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Ray Gordon

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Dec 7, 2000, 3:00:00 AM12/7/00
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"Outfoxing The Foxes" outlines my personal method for seducing women. In
short, it can be summed up as follows:

1. Learn where you stand with regard to your desirability (through CUPID,
chapter one); then learn your strengths and weaknesses so you can work on them
by making yourself more desirable to women with lopsided preferences which
favor you.

2. Learn how to interpret female behavior so you are never misguided as to
where you stand.

3. Find the appropriate place for EVERY woman you encounter in your life:
friends, dates, pivots, utility fox, and so forth.

4. Develop a gimmick which will have women approaching you.

5. Know when to make a move and make it decisive;

6. If the move is not successful, or if you want to set up for a "returning
fox," you use "one and done" and end the interaction.

7. When the fox returns, you make another aggressive move.

8. When foxes approach you, you pursue aggressively as in (6) above.

9. Once you make progress, you continue to pursue until that progress is
halted once, then you cease all contact.

10. You build your life around giving yourself the best chance to seduce women
without having to go out of your way to seduce them, plus you learn how to
manage your time and your circulation so that you are always in the right place
at the right time. A good example of this might be going to a mall on Saturday
afternoon and a bar on a saturday night, while foxhunting online during
"downtime" or even keeping your computer connected while parked in a chatroom.

You do this systematically, with fundamentally compatible women, and you can't
help but succeed over time.

The other half of The Seduction Library, "29 Reasons Not To Be A Nice Guy,"
deals with your competition, the jerks, how to neutralize them, and how to use
them as straw men to make yourself appear a superior choice to women via
"anti-player" methods.

The two books combine in a whole method in "perfect seduction" (the third book
of the trilogy), which is a more efficient and expanded compilation of the
first two books, which are free, and really all you'll ever need to seduce
women.

Don't be fooled by my rivals or others who have ulterior motives. Unless they
are specifically getting you laid, consider ALL sources of information and
JUDGE FOR YOURSELF. Trusting the review of another is like cheating on an
exam, and you never know what your neighbor's report card might reveal.


Ray Gordon

The Seduction Library -- http://www.cybersheet.com/library.html
Hypnosis Composition Theory -- http://www.cybersheet.com/hypno/index.html
The Revolution (Sports/Horses) -- http://www.cybersheet.com/sportpix.html

mytru...@my-deja.com

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Dec 7, 2000, 3:00:00 AM12/7/00
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> 1. Learn where you stand with regard to your desirability (through
CUPID,
> chapter one); then learn your strengths and weaknesses so you can
work on them
> by making yourself more desirable to women with lopsided preferences
which
> favor you.

So let me get this straight. You figure out your CUPID rating and then
you work on what you're lacking in order to appear more desirable to
women? That's all good but, my lackings are in the money (I'm not
broke but I'm comfortable) and status areas (I'm a lowly university
student). How can one improve that? Or how can an ugly dude make
himself better looking?


> 2. Learn how to interpret female behavior so you are never misguided
as to
> where you stand.
>

Do your books show how this can be done?


> 3. Find the appropriate place for EVERY woman you encounter in your
life:
> friends, dates, pivots, utility fox, and so forth.


What is a utility fox?


> 4. Develop a gimmick which will have women approaching you.

What kind of gimmick can you use to get women to approach you?? Can
you give some examples of this? How have you or your students used
this to great success?

>
> 5. Know when to make a move and make it decisive;
>
> 6. If the move is not successful, or if you want to set up for
a "returning
> fox," you use "one and done" and end the interaction.
>

What is "one and done"??


> 7. When the fox returns, you make another aggressive move.
>
> 8. When foxes approach you, you pursue aggressively as in (6) above.
>
> 9. Once you make progress, you continue to pursue until that
progress is
> halted once, then you cease all contact.

How do you mean by when the progress is halted? Is getting laid having
your progress halted? Or are you speaking of being ignored or
something like that?


> You do this systematically, with fundamentally compatible women, and
you can't
> help but succeed over time.

So by this do you mean that you have to figure out her cupid ratings
and go for ones who are similar to you? What does "fundamentally"
compatible mean? Aren't we going for the REALLY hot girls here?

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Ray Gordon

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Dec 7, 2000, 3:00:00 AM12/7/00
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>> 1. Learn where you stand with regard to your desirability (through
>CUPID,
>> chapter one); then learn your strengths and weaknesses so you can
>work on them
>> by making yourself more desirable to women with lopsided preferences
>which
>> favor you.
>
>So let me get this straight. You figure out your CUPID rating and then
>you work on what you're lacking in order to appear more desirable to
>women? That's all good but, my lackings are in the money (I'm not
>broke but I'm comfortable)

How's your future earning potential? Any man can PLAN to get rich. You get
ground-floor golddiggers that way.

>and status areas (I'm a lowly university
>student).

With POTENTIAL.....you also have brains.

>How can one improve that? Or how can an ugly dude make
>himself better looking?

Diet and exercise.


>> 2. Learn how to interpret female behavior so you are never misguided
>as to
>> where you stand.
>>
>
>Do your books show how this can be done?

They're free and listed below in my sig.


>> 3. Find the appropriate place for EVERY woman you encounter in your
>life:
>> friends, dates, pivots, utility fox, and so forth.
>
>
>What is a utility fox?

Read the books. They're FREE.


>> 4. Develop a gimmick which will have women approaching you.
>
>What kind of gimmick can you use to get women to approach you?? Can
>you give some examples of this? How have you or your students used
>this to great success?

Mine are hypnosis, choreography, and being an online psychic. Women see that
in your profile on AOL they won't leave you alone. Others include poetry,
dogs, or if you really want a good one, try NEEDLEPOINT or COOKING.....


>> 5. Know when to make a move and make it decisive;
>>
>> 6. If the move is not successful, or if you want to set up for
>a "returning
>> fox," you use "one and done" and end the interaction.
>>
>
>What is "one and done"??

One rejection and you are done with her. If she returns, she has to give you
at least what she rejected from you or you send her packing again.


>> 7. When the fox returns, you make another aggressive move.
>>
>> 8. When foxes approach you, you pursue aggressively as in (6) above.
>>
>> 9. Once you make progress, you continue to pursue until that
>progress is
>> halted once, then you cease all contact.
>
>How do you mean by when the progress is halted? Is getting laid having
>your progress halted? Or are you speaking of being ignored or
>something like that?

Not getting whatever it is you want.

>> You do this systematically, with fundamentally compatible women, and
>you can't
>> help but succeed over time.
>
>So by this do you mean that you have to figure out her cupid ratings
>and go for ones who are similar to you?

Compatible under CUPID. Outfoxing The Foxes explains this.

>What does "fundamentally"
>compatible mean? Aren't we going for the REALLY hot girls here?

Yes, but among the hotties, there are those who will want you more. For
example, if you are strong on brains and short on looks, "minddiggers" will
want you. If you are long on money and short on brains, golddiggers will want
you and so forth. This is all explained in CUPID.

mytru...@my-deja.com

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Dec 8, 2000, 5:18:40 PM12/8/00
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> >So let me get this straight. You figure out your CUPID rating and
then
> >you work on what you're lacking in order to appear more desirable to
> >women? That's all good but, my lackings are in the money (I'm not
> >broke but I'm comfortable)
>
> How's your future earning potential? Any man can PLAN to get rich.
You get
> ground-floor golddiggers that way.
>
> >and status areas (I'm a lowly university
> >student).
>
> With POTENTIAL.....you also have brains.

OK, this is good. I have excellent earning potential. Plus, yes, I am
fairly intelligent. So how do go about using this to my advantage?
Especially, say in a situation like I will be in tonight, in a bar or
club?


> >How can one improve that? Or how can an ugly dude make
> >himself better looking?
>
> Diet and exercise.

For the record, I wasn't asking because I'm unattractive, because
that's one of the higher CUPID ratings. I'm just trying to clarify the
concept.

> >What kind of gimmick can you use to get women to approach you?? Can
> >you give some examples of this? How have you or your students used
> >this to great success?
>
> Mine are hypnosis, choreography, and being an online psychic. Women
see that
> in your profile on AOL they won't leave you alone. Others include
poetry,
> dogs, or if you really want a good one, try NEEDLEPOINT or
COOKING.....

You're kidding right? Needlepoint??? I can see cooking but
needlepoint is pretty gay. What hot chicks do needlepoint and what hot
chicks would it impress?

> >> 5. Know when to make a move and make it decisive;

I assume you're referring to closes? Is that accurate?

Ray Gordon

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Dec 8, 2000, 7:35:39 PM12/8/00
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>> >So let me get this straight. You figure out your CUPID rating and
>then
>> >you work on what you're lacking in order to appear more desirable to
>> >women? That's all good but, my lackings are in the money (I'm not
>> >broke but I'm comfortable)
>>
>> How's your future earning potential? Any man can PLAN to get rich.
>You get
>> ground-floor golddiggers that way.
>>
>> >and status areas (I'm a lowly university
>> >student).
>>
>> With POTENTIAL.....you also have brains.
>
>OK, this is good. I have excellent earning potential. Plus, yes, I am
>fairly intelligent. So how do go about using this to my advantage?
>Especially, say in a situation like I will be in tonight, in a bar or
>club?

Just talk about your future plans as if you are doing so for no reason other
than making conversation. Women ask these questions for a reason.

>> >How can one improve that? Or how can an ugly dude make
>> >himself better looking?
>>
>> Diet and exercise.
>
>For the record, I wasn't asking because I'm unattractive, because
>that's one of the higher CUPID ratings. I'm just trying to clarify the
>concept.

Improving your strongest category usually pays off best.


>> >What kind of gimmick can you use to get women to approach you?? Can
>> >you give some examples of this? How have you or your students used
>> >this to great success?
>>
>> Mine are hypnosis, choreography, and being an online psychic. Women
>see that
>> in your profile on AOL they won't leave you alone. Others include
>poetry,
>> dogs, or if you really want a good one, try NEEDLEPOINT or
>COOKING.....
>
>You're kidding right? Needlepoint??? I can see cooking but
>needlepoint is pretty gay. What hot chicks do needlepoint and what hot
>chicks would it impress?

You have to actually DO it in public to pull it off......walking a poodle is
gay too but that did a lot for me when I was a teenager (they don't shed).


>> >> 5. Know when to make a move and make it decisive;
>
>I assume you're referring to closes? Is that accurate?

I don't think in terms of closing, but just making moves.

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