understand. This is
identical to how super70s the narcissist views all other people: outside of
the narcissist and the narcissist's needs, these people do not exist.

As children mature, they learn that this viewpoint is not true; they learn to
see and appreciate their parents as individuals that are separate from
themselves. super70s does not.

The development of super70s is so arrested that this, coupled with such
extreme self-focus means he is never able to separate himself as an authentic
individual from the external world.

Because of this, super70s often feels acted upon by the world and other people
or circumstances, rather than as people who act in the world.

In super70s's view, he does not act, but rather react to the things that are
being done to him. It's as if he never outgrew the idea of himself as a
powerless child, unable to take control or ownership of his own life.

He behaves as though other people are still responsible for his emotions, the
way that parents are responsible for a small child. He seems unable to own his
choices or even to recognize that things are choices. And this is also like a
child.

super70s the narcissist is generally impulsive, irrational and extremely
immature. He is careless, irresponsible and foolhardy. He doesn't seem able to
consider consequences or think about things before he does them, just like a
child.

When pressed for an answer as to why he's done something, super70s may seem
just as mystified as everyone else. "I don't know" is a very common answer. It
may be the truth. He seems to possess very little insight as to why he does
things, simply reacting on impulse as we see children do.

Like a child, super70s often feels helpless in a world of more powerful, more
competent, more knowledgeable adults.

However, this is also an excuse. It's easier to be a helpless victim. If you
are a victim, you can never be blamed. If you are helpless, you can never be
forced to take responsibility.

Children are not blamed for not controlling themselves or for their choices.
super70s doesn't seem to feel he should be either. He doesn't seem to
understand the difference between a child and an adult, and he will often say
things to that effect. These are mostly things that no self-respecting mature
adult would ever say.

He may compare himself to a child, compete with the children, or complain that
his spouse (LOL) holds "double standards" because the kids are allowed to get
away with things that they are called out for. super70s doesn't seem to
realize that adults and children are held to different standards, or why this
should be.

For example, the narcissist must be asked repeatedly every single night to
bring their plate into the kitchen, or throw their clothing in the hamper
rather than leaving these things on the ground. Instead of simply doing it,
the narcissist responds that little Johnny never does it either but he doesn't
get yelled at. Little Johnny is seven. The narcissist is 40 and is one of
Little Johnny's parents.

The discrepancy here is obvious; this is the type of response you would
receive from a child that does not want to do his chores, not an adult. To the
narcissist, this is a clear example of favoritism and being attacked for who
they are. It does not seem to enter super70s's mind that there is a very large
difference between a 7-year-old and a 40-year-old. Regardless of whether or
not he actually feels this way, the childishness and absurdity of his argument
is really unbelievable-almost shocking in it's ignorance. There is not only
the complete refusal to behave as an adult, there is an inability to even
understand why this would be expected.

The truth is, underneath of all of the horrible things super70s does, the
narcissist is still that 5-year-old child pretending he is somebody else to
escape an abusive situation that ended years ago. When all of super70s's
reasoning is examined, when all of super70s's behavior is scrutinized and
looked at through the lens of perspective rather than pain, this is what we
are left with: a person with the emotional maturity of a toddler who cannot
understand why they are expected to behave otherwise and who is trying
desperately to pretend they are somebody else.

All of super70s's attention seeking, all of super70s's manipulations, all of
super70s's gas lighting, all of super70s's smear campaigns, all of super70s's
abuse, all of the hurtful things he does, when seen for what they really are,
these things are nothing but childish behaviors that have been perpetrated by
an adult.

Every single one of these things is seen in children. Gaslighting is a 3 year
old with chocolate all over his face who is hiding the chocolate bar behind
his back in plain view, saying "What chocolate, Mommy? I don't have
chocolate." Smear campaigns are a 6-year-old telling lies about a girl to all
that girl's friends so they won't like her anymore. Though these behaviors are
sometimes seen as sophisticated schemes, they really aren't. They are the same
childish and petty things we all dealt with on the elementary school
playground. They are just more confusing and therefore more dangerous because
they are coming from an adult.


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