I am the Troll on a.r.e. now???
Really? When did this happen exactly?
"hey I have to give you some
feedback about something you're doing
wrong and I'm hoping that you can take
care of that"
and what will happen immediately
is something will click in the
covert a narcissist
you'll see something in their eyes
and their facial expression
(or in their written reply if its online)
and you'll know you triggered
what we call a Narcissistic INJURY
the covert narcissist will get mad and angry
but because they're adept at hiding or
true self they will they will come up
with a plan and how to hurt you
how to defend themselves
how to take away your credibility
or they just might become offensive aggressive
and try to control you by using
manipulative strategies and psychological
techniques to make you believe that
you are wrong in your judgment and
that YOU SHOULD APOLOGISE for your negative feedback ....
Ref: Dr Rosenburg .... probably born Jewish and really like the guy a lot.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=16AOOKHyddQ
And Sam Vaknin too another born Jewish person ... wonderful very smart helpful guy, even if is a self-recognised "narcissist"
Shmuel "Sam" Vaknin (born April 21, 1961) is an Israeli writer.
Known for Self-help material on narcissistic personality disorder.
He is the author of Malignant Self Love: Narcissism Revisited (1999), was
editor-in-chief of political news website Global Politician, and runs a
private website about narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). He has also
postulated a theory on chronons and time asymmetry.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sam_Vaknin
Knows his 'psychology' this chap. I learnt a lot. Brilliant guy, and a
great 'self-help' website; one of the first on the internet in the mid-1990s