Instead of flame wars, I'm going to go "back to basics" for a bit and
explain why I created the Seduction Library. It's okay if you never
admit that I'm right or if you never defend me. This message is for all
the men who are currently not getting what they want from women. My
critics now say that they have a canned reply for me, so I'm going to can
a reply to that. This is the reply.
Let's start with the worst-case scenario. Say you are 25 years old and
have never had a date, and you are clueless about what to do with
"women." I am going to give as much advice as I can here without giving
away the material from the Library. The reason I charge for the books is
that I got tired of men getting laid with my advice and not compensating
me. Since there is a market for this information, I believe I should be
compensated. As in the case of the Foxhunter who posted his success
story here two years ago, the value of a beautiful woman in your life is
priceless. If you are not a pig about it, this beautiful woman you CRAVE
is well within your grasp, *almost* regardles of your looks, height,
income, personality, brains, or any other factor you think is keeping you
from getting what you want. I say almost because no man can work
miracles, but you can come damn close.
Even if you can't get a 10, you can get a 9, or an 8, or something a few
points higher than you would get without The Seduction Library. More
importantly, you can learn to screen out the women who will look good on
the outside but who are garbage on the inside. Nothing is gained if you
get into a relationship or marriage with a woman who destroys you
psychologically, when you could have avoided the problem by checking for
the warning signs. This is why it's dangerous to assume that
good-looking women are good, or that relationships which look good on the
surface are sound. The people who congraulate you for landing a
beautiful woman with problems won't be around when the problems come home
to roost. Why men fall into the trap of dating beautiful women with
problems is that they are so desperate to find a beautiful woman that
they take any one they can find, choosing inside flaws over outside
flaws. It is only when a man has mastered seduction that he can find a
partner who is beautiful both inside and out. This is where the
Seduction Library comes in.
I began documenting my method for seducing beautiful women because I got
sick of waiting for my life to become perfect to succeed with women. As
you probably know, I have been dealt a few setbacks in life, including
herpes, employment discrimination, and retaliation and harassment on the
internet by political and business rivals who are powerful,
well-organized, and able to get away with what they say becaue they are
anonymous. Without getting into details, I ask only of you that you
either disregard what you read about me, or that you take the time to
read my half of the story by purchasing a copy of "Defamation And
Dominique" at http://www.cybersheet.com/law/nique.html
Now, as for seduction, let's go back to the 25 year-old who has never had
a date. He might be tempted to buy my books, or to try other methods
which claim to know what "women" want, and which play to his fears about
losing women to the jerks. It might even be tempting to become a jerk.
If you do, you'll definitely find yourself a beautiful woman, but she
will be garbage on the inside. It takes a very advanced level of
seduction to weed out the bitches and to avoid their games and still have
enough left over to attract the few gems who are also hotties. How do
you do this?
It all starts with CUPID. CUPID is not just a simple 1-10 rating system
that is universal. It is a complex compatibility and rating formula that
will tell you:
1. How desirable you are to the typical female;
2. How desirable you are to any SPECIFIC female;
3. How to make yourself more desirable to both the typical female and
any specific female;
4. Which females will give you 90 percent or more of the sex you are
likely to get in your life (your "fan club");
5. How to tell if you are compatible with any female.
If you are satisfied with your CUPID rating and the rating distribution,
you should be able to attract the women you want. If not, you can raise
your CUPID rating. For an explanation of CUPID, visit
http://www.cybersheet.com/charming/1.html
If you are not attracting the women you want, you have two choices:
1. Improve your CUPID rating; and
2. Improve your seduction technique.
The techniques in The Seduction Library are worth roughly 10-15 CUPID
points. You can also improve your success by focusing on the women you
are most compatible with under CUPID (your fan club), and combined with
better seduction technique, you can solve the problem.
In "Outfoxing The Foxes" I teach men how to get women to want to have sex
with them. Systematically, I examine every aspect and stage of seduction
and tell the reader what he can do to improve his chances with women.
Step by step, I show him how to adjust every minor and major detail of
his life without changing who he is, without his having to be a jerk, and
even more important, I teach him how to GET WOMEN TO APPROACH HIM, and
what to do after that happens. If something goes wrong with a specific
woman, I show him how to make the most of the situation and even turn it
around. Most important, I teach men how women think, and how to predict
their responses to male behavior. Once you know how a woman is likely to
react to you, you have almost won the battle. What remains is knowing how
to get the responses you want and to avoid the ones you don't want.
Systematically, the Foxhunter builds his love life from scratch, starting
with CUPID, moving on to an understanding of what lies ahead, and like an
athlete training to become a champion, he eliminates his weaknesses, adds
strengths, and practices. He learns how to get women to approach him,
how to appear desirable, and instead of being told that he has to have a
certain type of attitude to get a beautiful woman, he learns the
consequences of various attitudes, with their strengths and weaknesses.
Comparing different attitudes is like comparing different styles of
music: more important is the musician. You can be shy, aggressive, or
even alternate between both, as long as you execute whichever strategy
you choose correctly. Beautiful women are not all alike, and different
types of men appeal to different types of women and vice versa. A common
mistake men make is thinking that their attitude was the problem when in
fact it may have been CUPID and a lack of compatibiilty or a weak rating.
Once you resolve CUPID and learn to practice it, you can correctly asses
the rest of your seduction attempts. Without it, you will have problems.
The beauty of Foxhunting is that it does not require men to approach
women. Some have said that the system says NEVER to approach, but that
is not correct. I just believe that it is stupid to make approaches to
women who might be taken, might not be interested, and who probably
aren't compatible with me. Once you master the technique of getting
beautiful women to approach you, why on earth would you want to risk
getting shot down? Even better is that since your mind is not on
approaching, you will tend to approach only when the odds are in your
favor, which will help your confidence, and make you more likely to
succeed. Think of a baseball batter who doesn't swing at anything but a
good pitch to hit. The numbers-game approach that has you hitting on any
beautiful woman in sight will leave you striking out a lot, but it will
also deemphasize compatibility. It helps the authors of these methods if
you approach lots of women and don't care about compatibility because it
will increase the number of women you land. Ask yourself, however, if
you would rather approach two out of five women successfully or four out
of a hundred.
Once you have broken the ice with a woman, Foxhunting teaches you what to
do with her. A Foxhunter instinctively knows what to do with a woman
once she is in his life, what to pursue her for, when to pursue, how to
pursue, and when to cut bait. For just about any situation you will find
yourself in with a Fox, the book has solid advice and an explanation of
the reasoning behind the advice. The advice is not one-dimensional, like
you will find in many other places, but instead takes into account many
important variables similar to the way a chess grandmaster examines a
chessboard to find the right move. Sometimes that move is clear, and
sometimes it's complex. Sometimes, even, two principles will conflict,
and one will have to take priority. Anyone who tells you that seduction
is cut-and-dried is lying out of their ass.
Even if you are that 25 year-old man who has never had a date, women
don't have to know that. As your understanding of women improves
(including now that you know not to let them know what you don't know!),
you realize that as long as you behave like a successful seducer, women
will treat you like one. I broke through my failure problem when I
realized that the past didn't matter, and as long as I knew what to do in
the PRESENT, that my future would be set. Shortly after that, I found
that the dream came true. I stopped sending signals to women that I was
desperate or inept, and they began treating me like sexual royalty (not
all women, but you don't need to seduce all women). It's okay to strike
out even 95 out of 100 times if the ones you connect with are gems. Even
the best hitter in baseball strikes out 70 percent of the time. With
Foxhunting, I find that I am successful with about 20 percent of my cold
approaches, and 70 percent of my return of a female approach (a Fox who
approaches you is more likely to be interested in you). As I will
explain later, I don't really have failures now, as I have reduced my
personal Foxhunting to a science. It takes most of my readers about 1-2
years before they reach this point, about the same time it took me.
Foxhunting is so much second nature to me that my application of it gets
me everything I ever dreamed of from women and more. As the book
recommends, I play to my strengths, relying primarily on two gimmicks to
break the ice: psychic readings and metaphysics. Since I have a merchant
account, I can charge women for online readings, and many of them
approach me trying to get free readings. Offline, I can take a tarot
deck into a coffeehouse and do the same thing. Choreography works
brilliantly for me and is a built-in ice-breaker for dancers. A dancer
who has approached me for a psychic reading and wants to get to know me
will use her being a dancer to impress me! From there I talk to her
about the type of dance I teach (hypnotic dance, my creation), and a
fixed percentage (about 60) want to learn it. Of that 60 percent, about
half (30 percent) will want to learn it from me, and of that 30 percent,
some will want to have sex with me.
I play a numbers game, but only with women I have prescreened for
compatibility. Even if I don't have sex with them, being surrounded
constantly by beautiful women or talking only to them creates the
foundation from which sex occurs naturally. I also make a few bucks
doing readings while waiting for romantic opportunity! Having perfected
my Foxhunting, I am free of the need to go to clubs, parties, or even to
approach women at all. I don't have to dress up, don't have to spend
money, and the time I save can be applied to more productive pursuits.
Your Foxhunting will be different, of course, but the principle of taking
who you are and blending seduction seamlessly into your life still
applies.
In "29 Reasons Not To Be A Nice Guy" I deal with the other half of the
equation: your male rivals, the jerks who previously got women over you.
I show, step by step, how the jerks operate, and how you can either
emulate their methods by becoming a "playa" or go the opposite route and
be a playa-hata, showing your disgust at losing out to these men, and
leaving it to women to discourage you from changing, or showing them what
your rivals are doing to get them into bed. 29 Reasons outlines more
aggressive seduction techniques, and gets very explicit on how to get a
woman aroused. The package of the two books will give the reader a
complete picture of seduction, and if he digests the material, puts it
into practice, and does so consistently over time, he almost cannot help
but fulfill his every fantasy.
A final note: after years of studying pickup artists, and thinking that
the player lifestyle was glamourous, my views have shifted sharply. I
now believe that it is best to marry one incredible Fox and enjoy her
sexually 200-250 times a year than it is to constantly have to discard
and reload new women each week. The sexual risks are lower, marriage is
what women want anyway, and if you choose the right woman who is of super
high-quality, you will have a better deal than the players could ever
dream of. Lying, manipulating, and settling are not good long-term
strategies. As smart women often say, I would rather be alone than with
the wrong person. Even if you have to wait a few months or even a year
to find your future wife, the long-term payoff is incredible, and on the
way to that payoff you will find even your short-term options increasing.
The methods have worked incredibly well for me, and for many of my
readers. If you are wasting money and time chasing women right now, the
books will pay for themselves in no time flat. You'll also find that the
women you get with the methods are keepers, and that you don't have to
act like a jerk to get them. No matter what your situation, you will
find that if you put the method into practice, your results will improve.
With an emphasis on quality over quantity, and a method which allows you
to remain who you are, and live your life as you are currently living it,
you won't have to make many adjustments to start seeing results.
More than anything, Foxhunting works because it does not require the man
to impose himself on a woman in any way. Instead of forcing the issue,
he lets the game come to him, and he doesn't try to work against nature.
A woman who knows that you are a Foxhunter is not able to punish you for
it, because the moment she decides she doesn't like you, she is out of
your life! Many other methods recommend trying to force a turnaround by
smooth-talking or or winning her over, but the best way to win over a
woman you don't want is to IGNORE her. Never underestimate the value of
ignoring a woman or holding your ground when things are not going your
way.
It is for these reasons and many more that I recommend The Seduction
Library to any man who has not found the answer yet. Visit
http://www.cybersheet.com/fox/index.html for more information on how to
order The Seduction Library or either of its two books. For maximum
results, it is recommended that you order both. Don't expect miracles,
but don't be surprised if they occur, either.
The Seduction Library
All the knowledge of a weekend seminar, for the price of two books
http://www.cybersheet.com/fox/index.html
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