I know you're going to feel like shit in the beginning after your
girlfriend breaks up with you. But, you will get over her a hell of a
lot easier if you will take these steps to get over her and get on
with your life:
Don't sit around feeling sorry for yourself and try to scheme up ways
to get your girlfriend back. Don't make any efforts whatsoever and
whatever you do, don't call her or write her. You need to block her
out of your life completely and pretend that she does not even exist
on this earth anymore.
If you have any pictures of her laying around, on the wall, or in your
wallet, hide them in your attic or somewhere where you will not likely
see them. Even better, throw them away or burn them. You could be nice
and return them to her if you desire.
Here's a good ritual to get her out of your system: Sit down and write
her a letter telling her pissed off and hurt you are about her dumping
you and tell her good bye and you don't want to ever see her again.
Don't mail this letter, but just set it aside somewhere. This is just
a good way to vent your feelings and make you feel better.
Block out of your mind all the good times you had. Just focus on the
negative and bad times (her bitchy moods, her always nagging you,
standing you up for dates, refusing to have sex with you, telling her
you love her and she does not say anything in return, her not
returning your calls, her flirting with other guys when you go out,
her unsightly nose hairs, her fat ass, all your arguments, etc.).
After some serious thinking, you may come to realize that you had
mostly bad times and things worked out for the best by you getting out
of an unhappy relationship.
Be sure and hide or destroy any love letters or cards she may have
given to you.
Return any gifts she may given to you. You don't need the reminders of
her and I would consider throwing them away or donating them to the
needy.
Don't listen to the crying in your beer songs or songs that you shared
together. Listen only to upbeat music that will cheer you up. Laying
around listening to sad songs is only going to make you feel worse.
If you can, avoid going to places that will remind you of your ex.
In conclusion, keep real active and busy and spend a lot of time with
your friends. And most importantly, get back in circulation and start
dating again. And, don't be choosy and particular when you start
dating again. Date any and all single women. You need to get back in
the groove and don't hold out waiting for some Playboy Playmate type
to come along.
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