Long Hair and Earrings?
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to chew on and digest.
I wear my hair long since I like it that way. My ponytail is 6
to 8 inches long now...(don't know for sure, will have to have Julie
measure me...the 'tail that is...*smile*) Julie like my hair long also
and I have heard from may women that they too like men with long hair.
Question is: Why DO some women like long hair on men? Alternate
question: Why DON'T some women like long hair on men? Should generate
some discussion I imagine. Now remember, no flaming, just post your
preferences, ladies, and your reasons. Men, how about you? Do you wear
your hair long or short and why?
Oh, I suppose I should state why I like to wear my hair long.
I can't specifically pin down ALL the various psychological components
of this but I do know that it makes me feel "free"...you see, I work
in an office full of short haired men. I enjoy playing the rebel and
the long hair is just a small part of it. But, that is not my primary
reason. I just LIKE it long! I like the way it feels when the wind
blows it about and just the way it looks. I will have to think about
other reasons...oh, well another one is that my lovely wife likes it
too! That is a good incentive but not the main reason.
PART TWO:
Earring? Me? Hmmm, what a concept. I never even considered the
thought of it in the past. After all, earrings are for women!!! At
least, that is my childhood conditioning speaking. This year I am
going to be 39 years old *gasp* and for some reason, I have been
mulling over, in a desultory fashion, the thought of wearing an
earring. Why?...oh, I don't know yet, still working on that.
Same basic questions as above: Women, you like or not and why?
Men, you do or don't and why?
:)
Steve
Cheshire Cat
1. Long hair.
Well, I first wore my hair long in college (anti-parent thing). But,
I cut it back when I graduated and got a job. A few years ago, I
started growing it long again, mainly for a change. But mostly
because I was having a difficult time at work, and wanted to
express my independence some how (working with military folks at the
time, too, made long hair a particularly noticeable gesture!).
Back in August, I cut it back again, for two reasons: one, I was
getting tired of sweeping the bathroom floor once or twice a week
to get all the hair up, and two, most people who knew me said
they liked it when it was short. (Besides, I live in Florida,
and all that hair was getting *hot*!)
Bottom line: I'm indifferent about it. I like the sensuality of
having long hair. But I appreciate the convenience of short hair.
2. Ear ring.
Hmmmmm. Doesn't appeal to me. Doesn't bother me on men. But I
wouldn't do it. *shrug*.
As for getting older, well, I'll be 30 this year. Which means, if
I know my friends, they'll probably throw a 'wake' for me! :-)
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"-=[SLS]=-" <ssa...@silver.ucs.indiana.edu> writes:
|> Hi all! Say, just wanted to throw this question out for people
|>to chew on and digest.
|>
|> I wear my hair long since I like it that way. My ponytail is 6
|>to 8 inches long now...(don't know for sure, will have to have Julie
|>measure me...the 'tail that is...*smile*) Julie like my hair long also
|>and I have heard from may women that they too like men with long hair.
|>
|> Question is: Why DO some women like long hair on men? Alternate
|>question: Why DON'T some women like long hair on men? Should generate
|>some discussion I imagine. Now remember, no flaming, just post your
|>preferences, ladies, and your reasons. Men, how about you? Do you wear
|>your hair long or short and why?
Long. Up until the spring of 1985, I always had long hair... My mother
preferred it that way when I was a child, and I've always liked the sense
of freedom I get from wearing my hair long. Admittedly, it can be a bit
of a pain at times (like when it gets tangled), but I just prefer it long.
And after 6 1/2 years in the Air Force (April '85 - December '91), when I
couldn't wear my hair long, I've only had it cut twice - and didn't have
any length taken off. I admit to being a bit of a rebel myself - I'm going
into business, but I'm not going to cut my hair short... It's down to my
shoulders now, and I love it!
|>PART TWO:
|>
|> Earring? Me? Hmmm, what a concept. I never even considered the
|>thought of it in the past. After all, earrings are for women!!! At
|>least, that is my childhood conditioning speaking. This year I am
|>going to be 39 years old *gasp* and for some reason, I have been
|>mulling over, in a desultory fashion, the thought of wearing an
|>earring. Why?...oh, I don't know yet, still working on that.
|>
|> Same basic questions as above: Women, you like or not and why?
|>Men, you do or don't and why?
Yes. Not just one, but two. I have a selection, depending upon what I
feel like wearing. Today: gold & turquoise runic post (upper), gold &
turquoise tortuga (turtle) bangle on gold post (lower). Both in the
left ear, because I usually hold the phone to my right. Why? Because
I like having the freedom to wear a piece of jewelry where it won't get
in my way at work; also, because it's contrary to what most people expect
to see, and I like to shake them up a little. This, by the way, is going
to seem strange to my mom when I go home to see her this summer - I haven't
told her yet, and I've had my ear pierced for 9 months now...
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-=[SLS]=-
>Steve Salter asked a couple of questions:
>
>1. Long hair.
>
>Bottom line: I'm indifferent about it. I like the sensuality of
>having long hair. But I appreciate the convenience of short hair.
Hmmm, I understand the convenience aspect quite well. I was just
thinking this morn about how quick it used to be to rinse my hair in
the shower and how fast it dried. But, the sensuality is one thing
that is nice that I don't wanna give up for convenience. It also
reminds me of the 60's-70's a bit I think which were my adolescent
years. That might be significant for some deep buried reason also.
>
>2. Ear ring.
>
>Hmmmmm. Doesn't appeal to me. Doesn't bother me on men. But I
>wouldn't do it. *shrug*.
Hmm, never really appealed to me either but for some reason I have
been thinking about it. How about it, people that know me. Should I go
for it? Whatcha think, Jewel of my Life?
Steve
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Cheshire Cat
|> smc...@dw3g.ess.harris.com (Cheshire Cat) remarks:
|>
|> >Bottom line: I'm indifferent about it. I like the sensuality of
|> >having long hair. But I appreciate the convenience of short hair.
|>
|> Hmmm, I understand the convenience aspect quite well. I was just
|> thinking this morn about how quick it used to be to rinse my hair in
|> the shower and how fast it dried. But, the sensuality is one thing
|> that is nice that I don't wanna give up for convenience.
Sensuality is wonderful, but IMHO, needs to be shared to be fully
enjoyed. Sensuality for sensuality's sake borders on decadence,
I think.
I guess I wonder how much having an SO who appreciates the sensual
expression impacts the decision/enjoyment...?
Howard Johnson's Got His Ho-Jo Workin'
>In article <C1Mt5...@usenet.ucs.indiana.edu>, you write:
>|> smc...@dw3g.ess.harris.com (Cheshire Cat) remarks:
>|>
>|> >Bottom line: I'm indifferent about it. I like the sensuality of
>|> >having long hair. But I appreciate the convenience of short hair.
>|>
>|> Hmmm, I understand the convenience aspect quite well. I was just
>|> thinking this morn about how quick it used to be to rinse my hair in
>|> the shower and how fast it dried. But, the sensuality is one thing
>|> that is nice that I don't wanna give up for convenience.
>
>Sensuality is wonderful, but IMHO, needs to be shared to be fully
>enjoyed. Sensuality for sensuality's sake borders on decadence,
>I think.
>
>I guess I wonder how much having an SO who appreciates the sensual
>expression impacts the decision/enjoyment...?
Hmm, well, my ex had the most wonderful golden hair, worn fairly
long, and i couldn't get enough of i I dunno, i just dig long
hair. well, she cut it a few months after she dumped me (wonder
what that says??? poly nothing ;). The funny part is it still looks
gre *sigh*... aw, who cares, if yer SO is a great person, that's
all that matters.Short hair, long hair, ...an SO is most
emphatically an SO no matter what...*more sighs*
...of course, i'm perfectready to appreciate the sensuality
of any female hair...(well, not Sinesay...)
=)>
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>
> I pulled off into a Shell station.
> They said I'd blown a seal.
> I said, "Fix the damn thing and leave my private life
> out of it, okay pal?"
>
frank/Cheez Wiz--hey whaddaya know, my back is itchin' somethin' fierce!
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Richard Iswara
easier to maintain. Dries real quick after I wash it. Also it's really
annoying for me when my hair grows long. It keeps tumbling in front of
my eyes and ears. I like to keep em clear of obstruction. Not to mention
long hair gives people a convenient handgrip in a close fight. Also long
hair brings an image of barbarian to me. And in China, during the Ching
Dynasty, I think it is mandatory for a man to grow their hair long, braid
it. Those of you who watch the Last Emperor should know. The people resent
this since it rubs their nose that Manchuria conquers China. It brings the
image of a dog tail. I suspect I got a little of this too. Anyway...
RickI, the RoadRunner
Mary Epperson
> Hi all! Say, just wanted to throw this question out for people
>to chew on and digest.
No problem. It's Saturday and a good to digest... :-)
> I wear my hair long since I like it that way. My ponytail is 6
>to 8 inches long now...(don't know for sure, will have to have Julie
>measure me...the 'tail that is...*smile*) Julie like my hair long also
>and I have heard from may women that they too like men with long hair.
Sure do!!
> Question is: Why DO some women like long hair on men? Alternate
>question: Why DON'T some women like long hair on men? Should generate
>some discussion I imagine. Now remember, no flaming, just post your
>preferences, ladies, and your reasons. Men, how about you? Do you wear
>your hair long or short and why?
Okay: yes, I prefer long hair on men (Steve, Blade, Drieux and BDC are
some really good examples!). I guess it's because, on certain men, it
looks really good. Also, Steve mentioned a good reason: they appear
to be a little bit of a rebel (okay, in some cases, they're more than
a *little* bit of a rebel!). Another reason is you have something to
play with... *grin*
>PART TWO:
>
> Earring? Me? Hmmm, what a concept. I never even considered the
>thought of it in the past. After all, earrings are for women!!! At
>least, that is my childhood conditioning speaking. This year I am
>going to be 39 years old *gasp* and for some reason, I have been
>mulling over, in a desultory fashion, the thought of wearing an
>earring. Why?...oh, I don't know yet, still working on that.
I've always liked earrings on certain men (you have to be able to
carry it off). My brother has one and has for several years. Even
had it while he was in the Army. And yes, he has long hair
too...about as long as Blade's. I say if you want the earring, get
it! If you decide you don't like it, you can always take the earring
out and the hole disappears...
Well, someone mentioned they wanted to see other topics discussed. I
think this is a good one, Steve!!
Mary
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Howard Johnson's Got His Ho-Jo Workin'
i got a jump start on the hair thing. sorry, ladies, it's nowhere
near as long as it was four years ago, but it's comin' along...;)
"almost cut my hair, just the other day
but i didn't
and i wonder why..." --David Crosby
heh! an elated Cheez Wiz oughta be illegal! =)
cheers,
Cheez Wiz
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with people uptight, leave blue-green footprints that glow in the dark,
I hope they get home all right." --Da Byrds
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-=[SLS]=-
>Sensuality is wonderful, but IMHO, needs to be shared to be fully
>enjoyed. Sensuality for sensuality's sake borders on decadence,
>I think.
So, what's yer point? *smile* I dunno, sensuality for sensualities
sake sounds ok by me. Nothing wrong with hedonistic behaviors as long
as one is moderate. I think more to the point is how one feels about
themself though. If it feels *right* to be sensual then I say, do it.
I don't want to fit myself into a mold of convenience or "style" and
forego my outer expression of my inner self.
>
>I guess I wonder how much having an SO who appreciates the sensual
>expression impacts the decision/enjoyment..
That is a very good point also.
Sarah Curtis Johnson
>to chew on and digest.
*munch, munch*
> I wear my hair long since I like it that way. My ponytail is 6
>to 8 inches long now...(don't know for sure, will have to have Julie
>measure me...the 'tail that is...*smile*) Julie like my hair long also
>and I have heard from may women that they too like men with long hair.
Lucky Julie! :)
> Question is: Why DO some women like long hair on men? Alternate
>question: Why DON'T some women like long hair on men? Should generate
>some discussion I imagine. Now remember, no flaming, just post your
>preferences, ladies, and your reasons. Men, how about you? Do you wear
>your hair long or short and why?
Hmmmm...tough question. I personally *love* long hair on men. I've been
sitting here trying to figure out *why*, trying to consider it logically.
And I *can't*! There is the rebelliousness of it, which is appealing. But
the *most* attractive part of it is the sensuality of it...the feel of it,
the look of it, the flow of it...it's all very sensual. *droooooooooool*
>PART TWO:
>
> Earring? Me? Hmmm, what a concept. I never even considered the
>thought of it in the past. After all, earrings are for women!!! At
>least, that is my childhood conditioning speaking. This year I am
>going to be 39 years old *gasp* and for some reason, I have been
>mulling over, in a desultory fashion, the thought of wearing an
>earring. Why?...oh, I don't know yet, still working on that.
>
> Same basic questions as above: Women, you like or not and why?
>Men, you do or don't and why?
Well, personally, I don't really care either way. On the right guy, it can be
a wonderful look...on the wrong guy it can be almost laughable. :) But, I
would say that long hair and earrings go well together. Part of what makes
the difference in the look is how the guy carries it off. (I think the same
thing is true about long hair...) And, yes, as the point was made earlier, you
can always take out the earring if you don't like it! (after having some photos
taken to someday show your grandchildren of your "wild youth" ;)
This was a good question, Steve. And, personally, I say, Go for it! (the
earring, that is!) It's not permanent or anything...(now, a tatoo...;)
>Steve
-Sarah
Official Strawberry of the RFA
Clare West
>question: Why DON'T some women like long hair on men? Should generate
>some discussion I imagine. Now remember, no flaming, just post your
>preferences, ladies, and your reasons. Men, how about you? Do you wear
>your hair long or short and why?
I can't comment on why women might *not* like long hair because I
*love* long hair on men. My PYM's comes down to his waist. *sigh* He
says he like his hair long because he finds cutting it a very
traumatic experience. You should see him wince when I threaten to cut
it :-)
> Same basic questions as above: Women, you like or not and why?
>Men, you do or don't and why?
I like earrings. but not as much as I like long hair :-)
clare
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It is fairly simple, I like my hair long. A couple people,
well at least one person of ARC has see it long. I take care
of it, and it is well kept. It isn't a rebel thing, although
I do not follow the norm. (since age is banter so freely in
this post, this is year I turn 33, with 117 years left of my life)
I don't do things because it fashionable, I do things because I
like to. I have a beard, (well I call it a beard, it certainly
is not the bushy type...), but the beard has grown out from the
fact it was a pain to shave it everyday, when it didn't grow
fast enough to warrant it. (I have the a five o'clock shadow
every two days.) I actually alomst shave it off because it was
taking as much work to keep it neat as it would to shave it
everyday. but then I bought a trimmer and have been able to
keep it neat.
I don't have an earring, it just isn't my style. although I do
have a silver dolphin necklace that I wear.
Ciao for now,
BDC
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Michelle Speir
Unfortunately, I do not have the Awesome Computing Power to
pull previous letters into my letter with those little
greater-than signs in the left margin, but I'd like to add my
opinion to the long-hair question:
I was ecstatic to see all the discussion about long hair on
men. Sometimes I feel alone in the world because none of my
female (well, or male for that matter) friends have a long-hair
fetish like I do!! I'm notorious for it--once a friend of mine
saw a guy with really long hair in a bar and she went up to him
and said, "Oh, my friend Michelle would love you--she loves
long hair." Just this weekend, my friend Lori met three guys
who had REALLY long hair (as it turns out they were in a band)
and she told them about me, so when I came back from moving my
car, one ran up to me and said, " Michelle! Don't you remember
me?? We went to school together!"
I told him I loved his hair (of course) and he told me their
hotel room number! (incidentally, for Mr. HoJo here at UVA,
they were staying at HoJo's) We ended up not going though,
because we were too exhausted.
Anyway, why do I love long hair so much? I guess I mostly
agree with what other people wrote about it being very sensual,
sexy, and I just love running my fingers through it while
passionately kissing, or while in bed. The times I do kiss
short-haired men are rather amusing because it's automatic for
me to reach up to run my hand through the hair, and it's quite
traumatic when there's not enough hair there to do so!!!
Plus, there's something about hair that falls into the eyes, or
blows in the wind....I freaked in a department store in Germany
in December. There was a guy standing there with wavy, light
blond hair (very euro-looking) in a ponytail, but a bunch had
fallen into his face, and he kept pushing it back, and it would
gradually fall again...AAAH! I stood there pretending to look
at some kids' videos!
Sorry, I don't mean to babble about this--I fear I have written
too much, but I feel so much better to have some kindered
spirits! Any long-haired men out there, or women who love
long-haired men, please feel free to e-mail me!!!
--Michelle
Julie Salter
question....the OTHER question:
>Hmmm, I understand the convenience aspect quite well. I was just
>thinking this morn about how quick it used to be to rinse my hair in
>the shower and how fast it dried. But, the sensuality is one thing
>that is nice that I don't wanna give up for convenience. It also
>reminds me of the 60's-70's a bit I think which were my adolescent
>years. That might be significant for some deep buried reason also.
I really didn't comment too much on this one yet, but I will say that I
do like how it looks. I also like how it feels to run my fingers through
it. I enjoy brushing it and putting it in a ponytail for him. I also
encourage Steven to do things that make him happy. And if having long
hair makes him happy, then I say DO IT!
>Hmm, never really appealed to me either but for some reason I have
>been thinking about it. How about it, people that know me. Should I go
>for it? Whatcha think, Jewel of my Life?
When I see a man with an earing, I usually don't notice it, really. I
think that means - for me, its not an issue. Therefore, if you, my
handsome, sexy, studly husband, want an earing, then by all means, get
one. Earings are a statement of personality. I wear earings that
reflect my mood and my style. If you think that an earing would
express something you want to express, then go ahead.
When my ex got an earing 7 years ago, everyone in both our families
thought he had lost his mind. Eventually, though, the hoopla died
down and everyone got used to it. My children think its tough that
their dad has an earing.
Judging my Zak's response when you mentioned it (Zak is middle son) I
would say they would need a little time to get used to it. But then,
they need to realize that you have changed. You're not the same
person two years ago. And as Zak said, "I wouldn't be surprised."
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Julie Salter<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
President, Romantic Fire Association
Wife of the Official Fireside Sex Advisor..AKA: Steven Salter
"Look into my eyes...you will see....what you mean to me......"
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Lisa Mae
In article <C1MKM...@usenet.ucs.indiana.edu>, "-=[SLS]=-"
<ssa...@silver.ucs.indiana.edu> says:
>
> Question is: Why DO some women like long hair on men? Alternate
>question: Why DON'T some women like long hair on men? Should generate
>some discussion I imagine. Now remember, no flaming, just post your
>preferences, ladies, and your reasons. Men, how about you? Do you wear
>your hair long or short and why?
Matters on the man. Some men look comfortable with long hair...so
it looks good. Other's look good with their hair down to their shoulders.
I don't like men with crew cuts, but I don't think I would particularly
like a man with longer hair than mine. It is nice to run your hands through,
if it is soft...easy access to the nape of their neck. Reason's?....as
long as they have self-confidence about how they are, their going to be
handsome.
>I can't specifically pin down ALL the various psychological components
>of this but I do know that it makes me feel "free"...you see, I work
>in an office full of short haired men. I enjoy playing the rebel and
>the long hair is just a small part of it. But, that is not my primary
*A show of independence is a complimentary thing to show. (On the track
of long hair= different from others = independence of thought.)
>reason. I just LIKE it long! I like the way it feels when the wind
>blows it about and just the way it looks. I will have to think about
>other reasons...oh, well another one is that my lovely wife likes it
>too! That is a good incentive but not the main reason.
*Ever wash each other's hair? I hear that it is....mmmMmmm hard to
find the word I want....(close to) entertaining in a pleasent way.
****Depending on the man, goes for the earing too.
Lisa Mae
Howard Johnson's Got His Ho-Jo Workin'
>Hi everyone,
>
>Unfortunately, I do not have the Awesome Computing Power to
>pull previous letters into my letter with those little
>greater-than signs in the left margin, but I'd like to add my
>opinion to the long-hair question:
unfortunately, i don't have the Awesome Computing Power to take
out the empty space left behind by lines i delete. see below.
(i could use some help, beyond using capital D's in vi.)
>
>I was ecstatic to see all the discussion about long hair on
>men. Sometimes I feel alone in the world because none of my
>female (well, or male for that matter) friends have a long-hair
>fetish like I do!! I'm notorious for it--once a friend of mine
>saw a guy with really long hair in a bar and she went up to him
>and said, "Oh, my friend Michelle would love you--she loves
>long hair." Just this weekend, my friend Lori met three guys
>who had REALLY long hair (as it turns out they were in a band)
>and she told them about me, so when I came back from moving my
>car, one ran up to me and said, " Michelle! Don't you remember
>me?? We went to school together!"
>
>I told him I loved his hair (of course) and he told me their
>hotel room number! (incidentally, for Mr. HoJo here at UVA,
>they were staying at HoJo's) We ended up not going though,
>because we were too exhausted.
AHA! Proof once again! i told ya, folks, Howard Johnson's
got his Ho-Jo workin' on all of us...you people really should
listen to NRBQ, y'know?
"check my gas, it's on the empty line
fill it up, while i go waste some time
lord, my family's got to get their fill
i can't do it on a five dollar bill" (well, it's an old tune!)
glad to see someone boycotted Howard's abode/trap for a change.=)
>
>Anyway, why do I love long hair so much? I guess I mostly
>agree with what other people wrote about it being very sensual,
>sexy, and I just love running my fingers through it while
>passionately kissing, or while in bed. The times I do kiss
>short-haired men are rather amusing because it's automatic for
>me to reach up to run my hand through the hair, and it's quite
>traumatic when there's not enough hair there to do so!!!
>
>Plus, there's something about hair that falls into the eyes, or
>blows in the wind....I freaked in a department store in Germany
>in December. There was a guy standing there with wavy, light
>blond hair (very euro-looking) in a ponytail, but a bunch had
>fallen into his face, and he kept pushing it back, and it would
>gradually fall again...AAAH! I stood there pretending to look
>at some kids' videos!
hmm, well, it's great to have until it's wet, in your face, and
otherwise making your life difficult in the morning (how da
heck do ya see enough to brush??)
>
>Sorry, I don't mean to babble about this--I fear I have written
>too much, but I feel so much better to have some kindered
>spirits! Any long-haired men out there, or women who love
>long-haired men, please feel free to e-mail me!!!
>
>--Michelle
cheers,
frankus/Cheez Wiz
--
"Must be those people who come every night, with saucer-shaped lights,
Richard Iswara
personal preference for short hair. However there is an angle that I have
just thought up. You see, I presume many of you works in an office where
having a long hair doesn't have any effect on your work performance. Now
if you work in a machine shop, having a long hair could become a danger
to your safety. It is not fun losing part of your scalp just because
your hair is caught in a bending machine rollers. This isn't a hypothetical
situation either. It happened in a machine shop I used to work. It was
way before the time I worked there. There are hazard for a loose long
hair to get caught in machinery. I think it is a rule somewhere against
having long hair, or at least you have to bind that close to your head.
RickI, the RoadRunner
Ross Mair
> Question is: Why DO some women like long hair on men? Alternate
>question: Why DON'T some women like long hair on men? Should generate
>some discussion I imagine. Now remember, no flaming, just post your
>preferences, ladies, and your reasons. Men, how about you? Do you wear
>your hair long or short and why?
> Earring? Me? Hmmm, what a concept. I never even considered the
>thought of it in the past. After all, earrings are for women!!! At
> Same basic questions as above: Women, you like or not and why?
>Men, you do or don't and why?
>:)
>Steve
Julie... you have to get better soon....!!!!
Steve is thinking!!! :-)
--
Ross
Official Personal Bodyguard to Lis, the Good Romantic Witch
***********************************************************
Ross Mair
>smc...@dw3g.ess.harris.com (Cheshire Cat) remarks:
>>Steve Salter asked a couple of questions:
>>
>>1. Long hair.
>>
>>Bottom line: I'm indifferent about it. I like the sensuality of
>>having long hair. But I appreciate the convenience of short hair.
>Hmmm, I understand the convenience aspect quite well. I was just
>thinking this morn about how quick it used to be to rinse my hair in
>the shower and how fast it dried. But, the sensuality is one thing
>that is nice that I don't wanna give up for convenience. It also
>reminds me of the 60's-70's a bit I think which were my adolescent
>years. That might be significant for some deep buried reason also.
OK - her comes the serious post!! :-)
Well, being one of the young bucks round here (I think only Erin is younger! :)
I was a little kid in the 70's, grew up in the 80's, and now look back at
70's footage with bemused horror.....
So I'll keep mine short.... (Does that make any sense??)
Besides... when its 40 Deg C here, who wants long hair!! :-)
Yes, so I have short hair... but I don't care less what other guys do
with theirs.....
But... if a woman was to ask me to grow it long..... :-)
>
>>
>>2. Ear ring.
>>
>>Hmmmmm. Doesn't appeal to me. Doesn't bother me on men. But I
>>wouldn't do it. *shrug*.
>Hmm, never really appealed to me either but for some reason I have
>been thinking about it. How about it, people that know me. Should I go
>for it? Whatcha think, Jewel of my Life?
Well, I'm not Jewelie (He he!! :-) )
but can I answer here??
Doesn't appeal to me either... but then I'm boring...
Doesn't fuss me on other guys, tho.
(How's that for a non-commital answer?? :-) )
Sorry for being in a silly mood.
Ross Mair
>"-=[SLS]=-" <ssa...@silver.ucs.indiana.edu> writes:
>> Question is: Why DO some women like long hair on men? Alternate
>>question: Why DON'T some women like long hair on men? Should generate
>>some discussion I imagine. Now remember, no flaming, just post your
>>preferences, ladies, and your reasons. Men, how about you? Do you wear
>>your hair long or short and why?
>Okay: yes, I prefer long hair on men (Steve, Blade, Drieux and BDC are
>some really good examples!). I guess it's because, on certain men, it
>looks really good. Also, Steve mentioned a good reason: they appear
>to be a little bit of a rebel (okay, in some cases, they're more than
>a *little* bit of a rebel!). Another reason is you have something to
>play with... *grin*
Umm, Mary...
I've got short hair... but I've still got something for awoman to play with :-)
(Oopps - family net!!)
*Ross runs, dodging more frypans*
(Sorry folks, it a public holiday here, and its so hard to work when you're
the only one here! :-) )
Ross Mair
>Hmmmm...tough question. I personally *love* long hair on men. I've been
>sitting here trying to figure out *why*, trying to consider it logically.
>And I *can't*! There is the rebelliousness of it, which is appealing. But
>the *most* attractive part of it is the sensuality of it...the feel of it,
>the look of it, the flow of it...it's all very sensual. *droooooooooool*
Well, Sarah seems to have some up the women posting here...
Does this mean I'm going to have to grow my hair long if
I come to the US?? :(
TA Shaw
Michelle Speir writes:
>Hi everyone,
[stuff deleted]
>Unfortunately, I do not have the Awesome Computing Power to
>pull previous letters into my letter with those little
>greater-than signs in the left margin, but I'd like to add my
Ah thank god for small miracles!!! ;-) In the wonderful
world of acronyms I've been told the computer language
LISP stands for Lotsa Irritating Single Parenthisis(sp), I
was beginning to wonder if ARC should be re-named LISB or
LISG-T-S. Lotsa Irritating Single Brackets or Lotsa Irritating
Single Greater-Than-Signs....
To corrupt a phrase from scuba diving.
"Take only that which is pertinent to your post
and
Leave all the rest behind..."
BDC.
Mary Epperson
RickI does have a point. My brother has long hair and works in an
auto plant, and has his hair in a pony tail and has to keep it out of
the way, in case of something happening. Depending on the kind of
shop you're in, if you want long hair it's possible -- but you'll have
to have a hair net of some sort to keep it away from machinery (this
is also true in a lot of restaurant's...)
Cheshire Cat
|> (Cheshire Cat) says:
|> >
|> >I guess I wonder how much having an SO who appreciates the sensual
|> >expression impacts the decision/enjoyment..
|>
|> That is a very good point also.
|>
Let me state the question from another angle:
When you make the sensual expression, do you do it because of the
way it makes *you* feel, or do you do it because of the way your
SO's reaction makes you feel?
The point being which gives more enjoyment, IYHO: the primary or
secondary benefit?
Lisa Dominique
> Hi all! Say, just wanted to throw this question out for people
>to chew on and digest.
And I must say, very good questions at that!
> Question is: Why DO some women like long hair on men? Alternate
>question: Why DON'T some women like long hair on men? Should generate
>some discussion I imagine. Now remember, no flaming, just post your
>preferences, ladies, and your reasons. Men, how about you? Do you wear
>your hair long or short and why?
I have always loved long hair on guys. It is a fetish of mine,
I guess you could say.... I grew up watching my real bro, who
was 10 years older than me, go thru Beatlemania and the big
rebellion....I used to play with this Beatle wig he bought me.
*chuckle* .... I think this has played a role in my long-hair
fetish.... There is more!! :-) One of my girlfriends here
is always telling me I have the "Jesus-syndrome" because I often
drool over long hairs; there could be some truth in that too.
As a small child I would see the pictures of what people thought
Jesus looked like, and I always found him VERY handsome.
You know, Jesus would have made a great rock star.... *teasing wink*
> Earring? Me? Hmmm, what a concept. I never even considered the
>thought of it in the past.
I have no problem with guys have one ear pierced and wearing
a subtle earring....In fact I think a nice diamond looks great
in a guy's ear.... Of course, when I was in Jr. High, that was
the big thing, guy's getting their ears pierced. I had a boyfriend
who my mom used to give her "only one left" earrings to back then.
But for some reason, guys with big flashy earrings, or with
several on each ear, or on both ears, that just strikes me as
odd.
Thanks for bringing these questions up, Steven!! *cool* :-)
Lis, The Official Good Romantic Witch
and Honoured Former President
of the Romantic Fire Association
p.s. Heaven is a *Hug* and a *Smile*
the Joy of Music and the Beauty of Silence
Lisa Dominique
>
>
>It is fairly simple, I like my hair long. A couple people,
>well at least one person of ARC has see it long. I take care
>of it, and it is well kept. It isn't a rebel thing, although
>I do not follow the norm. (since age is banter so freely in
>this post, this is year I turn 33, with 117 years left of my life)
Tom, you write so modestly. *BigHug*
Ladies, Tom is very handsome!! and he has really nice long
wavey hair.... :-)~~~~ and a wonderful smile! and....
* Lis goes off into Dream-Land * Where is that towel!!!! ;)
RJD...@psuvm.psu.edu
And for Halloween I but on a robe and went as Jesus...
C'mon over and drool on me!
But to be serious...
well, that was serious, but to answer Steve's question...
I had my hair short when I played football in high school, cause nobody
wants to be running around in 85 degree weather under 20 lbs. of equipment
with shoulder length hair. The sweat and the gnats and the dust all
gets caked in there together and it gets really nasty. But, after I
graduated and was in college, I just let it get long cause I was too
lazy to worry about it. I now keep it about shoulder length, cause I like
it. The women I usually date seem to like it too (I guess if they didn't
like it, they'd never go out with me...hmm, logical fallacy in there
somewhere, I think...), but it's my choice.
As for the earring, I went through enough pain in high school (most injured
player, three years running...I also have a room in the hospital emergency
room dedicated to me, for my frequent donations through my insurance
company...) that I never really wanted to submit myself to pain voluntarily.
I've got enough holes and scars in me <hey, Lis, does your hair fetish
also tie in with scars? I have some in some very interesting places...
Care to have a look? :)>.
Roger,
Official Lumberjack to the RFA
"Hey, did that dryad steal my axe?"
Paul T Taylor
>In article <C1MKM...@usenet.ucs.indiana.edu> "-=[SLS]=-" <ssa...@silver.ucs.indiana.edu> writes:
>> Hi all! Say, just wanted to throw this question out for people
>>to chew on and digest.
>
>No problem. It's Saturday and a good to digest... :-)
>
>> I wear my hair long since I like it that way. My ponytail is 6
>>to 8 inches long now...(don't know for sure, will have to have Julie
>>measure me...the 'tail that is...*smile*) Julie like my hair long also
>>and I have heard from may women that they too like men with long hair.
>
>Sure do!!
>
>> Question is: Why DO some women like long hair on men? Alternate
>>question: Why DON'T some women like long hair on men? Should generate
>>some discussion I imagine. Now remember, no flaming, just post your
>>preferences, ladies, and your reasons. Men, how about you? Do you wear
>>your hair long or short and why?
>
>Okay: yes, I prefer long hair on men (Steve, Blade, Drieux and BDC are
>some really good examples!). I guess it's because, on certain men, it
>looks really good. Also, Steve mentioned a good reason: they appear
>to be a little bit of a rebel (okay, in some cases, they're more than
>a *little* bit of a rebel!). Another reason is you have something to
>play with... *grin*
[rip's best yiddish accent...] So, what am I? Chopped liver? [end
accent] There is more than *one* way to be a rebel my dear. And if
by 'rebel' you mean someone who deviates from the norm..... Need I
say more? And did you ever stop to think that some of us wear short
hair to be *really* different? And as for pierced ears.... I don't
think I could pull that off, I guess I'll just have to get something
*else* pierced..... ;-)
Brewhahahahahahahaahahahahahahaahahha!!!!!!!
rip(the human pin cushion)
--
Truly great madness can not be achieved without significant
intelligence.
-- Henrik Tikkanen
Paul T Taylor
>john...@cheshire.oxy.edu (Sarah Curtis Johnson) writes:
>
>>Hmmmm...tough question. I personally *love* long hair on men. I've been
>>sitting here trying to figure out *why*, trying to consider it logically.
>>And I *can't*! There is the rebelliousness of it, which is appealing. But
>>the *most* attractive part of it is the sensuality of it...the feel of it,
>>the look of it, the flow of it...it's all very sensual. *droooooooooool*
>
>Well, Sarah seems to have some up the women posting here...
>
>Does this mean I'm going to have to grow my hair long if
>I come to the US?? :(
>
No Ross, I don't think so. You know all this talk about long hair got
me thinking (hide the wimmen and children!), how many of you wimmen
out there have run your hands over a Marine Corps high-and-tight? I
have had several wimmen tell me that that is a very sexy feeling
too... The feeling of soft stubble under the fingers, like little
needles of sensation.... And what about us guys, who from a curse of
nature are finding that our foreheads are getting higher each year?
Any wimmen out there think bald is beautiful?
rip(I hate my Mom's Dad!)
Mary Epperson
>out there have run your hands over a Marine Corps high-and-tight? I
>have had several wimmen tell me that that is a very sexy feeling
>too... The feeling of soft stubble under the fingers, like little
>needles of sensation.... And what about us guys, who from a curse of
>nature are finding that our foreheads are getting higher each year?
>Any wimmen out there think bald is beautiful?
>
>rip(I hate my Mom's Dad!)
All I know is, when faced with short hair vs. long hair, my brother
(who was just out of the U.S. Army) went for the long hair *very*
quickly... :-)
Howard Johnson's Got His Ho-Jo Workin'
>
>> Question is: Why DO some women like long hair on men? Alternate
>>question: Why DON'T some women like long hair on men? Should generate
>>some discussion I imagine. Now remember, no flaming, just post your
>>preferences, ladies, and your reasons. Men, how about you? Do you wear
>>your hair long or short and why?
>
>> Earring? Me? Hmmm, what a concept. I never even considered the
>>thought of it in the past. After all, earrings are for women!!! At
>> Same basic questions as above: Women, you like or not and why?
>>Men, you do or don't and why?
>
>>:)
>
>>Steve
>
>Julie... you have to get better soon....!!!!
>Steve is thinking!!! :-)
>
>
>--
>Ross
>Official Personal Bodyguard to Lis, the Good Romantic Witch
>***********************************************************
cheers,
IO1...@maine.maine.edu
lobes!!!!!! (Well, only if you'd *like* me to nibble on your lobes!)
I have long flowing thick brown hair (mid back), which I have had about 5 years
now. I always used to have hair as short as Ross's (which I find incredibly se
xy on men, by the way), and I liked the convenience of it, too. Actaully, now
my hair is fairly convenient as well- I don't need to wash it as often, and I c
an braid it back. I have been told by many males thatlong hair like mine is in
credibly sexy, and, having been everybody's sister-and nobody's-girlfriend for
quite a while, the idea of being sexier does have a hand in my decisionto keep
it long- besides- now people notice my hair instead of my big boobs. :-)
I got my ears pierced when I was 14, and was mistaken for my father's son inste
ad of his daughter when we went to play racquetball (the boobs weren't quite so
big then). He decided perhaps it would be okay if I did it, and it was a way
for me to assert my femininity in a conservative town (boys just DIDN"T get the
ir ears pierced). Now I wear 'em or don't- no big thing.
As far as long hair on men, I have to admit, I prefer short hair- I can see his
gorgeous neck, and I like the feel of playing with short hair while I kiss a m
an (which hasn't been for so long..... :-( and, call me blah, but i don't like
earrings on men, though I've dated a couple guys with earrings.
Just my opinions.
Jennifer
Ps- Yes, Ross, and Rip, and Prez Julie, the third part of Svetlana and Harrison
is coming soon- with the flames..... :-)
Finnegan T. Tsai
>In article <1993Feb1.1...@sequent.com> r...@sequent.com (Paul T Taylor) writes:
>>out there have run your hands over a Marine Corps high-and-tight? I
>>have had several wimmen tell me that that is a very sexy feeling
>>too... The feeling of soft stubble under the fingers, like little
>>needles of sensation.... And what about us guys, who from a curse of
>>nature are finding that our foreheads are getting higher each year?
>>Any wimmen out there think bald is beautiful?
>>
>>rip(I hate my Mom's Dad!)
I am not a woman, but...
I have left the military service for three years, yet
I am still saving a very short hair. It makes me look
extremely cute. But the major reasons are I like to
shampoo everyday and I only need to go to the barber
shop every three months. Good for a poor young engineer.
Any lady likes my short hair? ;)
-finney
Clare West
>
>Hmm, never really appealed to me either but for some reason I have
>been thinking about it. How about it, people that know me. Should I go
>for it? Whatcha think, Jewel of my Life?
Well *I* think you should go for it. You'd look really great with an
earring. *drool*
Clare West
>Hi everyone,
Hi, Michelle. I don't think I've seen you round here before - if its
just my faulty memory then humble apologies.
Welcome to ARCland, The Happiest Place On The Net!
*WELCOME HUGS*
CatWoman
] Does this mean I'm going to have to grow my hair long if
] I come to the US?? :(
Yes.
(Well, he ASKED, and SOMEONE had to say it!)
CatWoman
CatWoman
well add to the noise here...
I am a long-hair fanatic. Some of the "elders"
may remember my "five points of interest" -
I tend to notice a male if he has
1) long hair
2) moustache
3) is tall
4) is skinny
5) has intense eyes
Any combination of the above will cause second
(and third, and so on) looks.
I don't base my RELATIONSHIPS on requiring any
or all of the above - but I do tend to NOTICE
males with those characteristics. drieux's
eyes, moustache and hair caught my attention
the first time I met him.
As for earrings - I like them. But then, I tend
to have hung around a lot of rockers, so I see
a lot of them. I just can't think of any guy I
know that would look BAD in them.
CatWoman
Richard Iswara
> hair to be *really* different? And as for pierced ears.... I don't
> think I could pull that off, I guess I'll just have to get something
> *else* pierced..... ;-)
> Brewhahahahahahahaahahahahahahaahahha!!!!!!!
So Rip, which of your points are pierced?
RickI, the RoadRunner
curious and dirty-minded
Rob Geraghty
>Ross- don't get an earring- I don't want to break a tooth when I nibble on your
> lobes!!!!!! (Well, only if you'd *like* me to nibble on your lobes!)
Watch it Ross! Jennifer's spotted your earlobes!!
>I have long flowing thick brown hair (mid back), which I have had about 5
>years now.
*sigh* 8^)
>I always used to have hair as short as Ross's (which I find incredibly
>sexy on men, by the way), and I liked the convenience of it, too.
What! There is a woman in ARC who likes short hair! More power to you,
Jennifer!
>Actually, now my hair is fairly convenient as well- I don't need to wash it
>as often, and I can braid it back.
And I've seen some amazing creations with braided hair - sure it takes a
long time to do, but it looks *stunning*.
<reminisces wistfully>
>I have been told by many males that long hair like mine is incredibly sexy,
>and, having been everybody's sister-and nobody's-girlfriend for quite a
>while, the idea of being sexier does have a hand in my decision to keep
>it long - besides- now people notice my hair instead of my big boobs. :-)
Well, I don't know that *sexy* is the right word. I find women with
long hair extremely attractive, but I'm not sure that I'd use that word.
A great many other compliments come to mind :-) Jennifer, hopefully
people want to know you for who you are, and not what you look like, but
it certainly sounds like you've been lucky with certain attributes :-)
I agree that a lot of men find women with long hair attractive.
>I got my ears pierced when I was 14, and was mistaken for my father's son
>instead of his daughter when we went to play racquetball (the boobs weren't
>quite so big then). He decided perhaps it would be okay if I did it, and it
>was a way for me to assert my femininity in a conservative town (boys just
>DIDN"T get their ears pierced). Now I wear 'em or don't- no big thing.
I suppose I have suffered a little from that conservative attitude. But
for me I don't see the point in having my ears pierced. There are
plenty of other ways I can rebel :-) On the other hand, there's nothing
like watching the smile on your girlfriend's face as she puts on the
white gold and sapphire earrings that you had made especially for her.
(I even went to the sapphire mine and selected the stones myself ;)
>As far as long hair on men, I have to admit, I prefer short hair- I can see
>his gorgeous neck, and I like the feel of playing with short hair while I
>kiss a man (which hasn't been for so long..... :-( and, call me blah, but
>i don't like earrings on men, though I've dated a couple guys with earrings.
*HUGS* Jennifer, just because other people have said they like long
hair and earrings it doesn't mean you're wrong for thinking otherwise!
Thanks for letting me know I still have hope in the world :-)
Rob
Official Journeyman-Harper of the RFA
--
------------------------------------------------------------------------
Rob Geraghty | 3 things are important to me
ro...@citr.uq.oz.au | The gift of love, the joy of life
CITR | And the making of music in all its forms
Ross Mair
>Ross-don't get an earring- I don't want to break a tooth when I nibble on your
> lobes!!!!!! (Well, only if you'd *like* me to nibble on your lobes!)
Sweet Jennifer... I never thought you'd ask!! :)
>I have long flowing thick brown hair (mid back) which I have had about 5 years
I know that Jen. Why are you telling me this?? :-)
(And quite sxey it is, too!)
Oops.. sorry. Didn't see the rest of you there!
>now. I always used to have hair as short as Ross's (which I find incredibly se
>xy on men, by the way), and I liked the convenience of it, too. Actaully, now
>my hair is fairly convenient as well-I don't need to wash it as often, and I c
>an braid it back. I have been told by many males thatlong hair like mine is in
>credibly sexy, and, having been everybody's sister-and nobody's-girlfriend for
>quite a while, the idea of being sexier does have a hand in my decisionto keep
>it long- besides- now people notice my hair instead of my big boobs. :-)
Well, I could notice them also, if you'd like me to, Jen! :-)
>As far as long hair on men I have to admit, I prefer short hair- I can see his
>gorgeous neck, and I like the feel of playing with short hair while I kiss a m
>an (which hasn't been for so long..... :-( and, call me blah, but i don't like
> earrings on men, though I've dated a couple guys with earrings.
Thank you Jen... for affirming my faith in *at least* some American
women. Now... would you like me to come over and do
something about that kissing drought?? :-)
>Just my opinions.
Glad to hear them!! :-)
>Jennifer
>Ps-Yes, Ross, and Rip, and Prez Julie, the third part of Svetlana and Harrison
> is coming soon- with the flames..... :-)
Great to hear!! can't wait
*HUGS*
--
Ross
Official Personal Bodyguard to Lis, the Good Romantic Witch
***********************************************************
PS: Jen... please use a carriage return at the end of each line... and don't
take up the whole 80 characters. This one drove my terminal emulation
crazy!!!
Lisa Dominique
>Hey, Lis, I got shoulder length hair and a beard...
Yes................ I'm listening....
>And for Halloween I but on a robe and went as Jesus...
>C'mon over and drool on me!
*Lis' eyes widen, her face becomes flushed*
Really? *Lis walks over to visit Roger - WOW!!*
*DroooooooooooooooooooooooooooL* *DroooooooooooooooooooL*
>But to be serious...
>well, that was serious, but to answer Steve's question...
*giggle* Know what, I think the more I drool on your hair,
the more it grows! Hey, this is cool!
>I had my hair short when I played football in high school, cause nobody
And a football player too!! It sure is getting warm in here.
Wonder why my heart is pounding so hard....
>wants to be running around in 85 degree weather under 20 lbs. of equipment
>with shoulder length hair. The sweat and the gnats and the dust all
Take that equipment off!! Yeah!! Wooooooo ! Wooooooo!
*Hubba Hubba* :-)~~
>gets caked in there together and it gets really nasty. But, after I
Sounds pretty gross.
>graduated and was in college, I just let it get long cause I was too
>lazy to worry about it. I now keep it about shoulder length, cause I like
>it. The women I usually date seem to like it too (I guess if they didn't
>like it, they'd never go out with me...hmm, logical fallacy in there
>somewhere, I think...), but it's my choice.
They *like* it, trust me, I'm sure of it.... :-)~~~~
>As for the earring, I went through enough pain in high school (most injured
>player, three years running...I also have a room in the hospital emergency
>room dedicated to me, for my frequent donations through my insurance
>company...) that I never really wanted to submit myself to pain voluntarily.
Well that's certainly good to know!
>I've got enough holes and scars in me <hey, Lis, does your hair fetish
>also tie in with scars? I have some in some very interesting places...
>Care to have a look? :)>.
Roger!! What kind of girl do you think I am?!?! Huh?!?!
Of Course, I wanna look!! :-)
Hey, ya wanna see my scar? I have one too.... *grin*
>Roger,
>Official Lumberjack to the RFA
>"Hey, did that dryad steal my axe?"
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Nope, but I stole it!! *heh heh heh*
** Warm Bewitching Huggs **
IO1...@maine.maine.edu
the sexiest men alive at the moment, don't you? Several of my girl friends an
d I agree that he's ......... MMMMMMmmmm!!!
-Jennifer
Cheshire Cat
The Cheshire Cat, napping under the couch in front of the ARC
fireplace (as usual), is gently awakened by the sound of the
surf. Breaking and falling, the sound is a balm that begins
to lull the feline back to sleep...except for the little
alarm going off in the back of his mind....
*OH NO!* (He awakens in panic!)
There's no beach by the ARC fireplace!
That means.....DROOL!!!!!
*AAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH*
*rumble*
*rumble*
The room begins to shake...
*rumBLE*
*RUMBLE*
*CRASH*
*SPLOOSH*
A large wave of drool crashes through the door, engulfing
the Cheshire Cat, and sweeping through the room...
When the tide finally recedes, our kitty has been cast up
on the ledge in front of the ARC FirePlace, looking like...
well...like a very wet and disgruntled cat!
Shaking himself off, he climbs to the mantle, above the
fireplace, and settles himself back down.
"When will these people ever learn?"
*sigh*
:-)
-=[SLS]=-
>When you make the sensual expression, do you do it because of the
>way it makes *you* feel, or do you do it because of the way your
>SO's reaction makes you feel?
>
>The point being which gives more enjoyment, IYHO: the primary or
>secondary benefit?
...wow, what a great question. Hmmm, that is really complicated but
if, as my mind is rapidly doing in it's own background process, you
slice through all the extra stuff and get right down to the "nub" of
the matter....this is what I come up with.
I do it primarily for the way it makes ME feel. That is first: I have
to be true to myself. I have done a lot of self sacrificing in my two
previous relationships to the point of being really codependent. I
understand that I HAVE to be true to myself first and then I be open
and free with my S.O. If I just wore my hair long or wore and earring
or whatever to please her then I may eventually resent it...who knows.
I do know that in the past I have done a lot of things that I
personally didn't like, would not have done if I considered myself
first. I learned that lesson.
What makes it so wonderful is that I do it for both of us now. If I do
something that Julie may not especially like she will tell me and I
will weigh that and make a decision. BUT, the wonderful thing in our
marriage is that we consider the other person from THEIR viewpoint
before we say things.
Example: Julie wanted to go to breakfast one morning in town and I
DEFINITELY did not want to go. I wanted to just stay home and do
whatever I wanted. BUT, I looked at the situation and realized she
would be happy to do it...hey, no decision to make. We went out for
breakfast. IF I had REALLY hated the thought I would have said
something though. It's called compromise and "thinking of the
other"...:)
--
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-=[SLS]=-
>Judging my Zak's response when you mentioned it (Zak is middle son) I
>would say they would need a little time to get used to it. But then,
>they need to realize that you have changed. You're not the same
>person two years ago. And as Zak said, "I wouldn't be surprised."
Yeah, but he said it with a disgusted tone like he was thinking "Oh
geez Dad, how wierder are you gonna get?". :)
-=[SLS]=-
>ssa...@silver.ucs.indiana.edu (-=[SLS]=-) writes:
>>
>>Hmm, never really appealed to me either but for some reason I have
>>been thinking about it. How about it, people that know me. Should I go
>>for it? Whatcha think, Jewel of my Life?
>
>Well *I* think you should go for it. You'd look really great with an
>earring. *drool*
>
>clare
>
Heh heh heh, well I HAVE received a lot of email saying "GO FOR
IT!"..I dunno, still mulling over the idea. I even had one special
person say that she would send earrings for Julie and I if I did!! :)
Thanks for the drool, Clare, every man needs females to drool after
him. :) Of course, Julie drools over me constantly so I am not
lacking. :)
-=[SLS]=-
>way before the time I worked there. There are hazard for a loose long
>hair to get caught in machinery. I think it is a rule somewhere against
>having long hair, or at least you have to bind that close to your head.
>
>RickI, the RoadRunner
Not just machine shops, Ricki me lad....I was grilling steaks over the
weekend and leaned down a bit close to the grill when I was building
up the coals and sizzled one side of my hair. Julie was aghast and
promptly wrinkled her oh-so-cute nose at the smell and then tied it
back carefully for me.
Fortunately, no real damage done...
Steve
Lisa Dominique
>ssa...@silver.ucs.indiana.edu (-=[SLS]=-) writes:
>>
>>Hmm, never really appealed to me either but for some reason I have
>>been thinking about it. How about it, people that know me. Should I go
>>for it? Whatcha think, Jewel of my Life?
>
>Well *I* think you should go for it. You'd look really great with an
>earring. *drool*
>
>clare
I'll have to second that, Clare!! Yes, Steven, I too think
you would look really great with an earring.
**Lis and Clare *drool* together**
Lisa Dominique
>Lis is drooling all over everything:
>
(lots of funny things deleted for space)
> *SPLOOSH*
>
>A large wave of drool crashes through the door, engulfing
>the Cheshire Cat, and sweeping through the room...
>
>When the tide finally recedes, our kitty has been cast up
>on the ledge in front of the ARC FirePlace, looking like...
>well...like a very wet and disgruntled cat!
>
>Shaking himself off, he climbs to the mantle, above the
>fireplace, and settles himself back down.
>
>"When will these people ever learn?"
>
>*sigh*
>
>:-)
Lis walks over to the Chesire Cat, picks him up and cuddles
him in her arms. "Poor little kitty.... I didn't mean to
upset you. How about if we sit down in this chair here
by the fireplace, and you can lie in my lap and I'll brush
and dry your hair." *Lis begins petting the kitty gently*
Lisa Dominique
ATTENTION ALL ARC-ERS !!!!
This is a VERY VERY important announcement. Our lovely
President Julie of the RFA is confronting a very difficult
time in her life.... She is going to have surgery next
week and will be out of touch for awhile....Please, if you
have any personal questions about this or an "emergency"
of some sort, please contact Steven via email, or send the
message to Julie and "cc" it to Steven. He will be taking
care of her email for a while. I will also be in close contact
with her and will be going down for a few days to do what I
can....so if you cannot contact Steven, I'm here too.
Julie's login: jrs...@silver.ucs.indiana.edu
Steven's login: ssa...@silver.ucs.indiana.edu
Lis' login: li...@dynamo3.ecn.purdue.edu
What will help Julie more than anything is our love and support.
Let's all join as one family and be there for her all the way!!
** We love you, Julie !!!! **
** Lots and Lots of GetWellQuick Huggs **
Cheshire Cat
|>
|> Lis walks over to the Chesire Cat, picks him up and cuddles
|> him in her arms. "Poor little kitty.... I didn't mean to
|> upset you. How about if we sit down in this chair here
|> by the fireplace, and you can lie in my lap and I'll brush
|> and dry your hair." *Lis begins petting the kitty gently*
|>
Keeping a wary eye on Lis's mouth (for signs of ensuing drool),
CC settles down in Lis's lap. As she begins to stroke his
fur, he..
PPPPPPPPPUUUUUUUUUUUURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRSSSSSSS
While in the background, you can hear:
*squeak*
*squish*
*squeak*
*squish*
*squeak*
*squish*
(ok, look. She's in the rocking chair and the floors
still wet from drool. Think about it. We got time. :-)
*snicker*
gdn...@msu.oscs.montana.edu
Maybe it's me, but I don't see how he can be the sexiest guy when there are
people like Sean Connery, Mel Gibbson, Tom Cruise, Pattrick Swazye, need I go
on. I can see however how he could be considered very charasmatic, but sexy is
beyond me, but then again these guys I have just mentioned might only be sexy
skin deep. Who knows.
- Dave
IC...@asuacad.bitnet
knows you gotta be tribal. Maybe more pre-historic mode....maybe I just
happen to like long hair on me....you get asked to dance alot, even
though it moght be the wrong gender....you gotta see them jump!
.......Steve
-=[SLS]=-
>I'll have to second that, Clare!! Yes, Steven, I too think
>you would look really great with an earring.
>**Lis and Clare *drool* together**
hmmm, getting wet in here....now when Julie starts too I may just get
drowned in all this drool....oh dear, poor me...
:)
-=[SLS]=-
>>**Lis and Clare *drool* together**
>
>***Then Julie jumps in on the act, and a tidal wave is begun***
>
>He IS droolable, isn't he ladies. Hey, ok by me! GO FOR IT!!! I'll
>supply the towels. ;)
sheesh, see what I mean?!!
-=[SLS]=-
>Lucky Julie! :)
oh thankyou, but I am luckier than she 'cause she is the Ultimate
Love Goddess...:) ooh baby...
>And I *can't*! There is the rebelliousness of it, which is appealing. But
>the *most* attractive part of it is the sensuality of it...the feel of it,
>the look of it, the flow of it...it's all very sensual. *droooooooooool*
That brings up another question....is long hair with drool all over it
sensual? :)
>This was a good question, Steve. And, personally, I say, Go for it! (the
>earring, that is!) It's not permanent or anything...(now, a tatoo...;)
Ahhh, and I was also thinking of getting a cute l'il red heart tatooed
on my butt cheek...hmm, maybe I should rethink this.
Steven
ps: Julie, just joking about the tatoo!! AHHHHAHaaaHAAhaahahha
-=[SLS]=-
AHHHHHHHAaaaahahhhAHHAHAAAAAAaaaaaahahahahhaaaa....you asked fer it ,
Rossie.
-=[SLS]=-
>Steve asks about Long hair or short. For me, I like my hair cut short. It's
>easier to maintain. Dries real quick after I wash it. Also it's really
>annoying for me when my hair grows long. It keeps tumbling in front of
>my eyes and ears. I like to keep em clear of obstruction. Not to mention
That is all true and if that is what is *you* then that is great!
>long hair gives people a convenient handgrip in a close fight. Also long
>hair brings an image of barbarian to me. And in China, during the Ching
Yeah!...barbarian! *snort...grawrrlll* Big, super potent
barbarian...(wink wink)
Ste-van
-=[SLS]=-
>*Ever wash each other's hair? I hear that it is....mmmMmmm hard to
>find the word I want....(close to) entertaining in a pleasent way.
"entertaining in a pleasant way"? Ooooh baby, I could think of a dozen
adjectives to describe it better. Julie and I often (only missed a
few mornings the last several months) take a shower together and I
like to rinse her hair for her. I am usually rinsing mine as she
shampoos hers though so she doesn't get to do anything. Maybe I should
ask her if she wants to. Problem is that we usually don't have a lot
of time in the early morning while we get ready for work and if we
fool around too much in the shower we end up getting to work VERY late
or calling in "sick".
Steven
-=[SLS]=-
Workin') sez:
>I smell something burrrrnnninnnng! =) =)
s'all right, jest my brain...no great loss.
-=[SLS]=-
>
> ATTENTION ALL ARC-ERS !!!!
Hey, *I* qualify!!
>This is a VERY VERY important announcement. Our lovely
Yeah, go 'head!
>President Julie of the RFA is confronting a very difficult
>time in her life.... She is going to have surgery next
Yeah, I know *blush*, I am just getting old and after three or four
times I just *have* to take a break...uh...oh, the surgery...oh,
*BLUSH* NEVERMIND!!!
Julie Salter
>...wow, what a great question. Hmmm, that is really complicated but
>if, as my mind is rapidly doing in it's own background process, you
>slice through all the extra stuff and get right down to the "nub" of
>the matter....this is what I come up with.
Don't hurt yourself, baby....*the crowd gasps at Julie's apparent stab at her
perfect husband* Sorry, folks, I couldn't resist. ;)
>I do it primarily for the way it makes ME feel.
>or whatever to please her then I may eventually resent it...who knows.
>I learned that lesson.
[Excuse the butchering job I did of that paragraph]
This is a VERY important point to learn in relationships. I think its
VERY probable that if someone did something simply to please the other,
it could cause resentment. There IS a big difference between compromise
and ignoring ones own needs.
>What makes it so wonderful is that I do it for both of us now. If I do
>something that Julie may not especially like she will tell me and I
>will weigh that and make a decision. BUT, the wonderful thing in our
>marriage is that we consider the other person from THEIR viewpoint
>before we say things.
I think you have to look at it that way. In some cases, it pleases me to
please him. Like coffee, for instance. I set the coffee maker each night
so he'll have fresh coffee each morning (except for a few times I forgot).
It makes me happy to do that for Steven. I know he appreciates it and
its such a simple thing to do. The rewards are excellent.
>Example: Julie wanted to go to breakfast one morning in town and I
>DEFINITELY did not want to go. I wanted to just stay home and do
>whatever I wanted. BUT, I looked at the situation and realized she
>would be happy to do it...hey, no decision to make. We went out for
>breakfast. IF I had REALLY hated the thought I would have said
>something though. It's called compromise and "thinking of the
>other"...:)
Well, one gets spoiled. What can I say! ;)
And I would hope that Steven WOULD say something if he felt strongly about
it.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Julie Salter<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
President, Romantic Fire Association
Wife of the Official Fireside Sex Advisor..AKA: Steven Salter
"Look into my eyes...you will see....what you mean to me......"
>>>>>>>>>>>>>email: jrs...@silver.ucs.indiana.edu<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
Lisa Dominique
>In article <93033.120...@MAINE.MAINE.EDU>, IO1...@MAINE.MAINE.EDU writes:
>>You did read that Patrick Stewart, who is completely bald, is considered one of
>> the sexiest men alive at the moment, don't you? Several of my girl friends an
>>d I agree that he's ......... MMMMMMmmmm!!!
>>-Jennifer
>
>Maybe it's me, but I don't see how he can be the sexiest guy when there are
>people like Sean Connery, Mel Gibbson, Tom Cruise, Pattrick Swazye, need I go
>on.
My vote is for Michael Bolton!! Oh, Yeah!!
He not only is sexy, has long hair, and wears a diamond in his
left ear, but he also sings and writes love songs, and as
a human being seems to be a wonderfully warm and honest person.
Did you know that all proceeds from his fan club go towards
Cancer Research? And that he and his band play softball,
and all proceeds go to charities also.
I especially enjoy his musical talents.... :-)
Oh, ok, Rip (brothers, *sheesh*), I like his body too!!
**Hubba Hubba Drool Drool** :-)~~~~~~~~~~~~
Cheshire Cat
|> Cheshire Cat writes:
|> >While in the background, you can hear:
|> >
|> > *squeak*
|> > *squish*
|> >
|> > *squeak*
|> > *squish*
|> >
|> > *squeak*
|> > *squish*
|> >
|> >(ok, look. She's in the rocking chair and the floors
|> >still wet from drool. Think about it. We got time. :-)
|>
|>
Yeah, well, given what I just read from Steven, it's probably
them two Salter people fooling around!
:-)
Paul T Taylor
**bunch deleted**
>My vote is for Michael Bolton!! Oh, Yeah!!
Damn! And I thought *I* was the sexiest man alive, (or dead)!! And
here is was buttering everyone up by saying how humble I was too! :-(
>He not only is sexy, has long hair, and wears a diamond in his
>left ear, but he also sings and writes love songs, and as
>a human being seems to be a wonderfully warm and honest person.
Well, my hair is short, I don't have an ear ring, don't write songs,
but have had several people say I sing pretty good...(Don't laugh
Gemr!), and I am warm and honest....(see, I *am* humble!)
>Did you know that all proceeds from his fan club go towards
>Cancer Research? And that he and his band play softball,
>and all proceeds go to charities also.
Oh, well, I don't have a fan club, (why would he want to go around
clubbing fans? They keep you cool in the summer.... just wondering)
>I especially enjoy his musical talents.... :-)
Sorry, ain't got no talents....
>Oh, ok, Rip (brothers, *sheesh*), I like his body too!!
Hey! Someone has to keep you honest!!
>**Hubba Hubba Drool Drool** :-)~~~~~~~~~~~~
Damn woman! Keeps the drool acoming! I hope Chesire got off her lap
intime to duck that stuff! :-)
rip
--
Call on God, but row away from the rocks.
-- Indian proverb
IO1...@maine.maine.edu
dinner if you got yourself here. :-) And you can notice any feature of mine th
at you want, so long as you vociferiously praise it before kissing....
-Jennifer
Paul T Taylor
>Ross- don't get an earring- I don't want to break a tooth when I nibble on your
> lobes!!!!!! (Well, only if you'd *like* me to nibble on your lobes!)
>
>I have long flowing thick brown hair (mid back), which I have had about 5 years
>now.
Ok, now the onus has switched to wich do you prefer on *wimmen*?
Personally I prefer short to just below shoulder length. There is a
gal here with short hair, and it just drives me wild! I think alot
of it depends on how you see the person for the first time. It is
hard to get the mental image of someone out of your mind. If I was
to show up to the next Chat with long hair, like to my butt, I think
people would freak out!
**something about big boobs accidently deleted** :-(
*Now* we're talking!! >;-) Ok, I admit it! I'm a sexist pig, so
what? NeanderthalMan *like* healthy hooters! :-)
>for me to assert my femininity in a conservative town (boys just DIDN"T get the
>ir ears pierced). Now I wear 'em or don't- no big thing.
>
>As far as long hair on men, I have to admit, I prefer short hair-
Hmmmm..... I guess it is about time I got a haircut....
> I can see his
> gorgeous neck, and I like the feel of playing with short hair while I kiss a m
>an (which hasn't been for so long..... :-( and, call me blah, but i don't like
> earrings on men, though I've dated a couple guys with earrings.
Good girl!! I don't think I will ever get an *ear* pierced!
>Just my opinions.
>Jennifer
>Ps- Yes, Ross, and Rip, and Prez Julie, the third part of Svetlana and Harrison
> is coming soon- with the flames..... :-)
I saw it! Great story! I might even have to post one that is
running around in my pea-brain! If I can catch it that is!
Pete the Frog Bulford
> Hi all! Say, just wanted to throw this question out for people
>to chew on and digest.
Thanks but Stray Cat has been fed already!!! :-)
>[Do you wear long hair?...]
Yes I do wear long hair. I prefer not holding it into
a ponytail though. I like it loose. I find that I like
it when it blows in the wind. I also find that many people
who have seen me with my hair short, make a point of
remarking that I look much better with long hair.
>PART TWO:
>
>Men, you do or don't and why?
Well I have considered an earring but have never gone
forth with it. I am not fearful of trying but perhaps
I need more finances first! :-)
Pete aka Stray Cat
Julie Salter
>ok, if that is the way you feel....
>
>I want you....bad.
>
>*kiss*
ooooooooooooooooooooo baby!
*giggle*
*Julie quietly walks over to Steven while he's working on his new
computer game and ever so softly kisses his ear and whispers....*
I love you.......
Julie Salter
>hmmm, getting wet in here....now when Julie starts too I may just get
>drowned in all this drool....oh dear, poor me...
>
Oh yeah. And you HATE it.....**NOT**
Julie Salter
>>Lucky Julie! :)
Thanks, Sarah! :)
>oh thankyou, but I am luckier than she 'cause she is the Ultimate
>Love Goddess...:) ooh baby...
*major blush* Now baby, lets don't get out of hand here. Maybe Love Goddess
in training. ;)
And I need a LOT of practice.
>That brings up another question....is long hair with drool all over it
>sensual? :)
Sure. It looks like sweat. And there NOTHING more than sweaty long hair...
during love making sessions.
;)
>Ahhh, and I was also thinking of getting a cute l'il red heart tatooed
>on my butt cheek...hmm, maybe I should rethink this.
*THUD*
*Julie faints dead away at the thought of Steven's buns*
>ps: Julie, just joking about the tatoo!! AHHHHAHaaaHAAhaahahha
*Julie wonders if she'll survive this mid-life thing with her sanity in
tact*
;)
Julie Salter
>>Well *I* think you should go for it. You'd look really great with an
>>earring. *drool*
>>
>>clare
>
>I'll have to second that, Clare!! Yes, Steven, I too think
>you would look really great with an earring.
>**Lis and Clare *drool* together**
***Then Julie jumps in on the act, and a tidal wave is begun***
He IS droolable, isn't he ladies. Hey, ok by me! GO FOR IT!!! I'll
supply the towels. ;)
Julie Salter
>"entertaining in a pleasant way"? Ooooh baby, I could think of a dozen
>adjectives to describe it better. Julie and I often (only missed a
>few mornings the last several months) take a shower together and I
>like to rinse her hair for her. I am usually rinsing mine as she
>shampoos hers though so she doesn't get to do anything. Maybe I should
>ask her if she wants to. Problem is that we usually don't have a lot
>of time in the early morning while we get ready for work and if we
>fool around too much in the shower we end up getting to work VERY late
>or calling in "sick".
I don't call that a problem, really. Who needs a job when you got love?
...Does that sound 60s or what!
Actually, we could take showers on the weekends when we have more time.
Only problem with THAT is the kids would wonder what all the noise was
coming from the bathroom! *evil snicker*
Howard Johnson's Got His Ho-Jo Workin'
>Richard Iswara <ri...@andrew.cmu.edu> says soberly:
>
>
>>way before the time I worked there. There are hazard for a loose long
>>hair to get caught in machinery. I think it is a rule somewhere against
>>having long hair, or at least you have to bind that close to your head.
>>
>>RickI, the RoadRunner
>
>Not just machine shops, Ricki me lad....I was grilling steaks over the
>weekend and leaned down a bit close to the grill when I was building
>up the coals and sizzled one side of my hair. Julie was aghast and
>promptly wrinkled her oh-so-cute nose at the smell and then tied it
>back carefully for me.
>
>Fortunately, no real damage done...
>
>Steve
>
hehehe, reminds me of the time i first lit a gas grill. well,
Da Match wasn't catching like It should, so i bent over to peer
at DA Match and Da Gas Burners and contelate Da Problem...
VOOMPH. Inferno rising straight up at your face with barely
enough time to blink...
fortunately, i had shortish hair at the time, so that was
fairly easy to correct the next day with the hair cutter.
Eyebrows, however, were more of a problem. =)>
>
a sadder but the wiser Cheez Wiz
>
--
"Must be those people who come every night, with saucer-shaped lights,
with people uptight, leave blue-green footprints that glow in the dark,
I hope they get home all right." --Da Byrds
"Can't this wait till I'm old? Can't I live while I'm young?" --Phish
Howard Johnson's Got His Ho-Jo Workin'
>fe...@faraday.clas.Virginia.EDU (Howard Johnson's Got His Ho-Jo
>Workin') sez:
>
>>I smell something burrrrnnninnnng! =) =)
>
>
>
>s'all right, jest my brain...no great loss.
Are ya kiddin', man? that brain is responsible for the most
uproarious insights into a marriage most people keep embarrassedly
private. my stomach still hurts from laughin' so much.
more importantly, how do you know your kids don't read ARC?
*evil chuckle*
cheers,
frank
--
"It's not your job to be as confused as Nigel is." --David St. Hubbins
"Harry--it sucks." --Tom & Steve Chapin
Ross Mair
>ssa...@silver.ucs.indiana.edu (-=[SLS]=-) writes:
>>
>>Hmm, never really appealed to me either but for some reason I have
>>been thinking about it. How about it, people that know me. Should I go
>>for it? Whatcha think, Jewel of my Life?
>Well *I* think you should go for it. You'd look really great with an
>earring. *drool*
Clare... I didn't think *you* were the Jewel of Steven's life.... ??
Is there something you haven't told us???? :-)
*HUGS*
--
Ross
Official Personal Bodyguard to Lis, the Good Romantic Witch
***********************************************************
Ross Mair
>rm...@nyx.cs.du.edu (Ross Mair) writes:
>] Does this mean I'm going to have to grow my hair long if
>] I come to the US?? :(
>Yes.
>(Well, he ASKED, and SOMEONE had to say it!)
Well... given what I've read here about all these long-haired ARCguys....
I reckon *I* might be the rebellious one... and keep it short!! :-)
Ross Mair
>cw...@cs.aukuni.ac.nz (Clare West) drools liberally:
>Thanks for the drool, Clare, every man needs females to drool after
>him. :) Of course, Julie drools over me constantly so I am not
>lacking. :)
Gee.. it must be very wet and messy there in Bloomington! :-)
Remind me to bring my waterproofs when I come!!
Clare West
>cw...@cs.aukuni.ac.nz (Clare West) writes:
>>ssa...@silver.ucs.indiana.edu (-=[SLS]=-) writes:
>>>
>>>Hmm, never really appealed to me either but for some reason I have
>>>been thinking about it. How about it, people that know me. Should I go
>>>for it? Whatcha think, Jewel of my Life?
>
>>Well *I* think you should go for it. You'd look really great with an
>>earring. *drool*
>
>Clare... I didn't think *you* were the Jewel of Steven's life.... ??
>Is there something you haven't told us???? :-)
Of course there'e nothing I haven't told you. But being one of those
priveleged enough to have met him I think he was asking me too.
clare
--
| & Official Welcomer & Hello, my name is Inigo
,--. | --. ,--. ,--. & of the RFA & Montoya. You killed my
| | ,--| | |--' & BigSis to Kristiina, & father. Prepare to die.
`--' " `--" " `--' & Eric and Chris & -- The Princess Bride
-=[SLS]=-
>And I would hope that Steven WOULD say something if he felt strongly about
>it.
ok, if that is the way you feel....
I want you....bad.
*kiss*
Ed Vorst
>"-=[SLS]=-" <ssa...@silver.ucs.indiana.edu> writes:
>|> Hi all! Say, just wanted to throw this question out for people
>|>to chew on and digest.
>|>
>|> I wear my hair long since I like it that way. My ponytail is 6
>|>to 8 inches long now...(don't know for sure, will have to have Julie
>|>measure me...the 'tail that is...*smile*) Julie like my hair long also
>|>and I have heard from may women that they too like men with long hair.
>|>
>|> Question is: Why DO some women like long hair on men? Alternate
>|>question: Why DON'T some women like long hair on men? Should generate
>|>some discussion I imagine. Now remember, no flaming, just post your
>|>preferences, ladies, and your reasons. Men, how about you? Do you wear
>|>your hair long or short and why?
>Long. Up until the spring of 1985, I always had long hair... My mother
>preferred it that way when I was a child, and I've always liked the sense
>of freedom I get from wearing my hair long.
My Mom always kept my hair long too, of course, it was the seventies.
>|>PART TWO:
>Yes. Not just one, but two. I have a selection, depending upon what I
>feel like wearing. Both in the
>left ear, because I usually hold the phone to my right.
I also have 2 in my left ear but my reason is more because I saw a friend
get one in his right ear and took a lot of immature flack from others who
thought he was gay. I really didn't care which ear I had them in and I
really didn't need the trouble, so I put them in my left ear.
As for if and why women like them, Don't ask me!! I'm a guy (nuff
said).
I enjoy wearring earrings, but unlike some of my male friends, I
have pretty well given up on variety. I feel that it's the wearring
that's important, not what it is so I keep it simple. (I only own 3
earrings down from several dozen)
*******************************************************
Ed Vorst
Official Conquistador
Deliverer of the HOLY Warm Fuzzies +
Protector of the RFA from non-romantics
and lust-seekers
*******************************************************
"Peace and Warm Fuzzies to all !!!!"
*******************************************************
email: evo...@umanitoba.ca
*******************************************************
Richard Iswara
> Ahhh, and I was also thinking of getting a cute l'il red heart tatooed
> on my butt cheek...hmm, maybe I should rethink this.
>
>
> ps: Julie, just joking about the tatoo!! AHHHHAHaaaHAAhaahahha
Hey Steve, maybe Jules would like to draw the tatoo personaly on your
er tush.
RickI, the RoadRunner
Richard Iswara
> In article <1993Feb2.2...@mlb.semi.harris.com> smc...@dw3g.ess.harris.c\
> om (Cheshire Cat) writes:
********just about everything deleted***********
> >While in the background, you can hear:
> >
> > *squeak*
> > *squish*
> >
> > *squeak*
> > *squish*
> >
> > *squeak*
> > *squish*
> >
> >(ok, look. She's in the rocking chair and the floors
> >still wet from drool. Think about it. We got time. :-)
>
> Are you sure that's the rocking chair? *Puzzled look* ;)
*laughter*
Lis is getting wilder every post isn't she?
RickI, the RoadRunner
Lisa Dominique
>Lis tries to make up for the drool:
>|> Lis walks over to the Chesire Cat, picks him up and cuddles
>|> him in her arms. "Poor little kitty.... I didn't mean to
>|> upset you. How about if we sit down in this chair here
>|> by the fireplace, and you can lie in my lap and I'll brush
>|> and dry your hair." *Lis begins petting the kitty gently*
>|>
>
>Keeping a wary eye on Lis's mouth (for signs of ensuing drool),
>CC settles down in Lis's lap. As she begins to stroke his
>fur, he..
>
> PPPPPPPPPUUUUUUUUUUUURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRSSSSSSS
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh, such a nice kitty. Lis gives the kitty
a treat....oooooo, Bonkers!! Yummmmm! :)
>While in the background, you can hear:
>
> *squeak*
> *squish*
>
> *squeak*
> *squish*
>
> *squeak*
> *squish*
>
>(ok, look. She's in the rocking chair and the floors
>still wet from drool. Think about it. We got time. :-)
>
>*snicker*
>---
>Cheshire Cat Official Back Scratcher of the RFA
Are you sure that's the rocking chair? *Puzzled look* ;)
Lis, The Official Good Romantic Witch
Ross Mair
>di...@wetware.com (CatWoman ) answers:
>>rm...@nyx.cs.du.edu (Ross Mair) writes:
>>
>>] Does this mean I'm going to have to grow my hair long if
>>] I come to the US?? :(
>>
>>Yes.
>>
>>(Well, he ASKED, and SOMEONE had to say it!)
>>
>>CatWoman
>AHHHHHHHAaaaahahhhAHHAHAAAAAAaaaaaahahahahhaaaa....you asked fer it ,
>Rossie.
Just go looking for my reply... you big rebel, you... :-)
Oh... and no one calls me Rossie and gets away with it....
unless she's about 25-30... long hair, sweet smile... luscious body,
long legs... and promises to let me ........ *Dream... :-)~~~~~ *
Alright.. unless she's 25-35... :-)
Ross Mair
You don't mean 'so long as you vociferiously praise it before kissing *it*'???
:-)~~
Hmmm... well, how can I turn down an offer like that.
6.30pm. Damn. Travel aganet is shut now.
Oh well... I'll pack the sleeping bag and camp ooutside. :-)
*HUGS* Jen
Paul T Taylor
>r...@sequent.com (Paul T Taylor) writes:
>************just about everything deleted********************
>> hair to be *really* different? And as for pierced ears.... I don't
>> think I could pull that off, I guess I'll just have to get something
>> *else* pierced..... ;-)
>> Brewhahahahahahahaahahahahahahaahahha!!!!!!!
>
>So Rip, which of your points are pierced?
Points? *ouch!* No one goes near my points! 'Cept maybe MA! (she's
back!!! i'm so excited!)
rip(So, how many points do I get for this one?)
Masquerade
here now.
Long hair?
I have short hair, I've had long hair and it's interesting but I'm a
lazy little tyke and short hair is less hassle to keep looking good.
Doesn't fall in your eyes either.
I prefer long hair on women as a rule because you can 'do more' with it
artisticly I mean. This isn't really relevant though, If the one I love
has short hair, that's what she has and very nice it is too.
Ear rings?
Lovely idea, no problems with it at all. I'd like one but I have no
idea what to put in one. So no earring.
Useful, huh? I'm tempted to say that it's people that matter and not hair
or adornments but you lot know all that anyway.
Others reactions are interesting though. I had all my hair off before Xmas
and it was most strange. Watching people cross the street to avoid me was
damn' amusing though. If you want people to think you're a violent psycho
just waiting to terrorise their children then peach-fuzz on your head is the
way to go.
S'long
Simon - Charming? cute and fluffy...? No despite what people say
--
| o "There's something you don't know..."
| /&-)--- 'What's that?'
| /'>_ "I'm not left-handed either!"
Phillip E lujan
evo...@ccu.umanitoba.ca (Ed Vorst) writes:
|>The Knight-Errant writes:
|>>"-=[SLS]=-" <ssa...@silver.ucs.indiana.edu> writes:
|>>|> Hi all! Say, just wanted to throw this question out for people
|>>|>to chew on and digest.
|>>|>
|>>|> I wear my hair long since I like it that way. My ponytail is 6
|>>|>to 8 inches long now...(don't know for sure, will have to have Julie
|>>|>measure me...the 'tail that is...*smile*) Julie like my hair long also
|>>|>and I have heard from may women that they too like men with long hair.
|>>|>
|>>|> Question is: Why DO some women like long hair on men? Alternate
|>>|>question: Why DON'T some women like long hair on men? Should generate
|>>|>some discussion I imagine. Now remember, no flaming, just post your
|>>|>preferences, ladies, and your reasons. Men, how about you? Do you wear
|>>|>your hair long or short and why?
|>
|>>Long. Up until the spring of 1985, I always had long hair... My mother
|>>preferred it that way when I was a child, and I've always liked the sense
|>>of freedom I get from wearing my hair long.
|>
|>My Mom always kept my hair long too, of course, it was the seventies.
Same for me... I guess it just stuck with me. Another '70's kid!!! Do
you hate disco (and its bastard child, rap/hip-hop) as much as I do?
Well, actually, I don't *hate* rap... I just don't like it much.
|>>|>PART TWO:
|>>Yes. Not just one, but two. I have a selection, depending upon what I
|>>feel like wearing. Both in the
|>>left ear, because I usually hold the phone to my right.
|>
|>I also have 2 in my left ear but my reason is more because I saw a friend
|>get one in his right ear and took a lot of immature flack from others who
|>thought he was gay. I really didn't care which ear I had them in and I
|>really didn't need the trouble, so I put them in my left ear.
Oops. Yep, that too... I don't really care what people think, but I don't
need the aggravation of some redneck getting in my face and calling me
nasty names...
|> As for if and why women like them, Don't ask me!! I'm a guy (nuff
|>said).
|>
|> I enjoy wearring earrings, but unlike some of my male friends, I
|>have pretty well given up on variety. I feel that it's the wearring
|>that's important, not what it is so I keep it simple. (I only own 3
|>earrings down from several dozen)
I guess the reason I have such a selection is that my choice of earrings
depends on my mood... For example, I'm not wearing any today.
|>*******************************************************
|> Ed Vorst
|> Official Conquistador
|> Deliverer of the HOLY Warm Fuzzies +
|> Protector of the RFA from non-romantics
|> and lust-seekers
|>*******************************************************
|> "Peace and Warm Fuzzies to all !!!!"
|>*******************************************************
|> email: evo...@umanitoba.ca
|>*******************************************************
Welcome back, Conquistador!
++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
+ Sean Roberts + s...@abo.dec.com + Chivalry shall +
+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ never die, as +
+ Official Knight-Errant of the RFA + long as there +
+ Speaker to the Flame + is one man who +
+ Protector of the Gallan-Tree + believes in it +
++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Lisa Dominique
>ssa...@silver.ucs.indiana.edu (-=[SLS]=-) writes:
>
>>cw...@cs.aukuni.ac.nz (Clare West) drools liberally:
>
>>Thanks for the drool, Clare, every man needs females to drool after
>>him. :) Of course, Julie drools over me constantly so I am not
>>lacking. :)
>
>Gee.. it must be very wet and messy there in Bloomington! :-)
>Remind me to bring my waterproofs when I come!!
Is that with an "o" or a "u", Ross? *evil snicker*
Sorry, Ross, I just couldn't resist! :-)
>--
>Ross
>Official Personal Bodyguard to Lis, the Good Romantic Witch
>***********************************************************
Lisa Dominique
>In article <1993Feb3.1...@noose.ecn.purdue.edu> li...@dynamo.ecn.purdue.edu (Lisa Dominique) writes:
>
>**bunch deleted**
>
>>My vote is for Michael Bolton!! Oh, Yeah!!
>
>Damn! And I thought *I* was the sexiest man alive, (or dead)!! And
>here is was buttering everyone up by saying how humble I was too! :-(
WEll, Rip, BigBro, you might be sexy to a lot of us women,
but it's pretty tough having to compete with folks like
Patrick Swayze and Michael Bolton and Mel Gibson too.
>Well, my hair is short, I don't have an ear ring, don't write songs,
>but have had several people say I sing pretty good...(Don't laugh
>Gemr!), and I am warm and honest....(see, I *am* humble!)
Hey, I have a tape of you singing! You're so cute!! :-)
I just want to give you a big hug. *Great Big Hug*
>Sorry, ain't got no talents....
WHAT!! Now, Bro, we all know you have hidden talents.
Ya gonna clue us in? Come on, Let one Riiiiiiiiii-p!! :-)
** Warm Bewitching Huggs to All **
Sarah Curtis Johnson
>In article <1993Feb1.0...@mnemosyne.cs.du.edu> rm...@nyx.cs.du.edu (Ross Mair) writes:
>>john...@cheshire.oxy.edu (Sarah Curtis Johnson) writes:
>>
>>>Hmmmm...tough question. I personally *love* long hair on men.
[etc, etc, etc....]
>You know all this talk about long hair got
>me thinking (hide the wimmen and children!), how many of you wimmen
>out there have run your hands over a Marine Corps high-and-tight? I
>have had several wimmen tell me that that is a very sexy feeling
>too... The feeling of soft stubble under the fingers, like little
>needles of sensation.... And what about us guys, who from a curse of
>nature are finding that our foreheads are getting higher each year?
>Any wimmen out there think bald is beautiful?
True, true. Speaking of sensual...what a feelin'! I have a marine friend who, when I'm really good, will let me "pet" his head. *giggle* It's fun.
And as for balding guys, well, it's a look...;) Don't worry Rip, they have
wonderful technology these days....;)
>rip(I hate my Mom's Dad!)
*giggle*
-Sarah
Official Strawberry of the RFA
*hugs*
Sarah Curtis Johnson
>In article <93033.120...@MAINE.MAINE.EDU>, IO1...@MAINE.MAINE.EDU writes:
>>You did read that Patrick Stewart, who is completely bald, is considered one of
>> the sexiest men alive at the moment, don't you? Several of my girl friends an
>>d I agree that he's ......... MMMMMMmmmm!!!
>>-Jennifer
>
>Maybe it's me, but I don't see how he can be the sexiest guy when there are
>people like Sean Connery, Mel Gibbson, Tom Cruise, Pattrick Swazye, need I go
>on. I can see however how he could be considered very charasmatic, but sexy is
>beyond me, but then again these guys I have just mentioned might only be sexy
>skin deep. Who knows.
Personally, I think Patrick Stewart has one of the sexiest voices I've ever
heard. I love listening to him talk. (Even as a narrator for a film in my
physics class...;) And, yes, he's charismatic. And the other men you listed all
have their high points, but I think the whole concept of "the sexiest man" is
ridiculous, considering that each woman sees different things in each man.
I mean, sex-gods like Mel Gibson (oh, those *eyes*!!!) are wonderful to watch,
and are *definitely* appreciated, I don't think I could qualify any one man with
the title of "sexiest". Just my opinion....
>- Dave
-Sarah
Official Strawberry of the RFA
(and to think, Patrick Stewart came to *my* school, to see a show! I sat *near*
him! L.A. *does* have it's good points. *bragging mode off* )
IO1...@maine.maine.edu
-Jennifer of the long flowing hair and buxom bosom
Official (?) Toothy Grinner of the RFA
IO1...@maine.maine.edu
you won't need to camp outside.... I might even let you be my snuggle bunny!
-Jennifer
Julie Salter
>Hey Steve, maybe Jules would like to draw the tatoo personaly on your
>er tush.
*SSLURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!* Yes!! Sounds good to me!!!
Paul T Taylor
>I'd love it if you'd help me end the kissing drought.. I'll even cook you some
>dinner if you got yourself here. :-) And you can notice any feature of mine th
>at you want, so long as you vociferiously praise it before kissing....
>-Jennifer
Are you talking to me? Are *you* talking to me?! I sure hope so! I
would love to come help you out, but I don't think my Mistress would
approve. And I *do* so want to keep my manhood!
Butt, as a wise person once said, life is a game, and those who only
spectate are doomed to be lonely. Romance is dead only for those who
have stopped believing in themselves....
rip(better enjoy it while you can, I'm ain't profound too often!)
Phillip E lujan
li...@dynamo.ecn.purdue.edu (Lisa Dominique) writes:
|>rm...@nyx.cs.du.edu (Ross Mair) writes:
|>>ssa...@silver.ucs.indiana.edu (-=[SLS]=-) writes:
|>>
|>>>cw...@cs.aukuni.ac.nz (Clare West) drools liberally:
|>>
|>>>Thanks for the drool, Clare, every man needs females to drool after
|>>>him. :) Of course, Julie drools over me constantly so I am not
|>>>lacking. :)
|>>
|>>Gee.. it must be very wet and messy there in Bloomington! :-)
|>>Remind me to bring my waterproofs when I come!!
|> ^^^^
|>
|>Is that with an "o" or a "u", Ross? *evil snicker*
LIS!!!! I'm shocked! How could you say such a thing! And on a family
newsgroup, too! ;-)
Geez... Couldn't you just have let Rip say that? I mean, really...
:-)
Paul T Taylor
** deleted stuff **
>|>>Gee.. it must be very wet and messy there in Bloomington! :-)
>|>>Remind me to bring my waterproofs when I come!!
>|> ^^^^
>|>
>|>Is that with an "o" or a "u", Ross? *evil snicker*
>
>LIS!!!! I'm shocked! How could you say such a thing! And on a family
>newsgroup, too! ;-)
>
>
>
>Geez... Couldn't you just have let Rip say that? I mean, really...
>
>:-)
Hey! Hold on a sec!! I was just as shocked as *you* were! Besides,
I would *never* say anything like that!! My mind and heart are too
pure, and humble.... ;-)
rip(Mine is the strength of 10 1/2 because my heart is pure!)