Being Polite or Interested?
PoorA...@yahoo.com
being polite or friendly?
Here is what happened:
I was flying back home after working out of town for a week.
I was waiting at the gate, and noticed that the time for boarding is
now an hour later than it should have been. So I asked the girl behind
me what the situation was (she was reading a magazine). She told me
there were weather problems, so the plane would be delayed, which
sucked for her because she was supposed to meet some friends, then she
went back to reading the magazine.
We boarded the plane, she sat in front of me, as she sat down she said
to me "the plane is really stuff/hot" I agreed, and that was it.
When we landed, I exited the plane and was walking to the doors, she
was walking next to me, and was trying to hurry (since she was late),
she made a comment about how she has to rush now.
So I said "Hope you make it on time"
Then she asked if I was in town visiting, etc...I told her I lived
here, and asked her why she was in town...she said to visit a friend.
Then she asked me what work I was doing, and I asked her the same.
We got to the taxi stand, and I again wished that she would get to her
dinner on time. She said it was a pleasure to meet me.
Then we left.
So, interest? Friendliness? How do you tell?
Ray Gordon
to talk to her.
On the other hand, talking to her doesn't mean you would have gotten
anywhere, but that is where game comes in.
She probably figured you weren't into her since you didn't pursue her at
first. Generally, in that situation, only "game" her if you can
subcommunicate to her that you know how to game. The questions you ask say
that you do not know this yet.
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Etienne
more than to other people?
Etienne
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JJT
------ Gordon Roy Parker threatening children, the sick and elderly --------
>>Subject: Re: May Lissa's Mom DIE PAINFULLY ANDROT IN HELL****
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>>Date: Tue, 21 Apr 1998 19:13:02 -0600
>>From: ray...@hotmail.com
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>> ****Disclaimer: I was discriminated against on the basis of
>>gender today and told point-blank that this was the reason. Having been
>>taunted by the WHOREDENS and by Lissa over this, I consider it only fair
>>to return similar sentiments. When I get a full apology from Lissa, and
>>from Dave, and his website and RayFAQ go down, I will CONSIDER changing
>>my attitude.
>> Ray, first of all STOP CURSING, KIDS READ THIS TOO!! Dave, lol!
>>HA HAHA! dang! oh shit! maaaaaan...! lol! hmmmaaaa! Ray's gonna sue you!
>>looool!!!! [laughing] shit.... hire me as your lawyer. he he ha ha ha...
>>loooll
>> <----Stop Cursing? FUCK YOU. FUCK GYMNAST WHORES TOO. They
>>know DAMN well what goes on and what harmed me and they LAUGH at it.
>>May they all do a GOMEZ on vault and have the ambulance do a GRIVICH on
>>the way to the hospital if they are going to laugh at my career road
>>blocks, sexual road blocks that they CLAIM to disapprove of...except
>>when they need a job, so then it's okay to show a little ass, as long as
>>the boss doesn't try to touch that ass. FUCK THEM. They're moral
>>GARBAGE! They know it too; that's why they can't stand hearing it; if
>>it weren't true they wouldn't care. They're good for ONE THING and ONE
>>THING only, and they know that too. If they want me to be nice to them,
>>let them undo a few years of damage and apologize for THEIR attitudes.
>>They bring this shit on themselves with their arrogance. Spoiled BRATS.
>> You think my suing Dave and Dominique is a joke? Keep laughing.
>>Please. I'd love it if you did. You want to be Dave's lawyer? Go right
>>ahead. You punks think this is playtime; you're in for an awfully rude
>>shock. I gave fair warning. Dave(and Dominique through Dave) said "Go
>>for it." I will. I'll go for every last ounce of gold that resides in
>>both their scumbag pockets.
>> See, I was being a NICE GUY about this before. I decided not to
>>be NICE anymore. I get really FUCKING PISSED OFFwhen people mock my
>>pain, enough to where I start focusing my energy on THEIR pain. Lissa's
>>pain. The pain of watching her mother die the same death my secretarial
>>career died. Yes, that death. I know what it's like to watch something
>>you love die. Watching my father die right in front of my eyes at age
>>12 wasn't as painful as watching women get sexually harassed by their
>>bosses, but that was nothing compared to the pain of seeing women mock
>>the issue, like it were okay, like they couldn't have the courage to do
>>the right thing.
>> Lissa, watch your mom fade away and think of mycareer, and then
>>think of the fact that I can revive my career. Noone will be able to
>>revive your mom. No one. She's DYING, and she's DYING slowly. Does she
>>even remember your name anymore? I don't think so.....you think Dave's
>>such a nice guy? I don't. Hedoes that page for you, Missy, Dominique,
>>and all those wonderful girls who worship him. You think he's going to
>>get away with it? He's not. If you want to see God's punishment for your
>>treatment of me, watch it in your mom.
>> My last spell went to Jaycie's knees. She still competing?
>>Nope. The next one goes to Lissa's mom. Note her condition today and
>>see how she progresses from here. Don't mess with a psychic. After
>>this one is done I'll start REALLY wishing for some Gomez action on the
>>vault, and I'll start naming names and focusing ALL of my psychic energy
>>on it.
PoorA...@yahoo.com
> anywhere, but that is where game comes in.
> subcommunicate to her that you know how to game. The questions you
ask say
> that you do not know this yet.
That is true. That is why I am here, to start learning the game
PoorA...@yahoo.com
Etienne wrote:
> Please tell me. If she wasn't interested in you, why would she talk
to you
> more than to other people?
Thats why I THOUGHT there might be interest.
But Ive seen many times where someone is on an elevator, and its
crowded, so the person says to someone "Crowded today" and that person
replies "Yeah, cold too" and they start talking about the weather and
how it made their commute hell that morning for about a minute before
one of them has to leave.
Thats just being friendly/polite (I assume) so I wasnt sure if that was
the case.
I do not know how to tell the differenc.
Ray Gordon
> to you
>> more than to other people?
>
> Thats why I THOUGHT there might be interest.
Therein lies your problem: since you weren't confident in her interest, you
telegraphed to her that you didn't have any game.
> But Ive seen many times where someone is on an elevator, and its
> crowded, so the person says to someone "Crowded today" and that person
> replies "Yeah, cold too" and they start talking about the weather and
> how it made their commute hell that morning for about a minute before
> one of them has to leave.
Doesn't mean you have to do that. Generally, a player will assume she is
interested until she gives him a reason not to.
The term is "IOI" for "indication of interest."
> Thats just being friendly/polite (I assume) so I wasnt sure if that was
> the case.
Better to assume it is the case and act accordingly, since she can always
correct you later.
> I do not know how to tell the differenc.
See above-me, the opposite of BELOW-ME.
Ray Gordon
>> anywhere, but that is where game comes in.
> The main issue is...how to pick up the game.
How do you fake knowing how to play an instrument? You can't. You learn
the instrument.
>> subcommunicate to her that you know how to game. The questions you
> ask say
>> that you do not know this yet.
> That is true. That is why I am here, to start learning the game
How would you know who to listen to if you haven't a clue of what you need
to learn?
I hope to god you aren't one of those "useful idiots" that the gurus here
try to get money out of by trashing me. If you listen to them, you'll have
proven to me why you fail with women.
Alex
wrote on 1/17/05 8:55 PM:
> If she wasn't into you at all, I doubt she'd have given you several openings
> to talk to her.
>
> On the other hand, talking to her doesn't mean you would have gotten
> anywhere, but that is where game comes in.
>
> She probably figured you weren't into her since you didn't pursue her at
> first. Generally, in that situation, only "game" her if you can
> subcommunicate to her that you know how to game. The questions you ask say
> that you do not know this yet.
And Gordon's response says he has no answers.
ags...@yahoo.com
you her number. Plain and simple.
Regards...
PoorA...@yahoo.com wrote:
> How can you tell if someone is interested in you, or if they are
simply
> being polite or friendly?
>
> Here is what happened:
>
<SNIP>
ags...@yahoo.com
Ray Gordon wrote:
> If she wasn't into you at all, I doubt she'd have given you several
openings
> to talk to her.
So only women who are into you talk to you? Are you socially
challenged?
> She probably figured you weren't into her since you didn't pursue her
at
> first.
She probably wasn't into him because he lives in a different city than
she does.
> Generally, in that situation, only "game" her if you can
> subcommunicate to her that you know how to game.
"subcommunicate"? Is that like when you come home and the internet bill
is on the keyboard because your mom wants to "subcommunicate" to you
that you should find a job instead of being a fucking loser on the
internet?
> The questions you ask say
> that you do not know this yet.
The same can be said by the answers you give.
> --
> Ray Gordon, Social Loser
> http://www.livingathome.com/withmother.html
Regards...
Alex
ags...@yahoo.com at ags...@yahoo.com wrote on 1/19/05 6:16 AM:
> Ray Gordon wrote:
>> If she wasn't into you at all, I doubt she'd have given you several
> openings
>> to talk to her.
>
> So only women who are into you talk to you? Are you socially
> challenged?
How long have you been reading ASF that that's still a question?
Ray Gordon
> openings
>> to talk to her.
>
> So only women who are into you talk to you?
They're the only ones I notice. I tend to rebuff the others. Only so much
Ray to go around!
>> She probably figured you weren't into her since you didn't pursue her
> at
>> first.
>
> She probably wasn't into him because he lives in a different city than
> she does.
Yeah, Brad Pitt gets that a lot too.
>> Generally, in that situation, only "game" her if you can
>> subcommunicate to her that you know how to game.
>
> "subcommunicate"? Is that like when you come home and the internet bill
> is on the keyboard because your mom wants to "subcommunicate" to you
> that you should find a job instead of being a fucking loser on the
> internet?
Now now, just because you're a closet homosexual who gangrapes little boys,
why do you have to go making up stuff about me?
You put the LAME in FLAME.
audrey in velvet
<r...@cybersheet.com> wrote:
>>> If she wasn't into you at all, I doubt she'd have given you several
>> openings
>>> to talk to her.
>>
>> So only women who are into you talk to you?
>
> They're the only ones I notice. I tend to rebuff the others. Only so much
> Ray to go around!
>
>
>>> She probably figured you weren't into her since you didn't pursue her
>> at
>>> first.
>>
>> She probably wasn't into him because he lives in a different city than
>> she does.
>
> Yeah, Brad Pitt gets that a lot too.
>
lol...wasnt so into him when he was younger but he seems to be one of those
men who get better with age...
pardon me for hijacking your thread...
audrey
Paul Robinson
>>>If she wasn't into you at all, I doubt she'd have given you several
>>openings to talk to her.
>>
>>So only women who are into you talk to you?
>
> They're the only ones I notice. I tend to rebuff the others. Only so much
> Ray to go around!
That's kind of like saying there are an insufficient number of
cockroaches in most tenements.
"You have so contaminated this universe, that a trillion years of
torture in boiling acid, wouldn't cure one second of what you have
inflicted upon it by simply existing, wasting space which would be more
usefully occupied by maggots."
- Dr. Malcolm Stevens,
"In the Matter of: The Gatekeeper: The Gate Contracts"
aardvark9084
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now *that* is a fantastic sig and right on target as well.
aardvark
Etienne
because she has some interest. It is up to you to make this interest grow.
Being interested is not a "yes or no" question. Often, people are slightly
interested, somewhat interested or very interested. She might talk to you to
know if you are a real man, you have to show her.
Etienne
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Johnny McDermot
the first time you spoke with her. I have found this bit difficult.
Maybe someone can throw some light on this.