Women use male "friends" for a power trip...
Kevin Bridgeton
being "friends" thing is mostly bullshit. The guy is just too cowardly to
directly flirt with the girl so he conceals it behind this "friend" mask and
waits for the day for her to fall madly in love with him. Of course the real
stupidity of this is that if she truly thought he was good-looking, she would
have FORCED the situation into a romantic relationship immediately. Women don't
tolerate hot male "friends" unless they already have a good-looking boyfriend
or husband and usually the women use these male "friends" for reasons that you
young guys probably don't want to deal with..
Basically, and I've seen this NUMEROUS times...a woman collects male
"friends" for the purpose of putting the THREAT of another man in her life
right into the boyfriend's face. The male "friends" are her symbolic pawns to
notify the boyfriend, "If you don't treat me good, look at all of the other men
lined up who want me!!!"
Next, the other reason that a woman has a lot of male "friends" is to show
off to the other women how desired she is..."Look at all these men who want
me!!! I'm much sexier than you!!!"
I'm serious, women are sly and tactical, they don't have any person in their
life by accident, it's all a well evolved strategy.
I remember when my sister was having problems in her marriage, suddenly a
male "friend" appeared out of nowhere and she got emotionally close to him but
as soon as her husband started serving her again, BINGO, the friend
disappeared...she had no more use for him. He existed in her life only to pose
a threat to her husband and if the husband was giving her everything she
wanted, the "friend" was no longer necessary..
Want another example? A girl is mad at her boyfriend so she sleeps with a
male "friend" to get back at him.... In other words, these "friends" are kept
around to always have SOMEONE to use for your next potential DRAMA. It's much
easier and considered "classier" for a girl to sleep with a male "friend" than
some stranger at a bar, the male "friend" who of course she knows has wanted
her sexually for 5 years..women are not stupid, they know damn well that men
only become "friends" with them because they are pretty and that he's holding
out hope for sex one day......the male "friend" is finally given the sex he's
been waiting for...of course he was just a pawn used to hurt the
boyfriend......
See what I'm getting at here?? This is why when women aren't sexually
interested in a man they tell him, "Let's just be friends" because they know
that someday that guy will serve her somehow as a potential threat to her
current boyfriend, etc....this is why if a woman tells you, "Let's just be
friends" and you say, "No thanks", this is the worst punishment you can dish
out to a female!!! To not allow her to use you within her power orbit is the
ultimate FUCK OFF! Because most women love to collect a pile of these males to
USE for power plays and other silly immature antics...
The other thing that the young people do and this is the 16-22 age group is
this "Oh we are just friends" but then they intentionally place themselves in
party situations with alcohol and drugs and suddenly they are having sex with
this "friend"...they aren't fooling anyone....no one gets in those situations
unless they want to lose control but women like to blame other elements for
their uninhibited behavior to avoid taking responsibility for their actions..
"Oh I didn't mean to be alone in that football player's hotel room at 1 A.M.
in the morning, it was an accident and I was only going to have one drink."
yeah, yeah, yeah, lady, you wanted to make yourself vulnerable and you wanted
something dangerous to happen and then after the sex you woke up the next
morning feeling cheap and used and you charged him with rape........it's this
kind of game-playing that undermines REAL RAPE.
My father told me a story about a girl lecturing him about "using women" 5
minutes after she had just had sex with him. He says that it was like she had
turned into a psychopath right after the sex was over....she had changed into
this completely different person.
Roy Haines with Dewey Foley
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so how IS your mom these days?