neg hits - the details
Mystery
I'm not sure about the neg hits. Like a girl I know says...
"I'd rather get pos hits then negative ones"
>I don't view girls in term of numbers
rating women reveals their social standing. girls who are natural 10s have
a defense mechanism that is designed over time to get rid of the 15 men A
DAY who approach them out of the blue. I have gone out with 10s and they
have to deal with this as a part of their life. they are very good at
getting rid of the guys usually without having to say fuck off. This is a
SHIELD that 10s have. 8s and under dont HAVE this shield because they didnt
HAVE to develope it. When they dress down, people STOP hitting on them (not
so with 10s - when you have a 10 body and face, even without makeup you are
a 9!)
>I don't like to BE rated, so I don't rate.
I dont like to be rated either. but that doesnt mean people are going to
STOP judging me. The rating system is used to get a handle on the girls
SHIELD level. To NOT correctly assess the girls shield is to IGNORE this
vaualbe piece of information with regards to her lifestyle and that is
therefore ignorance.
I have gone out with PLENTY of 9s and 10s. This is MY particular standard.
I have had relationships with dancers and models and bartenders and
strippers too. They have to deal with the daily barage of men and are used
to it. So when you NEG HIT them (remember it isnt an INSULT) it gets them
going.
HERE IS HOW:
a 10 is there surrounded by friends. She has put on this BITCH act. Is she
REALLY a bitch? Unlikely. All my girlfriends were wonderful human beings -
beautiful people have it easier because they are beautiful and often times
have better upbringings because of it. BUT - they need to have a standard
with which to uphold when all these NOBODY guys approach her. So her values
are very honed and understood. When a man walks up and says, "can I buy you
a beer?" she WILL be annoyed by this. While the guy thinks he's doing
something nice for her, she gets this ALL the time. She is desensitized to
this. You are the 8th guy TODAY! So she is very good at brushing all these
guys off. Shit, she HAS to be ... she isnt going to sleep with ALL of them!
So she may say NO or act annoyed and then the guy thinks she's a bitch and
walks off pissed and feeling like a failure. and that seems to work.
sometimes when the girl is particularly in a feeling of control (like in a
club where she is PREPARED for the barage of men - it IS afterall something
that occurs so often that when it is GONE she MISSES it) she will accept the
beer and then flake the guy off. Hey, the guys are stupid enough to buy her
one, she might as well take it. When they take a beer from you, the girl is
saying to you, "I dont know you and I dont care about you. you are just
another one of those typical guys and since I dont respect you, Ill take the
beer from you before I snub you." I was with my friend diane (the 10) and
her cute friend (an 8.5 maybe I guess). A guy came up and asked, "I dont
mean to bother you but would you like to dance with me?" The 8.5, not being
used to this said, "ummm, ahhh ..." and the guy gave a puppy dog look and I
was smiling at her knowing how pathetic the guy was so I saw the humjour in
the situation and the girl said, "ummm, why not. sure." The guy said,
"REALLY? are you SURE? Wow, I NEVER get girls to dance with me." What a
pathetic loser. She started talking with diane and the guy just standing
there and they never went for the dance. weird eh? He then said ... to ME
... "Can I buy her a beer?" I said, "you can buy ME a beer ... but youll
have to ask HER." At this point I knew he was being a hassle to her, she
wasnt interested in the slightest and felt uncomfortable. I thought is was
great to see this occur in front of me - it was highly educational and
moreso entertaining. So I say, "Hey, the guy wants to buy you a beer :)"
Im getting into this now hahahaa. It was great. The girl goes, "ummm, no
thank you." Now diane (the 10) says, "yes, she'll take the beer." So he
buys her a beer. And then he never talks to her again! Weird eh? Well
thats how it went down.
I digressed. oh well, steady stream of text from my brain ... Ill trudge on
(sorry reader) ... since a 10 is so GOOD at snuffing your approach (nothing
ever personal either - it is a strategy that is built over years of stupid
guys approaches EVERY FUCKING DAY, she will do the same to YOU. That is why
SNUFFING THEM is important. You cant INSULT them because they are used to
all the hurt guys INSULTING them (ahh you are nothing but a bitch!) so this
rolls off their back like water off a muskrats ass. How do you SNUFF them
withOUT INSULTING them? Well, let's say she has long nails which are
mostlikely fake. Now why do 10s dress so FINE if they dont want the
attention? Becuase they LOVE the feeling of control sometimes. they are in
a club with friends and they want to be the leader of the circle (social
hierarcy in primates) and so she gets all the attention. The guys come and
buy drinks for them and she gets off on knocking the guys down. Its all in
a days play. Ok, so she is wearing fake nails to look even BETTER! Most
guys will say, "wow you are so beautiful." BORING, ypical and in her mind
by now (after years of the same shit) TRUE. Imagine a guy comes along and
says, "nice nails? are they real?" she will have to conciede, "no.
acrylic." and you say (like you didnt notice it was a put down), "oh.
(pause) well I guess they still LOOK good." Then he turns his back to her.
What does this do to her? Well, he didnt treat her like shit and INSULT
her. He complimented her but the result was to targert her insecurity. She
thinks, "IM HOT IM BEAUTIFUL (especially in that emotional state of control
as in the public) ... but I didnt win this guy over. IM SO GOOD at this.
ILL just fix that little smear on my image that he has of me." then you
continue to show disinterest in her looks as you give her a neutral topic
like the elvis script. during this her intention is to get you to become
like all the other guys so she can feel in control and snuff you and you
then give her another NEG HIT like this ... "is that a hair piece? well,
its neat ... what do you call this hairstyle? The waffle? :)" Smile and
look at her to show her you are sincerely being funny and not insulting.
You are pleasant but disinterested in her beuaty. This will intrigue her
because she KNOWS guys. And this isnt normal. You must have really high
taste, or be used to girls or be married or something. These questions make
her CURIOUS. So this keeps happening and is known as FLIRTING. She give
you little neg hits and these tests are qualifiers. You pass them by neg
hitting her back. Afterall, you arent like the others showing interest.
But ... why? to get control again she says, "will you buy me a drink?"
notice how she is trying to get you now! BUT, she only wants to sucker you
in enough so she can SNUFF you. That is all she is about - this strategy is
all she knows and its not working for you so she is trying to do damage
control on the situation. But at the same time she doesnt quite understand
WHY you dont think you are great. Afterall, her nails ARE fake. you say,
"ahhh, thats so funny ... you nose moves when you speak .... (pointing and
being cute) look there it goes again ... its so ... quaint ... hheeeee
looky" :D She'll say, "ahhh, stoppp! :) *blush*. Now she is self conscious
and having her in this state is where you want her. You have with 3 neg
hits successfully created INTEREST (curiousity) and removed her from her
pedetral (removed her bitch shield. You were humourous, you had a smile,
you dress well, you are confident and everything she would want in a man.
You didnt take her shit. OH, and when she asked you for a beer, you said,
"no. I dont buy girls drinks. but you can buy ME one." You are qualifying
HER now. If she buys you a beer, this is symbolic of her RESPECT for you.
If not you say, "pleasure meeting you" and turn your back to her again.
DONT walk away just turn your back. you are neg hitting them again just
when they thought she was negging YOU. That is teasing eachother. That is
the first step to flirting. This is all textbook psychology. simple stuff
and it works enough for me to have had 58 girls in 6 years.
A NEG HIT is a qualifier. The girl is FAILING to meet your high
expectations. Its not an insult, just a judement call on your part. The
better looking the girl, the more aggressive you must be with using neg
hits. a 10 can get 3 neg hits up front, while an 8 only 1 or 2 over a
longer time. You CAN go overboard if they think you are BETTER than them.
you can drop the self-esteem right from under them (just like most 10s do to
guys) and this isnt good. You have to get as close to the breaking point as
you can without crossing the line. Once you have gotten her RIGHT THERE,
you can start appreciating things about her (NEVER LOOKS). there is a
mutual RESPECT now. something most guys never get from the girl.
This is how you remove a bitch shield. 3 neg hits aughta do it within 2 or 3
minutes of neuatral chat. once it is down, you can from a mutural respect
place, seduce her.
MYSTERY