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Is "Personal Responsibility" a Four-Letter Word?
http://www.drlaurablog.com/2008/03/18/is-personal-responsibility-a-four-letter-word/
March 18, 2008 on 6:30 am Laura Shlessinger blogs

Laura Shlessinger must be writing about Deryk Shlessinger taking
"Personal Responsibility" for what he wrote and posted to America in
his MySpace?
http://bp2.blogger.com/_0qTU784XP0M/RoVUnlGRFxI/AAAAAAAABCs/5h1J0-VJUS4/s1600-h/82ndAIRBORNE++diary+afghan+07.jpg

"It's to thank you, you America. Bc of you unwillingness..." Deryk
muah
http://bp2.blogger.com/_0qTU784XP0M/R7_IDBsdJ9I/AAAAAAAACkk/dZQAXdTNpso/s1600-h/15may07+deryk+schlessinger.png
http://bp3.blogger.com/_0qTU784XP0M/RuXEzixyyAI/AAAAAAAABl8/N2D9NdYIceg/s1600-h/where%27s+missing+poppy++Lew+Bishop.jpg

Will she pawn this "Personal Responsibility" blog off to Wendy McCaw's
Santa Barbara News-Press bi-weekly column like she did here: Live
from New York, Dr. Laura
http://www.newspress.com/Top/Article/article.jsp?Section=LOCAL&Subsection=Columnists&ID=565261810568134683
March 13, 2008 12:00 AM
What a kerfluffle: About two months ago, my publisher, Harper
Collins,
and March 12, 2008 http://www.drlaurablog.com/2008/03/12/go-to-the-videotape/

[][] [][]
NYC Whine Tour. [ Where's BeBe? ]
Laura was on various tv programs being incredulous. One host played it
up and it's getting mileage. [ Eliot & Silda ]

I hear Laura was more fun in the radio pro Bill Ballance era.
http://bp2.blogger.com/_0qTU784XP0M/R9ya0Aqc7sI/AAAAAAAACqM/8eNq0HcqLUk/s1600-h/Bill+Ballance+radio.jpg
Ballance wrote some colorful memories of their 2.5 years between the
sheets. After leaving husband #1 or 2 in New York she shacked up with
Bill, he taught her alot. She was good in bed but ugly as sin
http://i70.photobucket.com/albums/i91/nonnie9999/movies/eyesoflauramars2.jpg

Panic drama queen, Laura generated controversy and attention March
2008.
Random comments.>>

1. Yeah, We Know: Dr. Laura Schlessinger Is Full Of Shit>>
http://jezebel.com/366283/yeah-we-know-dr-laura-schlessinger-is-full-of-shit

2. Dr. Laura blames Spitzer's wife for scandal.>>
http://thinkprogress.org/2008/03/11/dr-laura-blames-spitzers-wife-for-scandal/

3. Mar 13th, 2008
Dr. Laura stands by her man comments.>>

This week, Dr. Laura Schlessinger made headlines when she blamed
former governor Eliot Spitzer's wife for her husband's unethical
behavior, saying, "I hold women accountable for tossing out perfectly
good men." Yesterday, on Fox News' Hannity and Colmes, Dr. Laura again
shifted blame to women:

COLMES: Isn't it the jerk who cheats on his wife? Doesn't the
responsibility lie with that adulterer and that man who makes that
decision?

SCHLESSINGER: His responsibility for cheating is his. The
responsibility for mistreating her man is hers.
http://thinkprogress.org/2008/03/13/dr-laura-stands-by-her-man-comments/

[] []
old photo: At the Hanoi Hilton ?
http://www.vietnamveteransagainstjohnmccain.com/mcaincu1.jpg
[] []

4. Roses 'n' Razzies (March 14)
http://www.gazettetimes.com/articles/2008/03/14/news/opinion/3edi01_roses0314.txt

RASPBERRIES to Dr. Laura Schlessinger, who clearly knows that there's
no bad publicity, especially when you're hawking a book.

So, when "The Today Show" invited her to promote her latest book, and
discuss the ubiquitous prostitution sex scandal that has enmeshed just-
resigned New York Gov. Eliot Spitzer, Schlessinger knew just where to
focus the blame.

For those who missed it (and we suspect many more wish they had missed
it), Spitzer resigned Wednesday amid revelations that he spent $80,000
or so on in recent years for the services of call girls.

Upon hearing Dr. Laura's diatribe, incredulous host Meredith Viera
asked Schlessinger if she meant to say this was all Silda Spitzer's
fault, to which Dr. Laura replied: "When the wife does not focus in on
the needs and the feelings, sexually, personally, to make him feel
like a man, to make him feel like a success, to make him feel like her
hero, he's very susceptible to the charm of some other woman making
him feel what he needs.".

We're sure that Silda Spitzer, who is an accomplished woman, won't
have any trouble adding "guilt" to her full emotional plate of
uncertainty, grief, disillusionment and crushing public humiliation.

Dr. Laura, the Dark Ages called. You're overdue on dungeon duty.
http://i70.photobucket.com/albums/i91/nonnie9999/movies/eyesoflauramars2.jpg
[]
[]
[] Business: Wendy McCaw history
Business: Tuesday, May 06, 1997
$1.3 Billion Mccaw Split: State's Biggest Divorce Case -- Lawyers
Could Make Millions As Dividing The Couple's Estate Becomes An
Industry In Itself
http://archives.seattletimes.nwsource.com/cgi-bin/texis.cgi/web/vortex/display?slug=2537663&date=19970506
Thomas W. Haines Seattle Times Business Reporter
[]
Brady On Media
'Front Page' Revisited
James Brady, 07.27.06, 6:00 AM ET
http://www.forbes.com/2006/07/26/james-brady-on-media-cx_jb_0727mccaw.html
There hasn't been a screwball comedy this sweet about the newspaper
biz since Hecht & MacArthur first staged "The Front Page." And this
one is set not in big cities but in a lovely seaside town in
California.

If you've never seen Santa Barbara, you're missing something--nice,
vaguely Spanish architecture sloping down to the golden Pacific
beaches from green uplands, splendid homes, a charming downtown, tall
palms and rich evergreens. It seems to have everything: the hot sun,
cool breeze, verdant growth and--until about yesterday--one of the
best small daily papers in the country, the News-Press, with one
Pulitzer and a collection of California general excellence awards.

There's even Fred C. Dobbs, one of my favorite watering places (I hope
it's still there), named for Humphrey Bogart's sour, grasping and
memorable character in The Treasure of the Sierra Madre. But at Santa
Barbara's very good local paper, the amateurs have taken over, and the
children are running the sandbox.

Maybe you've been following the
[]
Media

Citizen McCaw

Film in search of an end - 'McCaw' documentary not completed yet
http://www.pacbiztimes.com/index.cfm?go2=articles/wk_031708e
March 17, 2008
A sequel is already in the works for a documentary about a Santa
Barbara billionaire newspaper co-publisher whose former editors and
reporters are lionized in the film, which draws its name from the
Orson Welles movie "Citizen Kane."

** Wendy's sister ♥ the first Citizen McCaw documentary
Attorney said "It's water off Wendy back." and
"It was written to pander to willing supplicants."
http://blogabarbara.blogspot.com/2008/03/pandering-supplicants-what-exactly-did.html
Lawyers were sent to take notes.

lc

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Mar 19, 2008, 2:29:37 PM3/19/08
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"When, then, makes for marital happiness? What do men need? In an
earlier book, The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands, Dr. Laura
advises wives to reinforce men as head of the household, to resist the
lure of feminist ideology about equality, and to celebrate difference.
Adoration of and deference to a husband will yield a wife far more
power than direct challenge. Equality is a turn-off. Inequality is
sexy."

Eliot Spitzer’s Fall from Grace: Reflections from a Feminist
Perspective
http://swoplv.wordpress.com/2008/03/19/eliot-spitzers-fall-from-grace-reflections-from-a-feminist-perspective/

[]
Power Couples vs. Husbands As Heroes

Some feminists might be disheartened at what the Spitzer scandal
reveals about the possibility of egalitarian marriage, or peer
marriage. (We considered the plight of “Desperate Feminist Wives” in a
prior column.)

Presumably, those third-wave feminists who view heterosexual marriage
as part of their life plan envision a marriage free of the sort of
gender subordination of earlier generations; in short, they assume
they will be able to have a peer, or egalitarian, marriage. Last year,
the new magazine 02138, featured Eliot and Silda Wall Spitzer on the
cover of its “Power Couples: See What Happens When Harvard Meets
Harvard” story. Love between equals can work, and even be fun and
sexy, the story and accompanying photos seemed to announce.

But last week, a different formula for happy marriage was offered by
none other than Dr. Laura Schlessinger, who, to the astonishment of
her host on the NBC Today Show, laid the problem of Governor Spitzer’s
cheating - and of men’s cheating, in general - at the door of Silda
Wall Spitzer and any other wife who failed to make her husband feel
“like a man, . . . like a success, . . .like her hero,” so that he was
“very susceptible to the charm of some other woman.” Schlessinger
purported to hold women “accountable” for not giving “perfectly good
men” the love, kindness, respect, and attention they need, charging
that “these days, women don’t spend a lot of time thinking about how
they can give their men what they need….” (Dr. Laura’s diagnosis seems
particularly inapt given that Silda Wall Spitzer had actually put her
own career to the side to help her husband’s political career.)

When, then, makes for marital happiness? What do men need? In an
earlier book, The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands, Dr. Laura
advises wives to reinforce men as head of the household, to resist the
lure of feminist ideology about equality, and to celebrate difference.
Adoration of and deference to a husband will yield a wife far more
power than direct challenge. Equality is a turn-off. Inequality is
sexy.

How about the inequality inherent in the prostitute-client exchange?
That the Spitzer scandal was primarily about marital failure, and thus
a cautionary tale to wives, was a message delivered in less directly
offensive form on various television shows about “why men cheat.”
Relationship experts gave advice to wives on steps to take to keep
their marriages “sexy” and keep men from straying. This therapeutic
model of marriage resonates with current federal public policy to fund
efforts to promote “healthy marriage.” Marital success, on this view,
depends upon a basic set of skills that can be learned; marital
failure lies in the dynamics of the marriage, not with the individual
spouse. A man’s having sex with prostitutes is read as a joint,
therapeutic problem, an approach reinforced by Spitzer’s resignation
speech, emphasizing his need to focus on healing himself and his
family.

On Mar 18, 11:46 pm, lc <lol7...@msn.com> wrote:
> Laura Shlessinger blog 3/18/08: Is "Personal Responsibility" a Four-
> Letter Word?
>

> Is "Personal Responsibility" a Four-Letter Word?http://www.drlaurablog.com/2008/03/18/is-personal-responsibility-a-fo...


> March 18, 2008 on 6:30 am Laura Shlessinger blogs
>
> Laura Shlessinger must be writing about Deryk Shlessinger taking
> "Personal Responsibility" for what he wrote and posted to America in

> his MySpace?http://bp2.blogger.com/_0qTU784XP0M/RoVUnlGRFxI/AAAAAAAABCs/5h1J0-VJU...


>
> "It's to thank you, you America. Bc of you unwillingness..." Deryk

> muahhttp://bp2.blogger.com/_0qTU784XP0M/R7_IDBsdJ9I/AAAAAAAACkk/dZQAXdTNp...http://bp3.blogger.com/_0qTU784XP0M/RuXEzixyyAI/AAAAAAAABl8/N2D9NdYIc...


>
> Will she pawn this "Personal Responsibility" blog off to Wendy McCaw's
> Santa Barbara News-Press bi-weekly column like she did here: Live
> from New York, Dr. Laura

> http://www.newspress.com/Top/Article/article.jsp?Section=LOCAL&Subsec...


> March 13, 2008 12:00 AM
> What a kerfluffle: About two months ago, my publisher, Harper
> Collins,
> and March 12, 2008 http://www.drlaurablog.com/2008/03/12/go-to-the-videotape/
>
> [][] [][]
> NYC Whine Tour. [ Where's BeBe? ]
> Laura was on various tv programs being incredulous. One host played it
> up and it's getting mileage. [ Eliot & Silda ]
>

> I hear Laura was more fun in the radio pro Bill Ballance era.http://bp2.blogger.com/_0qTU784XP0M/R9ya0Aqc7sI/AAAAAAAACqM/8eNq0HcqL...


> Ballance wrote some colorful memories of their 2.5 years between the
> sheets. After leaving husband #1 or 2 in New York she shacked up with

> Bill, he taught her alot. She was good in bed but ugly as sinhttp://i70.photobucket.com/albums/i91/nonnie9999/movies/eyesoflaurama...


>
> Panic drama queen, Laura generated controversy and attention March
> 2008.
> Random comments.>>
>

> 1. Yeah, We Know: Dr. Laura Schlessinger Is Full Of Shit>>http://jezebel.com/366283/yeah-we-know-dr-laura-schlessinger-is-full-...
>
> 2. Dr. Laura blames Spitzer's wife for scandal.>>http://thinkprogress.org/2008/03/11/dr-laura-blames-spitzers-wife-for...


>
> 3. Mar 13th, 2008
> Dr. Laura stands by her man comments.>>
>
> This week, Dr. Laura Schlessinger made headlines when she blamed
> former governor Eliot Spitzer's wife for her husband's unethical
> behavior, saying, "I hold women accountable for tossing out perfectly
> good men." Yesterday, on Fox News' Hannity and Colmes, Dr. Laura again
> shifted blame to women:
>
> COLMES: Isn't it the jerk who cheats on his wife? Doesn't the
> responsibility lie with that adulterer and that man who makes that
> decision?
>
> SCHLESSINGER: His responsibility for cheating is his. The

> responsibility for mistreating her man is hers.http://thinkprogress.org/2008/03/13/dr-laura-stands-by-her-man-comments/
>
> [] []
> old photo: At the Hanoi Hilton ?http://www.vietnamveteransagainstjohnmccain.com/mcaincu1.jpg
> [] []
>
> 4. Roses 'n' Razzies (March 14)http://www.gazettetimes.com/articles/2008/03/14/news/opinion/3edi01_r...


>
> RASPBERRIES to Dr. Laura Schlessinger, who clearly knows that there's
> no bad publicity, especially when you're hawking a book.
>
> So, when "The Today Show" invited her to promote her latest book, and
> discuss the ubiquitous prostitution sex scandal that has enmeshed just-
> resigned New York Gov. Eliot Spitzer, Schlessinger knew just where to
> focus the blame.
>
> For those who missed it (and we suspect many more wish they had missed
> it), Spitzer resigned Wednesday amid revelations that he spent $80,000
> or so on in recent years for the services of call girls.
>
> Upon hearing Dr. Laura's diatribe, incredulous host Meredith Viera
> asked Schlessinger if she meant to say this was all Silda Spitzer's
> fault, to which Dr. Laura replied: "When the wife does not focus in on
> the needs and the feelings, sexually, personally, to make him feel
> like a man, to make him feel like a success, to make him feel like her
> hero, he's very susceptible to the charm of some other woman making
> him feel what he needs.".
>
> We're sure that Silda Spitzer, who is an accomplished woman, won't
> have any trouble adding "guilt" to her full emotional plate of
> uncertainty, grief, disillusionment and crushing public humiliation.
>

> Dr. Laura, the Dark Ages called. You're overdue on dungeon duty.http://i70.photobucket.com/albums/i91/nonnie9999/movies/eyesoflaurama...


> []
> []
> [] Business: Wendy McCaw history
> Business: Tuesday, May 06, 1997
> $1.3 Billion Mccaw Split: State's Biggest Divorce Case -- Lawyers
> Could Make Millions As Dividing The Couple's Estate Becomes An

> Industry In Itselfhttp://archives.seattletimes.nwsource.com/cgi-bin/texis.cgi/web/vorte...


> Thomas W. Haines Seattle Times Business Reporter
> []
> Brady On Media
> 'Front Page' Revisited

> James Brady, 07.27.06, 6:00 AM EThttp://www.forbes.com/2006/07/26/james-brady-on-media-cx_jb_0727mccaw...


> There hasn't been a screwball comedy this sweet about the newspaper
> biz since Hecht & MacArthur first staged "The Front Page." And this
> one is set not in big cities but in a lovely seaside town in
> California.
>
> If you've never seen Santa Barbara, you're missing something--nice,
> vaguely Spanish architecture sloping down to the golden Pacific
> beaches from green uplands, splendid homes, a charming downtown, tall
> palms and rich evergreens. It seems to have everything: the hot sun,
> cool breeze, verdant growth and--until about yesterday--one of the
> best small daily papers in the country, the News-Press, with one
> Pulitzer and a collection of California general excellence awards.
>
> There's even Fred C. Dobbs, one of my favorite watering places (I hope
> it's still there), named for Humphrey Bogart's sour, grasping and
> memorable character in The Treasure of the Sierra Madre. But at Santa
> Barbara's very good local paper, the amateurs have taken over, and the
> children are running the sandbox.
>
> Maybe you've been following the
> []
> Media
>
> Citizen McCaw
>

> Film in search of an end - 'McCaw' documentary not completed yethttp://www.pacbiztimes.com/index.cfm?go2=articles/wk_031708e


> March 17, 2008
> A sequel is already in the works for a documentary about a Santa
> Barbara billionaire newspaper co-publisher whose former editors and
> reporters are lionized in the film, which draws its name from the
> Orson Welles movie "Citizen Kane."
>
> ** Wendy's sister ♥ the first Citizen McCaw documentary
> Attorney said "It's water off Wendy back." and

> "It was written to pander to willing supplicants."http://blogabarbara.blogspot.com/2008/03/pandering-supplicants-what-e...

lc

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Stephanie Salter: What do we call a woman betrayed? Whatever we want
By Stephanie Salter The Tribune-Star
Once again, events remind us (some of us, anyway) that there is no
female equivalent of the word "cuckold."

Funny, huh? Everyone from preachers to psychotherapists can tell us
that men cheat on their wives and girlfriends at a far more fervent
rate than women cheat on their men. The fallen Democratic governor of
New York is only the most recent fellow to add his high-profile name
and low-life anecdotes to this nearly infinite body of empirical data.
[]
Mar 13, 2008 2:08pm ET
http://mediamatters.org/items/200803130003?f=h_latest
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Schlessinger again blamed wives for their husbands' behavior

Summary: On Hannity & Colmes, responding to criticism of remarks
she made on Today, including, "[W]hen the wife does not focus in on


the needs and the feelings, sexually, personally, to make him feel

like a man ... he's very susceptible to the charm of some other woman
making him feel what he needs. And these days, women don't spend a lot
of time thinking about how they can give their men what they need,"
Laura Schlessinger reiterated that wives of "most men who cheat"
"haven't been respecting" their husbands.
[]
In Defense of Dr. Laura's Comments about the Spitzers
http://www.bloggernews.net/114524
Posted on March 17th, 2008
[]
Prostitution, politics and Pop-psychology
Spitzer scandal summons debate
http://media.www.easttennessean.com/media/storage/paper203/news/2008/03/17/Viewpoint/Prostitution.Politics.And.PopPsychology-3272175.shtml
Drew taylor 3/17/08
[]
THE BRIDGE: Cheatin' Ass Men
http://www.eurweb.com/story/eur41809.cfm
By Darryl James March 18, 2008
[]
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Sex studies disagree with Spitzer defenders
http://www.cleveland.com/living/plaindealer/index.ssf?/base/living-1/1205483521190120.xml&coll=2
Friday, March 14, 2008 Margaret Bernstein
[]
It's All Silda Spitzer's Fault
http://news.aol.com/political-machine/2008/03/11/its-all-silda-spitzers-fault/
By Denise Williams Mar 11th 2008 11:44PM
[]
Busted for standing by her man
http://www.news.com.au/dailytelegraph/story/0,22049,23372380-5001030,00.html
By Kara Lawrence March 14, 2008 12:00am
SHE is bright, attractive, and has the misfortune to be married to a
politician who has been busted going to a prostitute.
[]
On Fair Weather Friends
http://cornellsun.com/node/28790
Bedroom Eyes March 13, 2008 - 12:00am
From the sheer volume of, um, feedback my last column generated, it
looks like opinions are fairly polarized when it comes to sex during
menstruation. To each his or her own -- but hey, even if you only
bothered to sit down at your keyboard for the sole purpose of letting
me know that I'm a "SLOPPY HO," at least I succeeded in prompting you
to talk about leak week sex ... suckas.
[]
Spitzer scandal has own soundtrack
http://www.variety.com/article/VR1117982453.html?categoryId=2525&cs=1
Dupre becomes MySpace sensation overnight
[]
BOOK REVIEW Media Queered: Visibility and Its Discontents
http://www.windycitymediagroup.com/gay/lesbian/news/ARTICLE.php?AID=17835
by Yasmin Nair 2008-03-19
[]
Breaking: New York Governor to Resign
http://www.bostonmagazine.com/blogs/boston/2008/03/12/breaking-new-york-governor-to-resign/
MSNBC reports that New York Gov. Eliot Spitzer will announce his
resignation at 11:30 a.m. press conference, although the timing is
fluid.
[]
Women at fault for men's infidelity?
http://www.baxterbulletin.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20080312/UPDATES01/80312001/1002/NEWS01
[]
Dr. Laura: Spitzer Cheated Because His Wife Failed Him
http://shakespearessister.blogspot.com/2008/03/dr-laura-spitzer-cheated-because-his.html
| posted by Melissa McEwan | Tuesday, March 11, 2008
[]
Viewers: Quit twisting Dr. Laura's words, Mr. Schram
http://www.komotv.com/features/kenschram/16682326.html
Curt Russel: "... Typical liberal, you take a snapshot of what is
said and take it out of context."
..........
IT'S YOUR FAULT, NEVER LAURA'S !!Curt Russel: !!!!!!!!!
http://i70.photobucket.com/albums/i91/nonnie9999/movies/eyesoflauramars2.jpg
ADVICE TO DIE FOR
http://bp2.blogger.com/_0qTU784XP0M/RtcnWyxyxEI/AAAAAAAABeg/rxS7LIdqvGI/s1600-h/Dr+Laura+VT+shooter+advice.jpg
[]
SHOCKING! "Dr." Laura BLAMES
IF NOT THE DEVIL, DID ATHEISM MAKE HER DO IT? "DR. LAURA" FIGHTS
NUDIE PICS ON THE NET ..
http://www.atheists.org/flash.line/atheism4.htm
Radio's maven of morality had a fling on the side while
married ... and left behind the evidence which is now on the internet.
Should "Dr. Laura" be blaming atheism for her personal indiscretions
and peccadillos? Posted: November 9, 1998

On Mar 19, 11:29 am, lc <lol7...@msn.com> wrote:
> "When, then, makes for marital happiness? What do men need? In an
> earlier book, The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands, Dr. Laura
> advises wives to reinforce men as head of the household, to resist the
> lure of feminist ideology about equality, and to celebrate difference.
> Adoration of and deference to a husband will yield a wife far more
> power than direct challenge. Equality is a turn-off. Inequality is
> sexy."
>
> Eliot Spitzer's Fall from Grace: Reflections from a Feminist

> Perspectivehttp://swoplv.wordpress.com/2008/03/19/eliot-spitzers-fall-from-grace...


>
> []
> Power Couples vs. Husbands As Heroes
>
> Some feminists might be disheartened at what the Spitzer scandal
> reveals about the possibility of egalitarian marriage, or peer
> marriage. (We considered the plight of "Desperate Feminist Wives" in a
> prior column.)
>
> Presumably, those third-wave feminists who view heterosexual marriage
> as part of their life plan envision a marriage free of the sort of
> gender subordination of earlier generations; in short, they assume
> they will be able to have a peer, or egalitarian, marriage. Last year,
> the new magazine 02138, featured Eliot and Silda Wall Spitzer on the
> cover of its "Power Couples: See What Happens When Harvard Meets
> Harvard" story. Love between equals can work, and even be fun and
> sexy, the story and accompanying photos seemed to announce.
>
> But last week, a different formula for happy marriage was offered by
> none other than Dr. Laura Schlessinger, who, to the astonishment of
> her host on the NBC Today Show, laid the problem of Governor Spitzer's
> cheating - and of men's cheating, in general - at the door of Silda
> Wall Spitzer and any other wife who failed to make her husband feel
> "like a man, . . . like a success, . . .like her hero," so that he was
> "very susceptible to the charm of some other woman." Schlessinger
> purported to hold women "accountable" for not giving "perfectly good
> men" the love, kindness, respect, and attention they need, charging
> that "these days, women don't spend a lot of time thinking about how

> they can give their men what they need...." (Dr. Laura's diagnosis seems

> > muahhttp://bp2.blogger.com/_0qTU784XP0M/R7_IDBsdJ9I/AAAAAAAACkk/dZQAXdTNp......

> ...
>
> read more >>

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