> David Dalton wrote:
> Tibetan Buddhists believe that we are all connected.
> So, we are all soul aligned, with all sentient being, already.
>
> There is no difference between you and the Buddha Tara, Buddha
Amitaba, your neighbor, your cat, etc.
> We think there is a difference, because our view is obscured.
> We label things that don't exist.
> It's a difficult concept.
>
>
> Here is a familiar situation.
>
> A man and woman are driving to a location, about 5 hours away.
> After a few hours, the woman says, "Why don't you stop. You
look like you can use a break and a bit of food."
> The man, "No thanks, I'm fine." and he drives right past
the rest stop.
> Then she starts getting angry and soon there is a big argument.
>
> What's the problem, are you mis-aligned?
> No.
>
> Women are taught to think of others first.
> So, if she has to use the rest stop or is hungry, she says
"Aren't you hungry, why don't you stop."
> A woman will rarely, if ever, say to the man driving. "Stop
here. I need to use the toilet and eat."
> It just doesn't happen.
> A man will say "Stop here. I need to use the toilet and
eat.", but not a woman.
> A woman expects the man """ to know
"""" she needs to stop, but very few know this
language.
>
> After the big argument, the man says, "..., just tell me if
you want to stop next time."
> It won't happen. It really won't. I will not happen.
>
> Women think to do that, is so, bossy and unpleasant.
> They have to say it the other way, "Don't YOU want to stop
soon."
> That shows they care about YOU, so, YOU had better care about them,
and stop.
>
> Men just don't make the connection, that she wants to stop, because
men speak directly and will say "I want to stop."
> A man rarely says, "You look tired, why not stop and eat a
bit?"when he is tired and wants to eat.
>
> Start listening and you'll be aligned as much as you want.
> Once you learn this, women will love you, forever.
> Why men don't get this secret is beyond me.
>
> The other is neuro-lingustic programming.
> Read about it.
> People interact with the world in three basic ways, feeling, seeing
and hearing.
>
> When a person gets mad, that's when you will be able to clearly
hear the differences.
> You'll almost always, get one of the following;
>
> "You're not listening to me."
> "Why don't you ever see things my way."
> "you don't care about my feelings."
>
> To come out a winner, you need to match their speech pattern.
>
> The response should be, in order.
> "I hear you, I'm sorry I misunderstood. I'll try to listen
more closely next time." ....score 100%
> "I see what your saying, I didn't see it that way. I'll try to
remember, your viewpoint about all of this." .....score 100%
> "I feel terrible about this. I'm really sorry, but I'm touched
you'd share your feeling with me, so openly."...score 100%
>
> This is alignment of people.
> Learn the language and match the pattern.
> This may be what you are referring to, as "in
alignment".
>
> Becoming one soul, already done.
> You just need to work on a common language and way of interacting
with the world.
>
> There are other ways to match and get what you need out of a
relationship, but this is the basic stuff.
> Do this and you will be fought over.
> There aren't many who can do this well.
>
> Who are Tibetan Buddhist soul alignment beings.
> All sentient beings have male and female sides / parts to us.
>
> For Example These Pairs - Unite to Make the Hidden or Unseen Deity
between or of the two.
> Two Into One
>
> Vajrasattva + Vajragarvi
> Amoghasiddhi + Green Tara
> Ratnasambhava + Mamaki
> Amit bha + P Garav sin+
> Vairocana + Akashadhateshvari
> Akshobya + Pandara
>
> These male and female figures are depicted in sexual union.
> Strangely for us perhaps this has nothing to do with sex, there is
no erotic content to these images.
> This is sexual symbolism.
> In the Tantra this is profound and sacred symbolism, expressing the
highest Truth.
> These images, known as Yab-Yum, are symbolic of the unity or
oneness of Wisdom and Compassion.
> The female Buddha represents the Wisdom aspect and the male Buddha
represents the Compassion aspect, which is the active aspect of
Enlightenment.
> The sexual embrace symbolises the fact that there is no distinction
between Wisdom and Compassion, they are just two ways of speaking
about, or two ways of seeing, what is in fact a total experience.
>
>
> Janis
>
> A soul alignment occurs when two souls are aligned so
> they effectively become one soul.
>
> So to say that someone is an avatar of Vishnu means
> (to me) that that someone and Vishnu share the same
> soul but have different minds and bodies.
>
> Do you know of any living human(s) who are said to
> be avatars (not necessarily of Vishnu)?
>