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32 Years Of Sobriety

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Tim Bruening

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Sep 10, 2008, 1:33:45 PM9/10/08
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My alcoholic friend recently told me that one of her AA friends wrecked
her car and fell off the wagon after 32 years! Would that be a record
for greatest period of time between two binges?

Tex

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Sep 10, 2008, 4:41:43 PM9/10/08
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Fellow had 36 years sober ....wife of 50 years...died....he got fucked
up!

Jack

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Sep 23, 2008, 11:41:45 AM9/23/08
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I don't see anything wrong with that.


JoeRaisin

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Sep 23, 2008, 7:21:39 PM9/23/08
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IMHO it is about the surest way for an alcoholic to make a bad situation
worse.

At least that's one of the things I've tried very hard to remember for
the past twenty months.

Tex

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Sep 23, 2008, 9:21:46 PM9/23/08
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On Tue, 23 Sep 2008 11:41:45 -0400, "Jack" <furgfu...@yahoo.com>
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Wasn't a right or wrong answer...just an answer.

JimB

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Sep 23, 2008, 10:11:24 PM9/23/08
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My experience as well. I would have both feet in a pile of shit. So I
would decide to put one of my feet into another pile of shit. I was
soon having to find a way out of two piles of shit.

Sumpin' like that....

Stephanie

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Nov 14, 2008, 4:48:19 PM11/14/08
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Ah Christ. It is not encouraging to realize that after 32 YEARS I still may
not be done with this beast.


Tex

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Nov 14, 2008, 5:55:55 PM11/14/08
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On Fri, 14 Nov 2008 16:48:19 -0500, "Stephanie" <ha...@noway.net>
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There's only one way to really beat the beast....die. :)

F.H.

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Nov 14, 2008, 6:39:07 PM11/14/08
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ROTFLMAO Damn Strai....g......h......

Gary

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Nov 14, 2008, 7:23:56 PM11/14/08
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Ah yes, but it's optional now. And what happens to someone else
happens to someone else.
Not eveything you hear about alcohol is necessarily true. I know a guy
who is 83 years old. He has been drinking daily for at least 50 years,
probably more. He defies the AA stereotypes. His wife
is gone (she drank with him until she passed at age 80) and he lives in
a nice home, travels,
and drinks a lot. Of course we could say that hes not a 'real'
alcoholic, but no, he's one that just doesn't apparently need to sober
up.

Gary

Stephanie

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Nov 14, 2008, 8:29:56 PM11/14/08
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Anyone who makes it to 83 years old can do as they damned well please.


Tommy

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Nov 14, 2008, 9:49:01 PM11/14/08
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"Tex" <twiz...@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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>>>Ah Christ. It is not encouraging to realize that after 32 YEARS I
>>>still may
>>not be done with this beast.

> There's only one way to really beat the beast....die. :)

Real, natured or nurtured, If I could only drink without hangovers and
guilt trips i reckon I'd still be drinking today.

Goodammit I'd drink tomorrow if I could get away with it. but sure
whats the use. I'd have to sell my car, get rid of my material things
and sart to hang my head in shame again.

Nahh, I love my hobbies, my comforts and my growing 'feck-off' bank
account :-))

Cheers
Tommy

JoeRaisin

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Nov 15, 2008, 7:31:02 AM11/15/08
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Only if you choose to take a drink.

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nondescript user

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Nov 29, 2008, 10:39:03 PM11/29/08
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No real alcoholic is ever immune from taking the next drink. What we
have is a daily reprieve contingent upon the maintenance of our
spititual condition. Surely you've heard that line before!

The reality is that God has given me the grace to not drink each day
since I decided to turn my will and my life over to Him. The moment I
take that commitment back I am on my own again, trying to use my own
will power to manage my life.

No matter how long one has been sober they are only one drink away from
being a wreck again if they are not dependent upon God to help them get
through their daily lives. Unfortunately the longer we stay sober the
harder it becomes to remember the pain and humiliation we suffered in
our last days of drinking. That is why regular meetings, service work,
home group, sponsor/sponsee, and above all a constant attempt to keep
God forefront in my recovery process has helped me to not take a drink
of alcohol since I had my first spiritual experience.

Tommy

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Nov 30, 2008, 5:07:22 PM11/30/08
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"nondescript user" <nondesc...@nowhere.com> wrote in message
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> Tim Bruening, 9/10/2008,12:33:45 PM, wrote:
>
>> My alcoholic friend recently told me that one of her AA friends
>> wrecked her car and fell off the wagon after 32 years! Would that be
>> a record for greatest period of time between two binges?
>
> No real alcoholic is ever immune from taking the next drink. What we
> have is a daily reprieve contingent upon the maintenance of our
> spititual condition. Surely you've heard that line before!
>
> The reality is that God has given me the grace to not drink each day
> since I decided to turn my will and my life over to Him. The moment I
> take that commitment back I am on my own again, trying to use my own
> will power to manage my life.

Well feck it, for a minute there I thought you said that Goz gave you
the grace :-))

I wonder what the hell that person was doing on the wagon, was she
standing when she shoulda been sitting, hey maybe she had a little wine
before she stood up. Youre very funny people over there, driving a
wagon for 32 years seems strange - maybe shes Amish, but they don't
drink.

Aww I give up

Tim Bruening

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Oct 10, 2009, 4:55:24 AM10/10/09
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wolde...@none.com wrote:

> Just like with everything, people are all different. I know a guy who
> was an alcoholic in his 20s. He stayed completely off alcohol for
> about 20 years after. Then one day after he lost a loved one and had
> a few drinks (he said to releive the pain). Since that day he has
> been drinking, but he said he only drinks about once a month and never
> drinks enough to get drunk. I know him well, and I never see him
> drunk, so I know he is being honest. I even tried to discourage him
> from it, but he said he is fine with it now, and old enough to know
> when he has had enough. (he's almost 60 years old now). He has a
> limit of 3 drinks or something like that. He has not been to an AA
> meeting in years either. He told me that AA is a great program, but
> he don't need it anymore. I guess some can, and others can not go
> back to drinking.

Amazing! I had understood that any alcoholic who drinks even a little is doomed
to go on an uncontrollable drinking binge!

gregg

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Oct 10, 2009, 10:25:24 AM10/10/09
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"Tim Bruening" <tsbr...@pop.dcn.davis.ca.us> wrote in message
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Nope, just that there is no predicting. In my case it is MUCH more likely
that now however. Really is easier to stay sober knowing this.

nlh1...@yahoo.com

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Oct 11, 2009, 6:52:32 PM10/11/09
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the problem is that there is no clear definition of "alcoholic". Perhaps he
was called one years ago and worked his way thru AA, but now he knows what
he's doing.


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nlh1...@yahoo.com

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Oct 11, 2009, 6:55:31 PM10/11/09
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I agree. I think I'm there too.

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