Fellow had 36 years sober ....wife of 50 years...died....he got fucked
up!
I don't see anything wrong with that.
IMHO it is about the surest way for an alcoholic to make a bad situation
worse.
At least that's one of the things I've tried very hard to remember for
the past twenty months.
Wasn't a right or wrong answer...just an answer.
My experience as well. I would have both feet in a pile of shit. So I
would decide to put one of my feet into another pile of shit. I was
soon having to find a way out of two piles of shit.
Sumpin' like that....
Ah Christ. It is not encouraging to realize that after 32 YEARS I still may
not be done with this beast.
There's only one way to really beat the beast....die. :)
ROTFLMAO Damn Strai....g......h......
Ah yes, but it's optional now. And what happens to someone else
happens to someone else.
Not eveything you hear about alcohol is necessarily true. I know a guy
who is 83 years old. He has been drinking daily for at least 50 years,
probably more. He defies the AA stereotypes. His wife
is gone (she drank with him until she passed at age 80) and he lives in
a nice home, travels,
and drinks a lot. Of course we could say that hes not a 'real'
alcoholic, but no, he's one that just doesn't apparently need to sober
up.
Gary
Anyone who makes it to 83 years old can do as they damned well please.
> There's only one way to really beat the beast....die. :)
Real, natured or nurtured, If I could only drink without hangovers and
guilt trips i reckon I'd still be drinking today.
Goodammit I'd drink tomorrow if I could get away with it. but sure
whats the use. I'd have to sell my car, get rid of my material things
and sart to hang my head in shame again.
Nahh, I love my hobbies, my comforts and my growing 'feck-off' bank
account :-))
Cheers
Tommy
Only if you choose to take a drink.
No real alcoholic is ever immune from taking the next drink. What we
have is a daily reprieve contingent upon the maintenance of our
spititual condition. Surely you've heard that line before!
The reality is that God has given me the grace to not drink each day
since I decided to turn my will and my life over to Him. The moment I
take that commitment back I am on my own again, trying to use my own
will power to manage my life.
No matter how long one has been sober they are only one drink away from
being a wreck again if they are not dependent upon God to help them get
through their daily lives. Unfortunately the longer we stay sober the
harder it becomes to remember the pain and humiliation we suffered in
our last days of drinking. That is why regular meetings, service work,
home group, sponsor/sponsee, and above all a constant attempt to keep
God forefront in my recovery process has helped me to not take a drink
of alcohol since I had my first spiritual experience.
Well feck it, for a minute there I thought you said that Goz gave you
the grace :-))
I wonder what the hell that person was doing on the wagon, was she
standing when she shoulda been sitting, hey maybe she had a little wine
before she stood up. Youre very funny people over there, driving a
wagon for 32 years seems strange - maybe shes Amish, but they don't
drink.
Aww I give up
wolde...@none.com wrote:
> Just like with everything, people are all different. I know a guy who
> was an alcoholic in his 20s. He stayed completely off alcohol for
> about 20 years after. Then one day after he lost a loved one and had
> a few drinks (he said to releive the pain). Since that day he has
> been drinking, but he said he only drinks about once a month and never
> drinks enough to get drunk. I know him well, and I never see him
> drunk, so I know he is being honest. I even tried to discourage him
> from it, but he said he is fine with it now, and old enough to know
> when he has had enough. (he's almost 60 years old now). He has a
> limit of 3 drinks or something like that. He has not been to an AA
> meeting in years either. He told me that AA is a great program, but
> he don't need it anymore. I guess some can, and others can not go
> back to drinking.
Amazing! I had understood that any alcoholic who drinks even a little is doomed
to go on an uncontrollable drinking binge!
Nope, just that there is no predicting. In my case it is MUCH more likely
that now however. Really is easier to stay sober knowing this.
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