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Graham J Weeks

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May 15, 2000, 3:00:00 AM5/15/00
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I have on my url,
It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to open your
mouth
and remove all doubt .
-- George Eliot

but a reader sent me

Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and
remove
all doubt.
Abraham Lincoln (also attr. Confucius)

So is it madam GE, Abe of the ancient sage?
--

Graham J Weeks
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Robert M. Wilson

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"Graham J Weeks" <wee...@dircon.co.uk> wrote in message
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> I have on my url,
> It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to open your
> mouth
> and remove all doubt .
> -- George Eliot
>
> but a reader sent me
>
> Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and
> remove
> all doubt.
> Abraham Lincoln (also attr. Confucius)
>
> So is it madam GE, Abe of the ancient sage?

cf:

Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that
shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding. -- Bible, 'Proverbs'
17:28.


Dave Kifer

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May 15, 2000, 3:00:00 AM5/15/00
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Graham says...

>
>I have on my url,
>It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to open your
>mouth
>and remove all doubt .
>-- George Eliot
>
>but a reader sent me
>
>Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and
>remove
>all doubt.
>Abraham Lincoln (also attr. Confucius)
>
>So is it madam GE, Abe of the ancient sage?

I'm going to add to your problems, since I have it as:
"It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a
fool than to open it and remove all doubt."
-- Mark Twain (1835-1910)

Dave [p&e]
"Tam multi libri, tam breve tempus!"
(Et brevis pecunia.) [Et breve spatium.]


Glenn Knickerbocker

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May 27, 2000, 3:00:00 AM5/27/00
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Searching on George Eliot, I found this quote attributed to a Silvan
Engel. Anybody have a clue who that is? All I've found in searching for
that name is the same quote--with identical wording and punctuation--on
four (apparently) unrelated sites:

http://cyber-nation.com/victory/quotations/authors/quotes_engel_silvan.html
http://cheshire.net/~chuckn/tim/quotes.htm
http://www.cyberquotations.com/quotes2.htm
http://qlink.queensu.ca/~6ceb3/library/MFQ.txt

> It is better to be silent, and be thought a fool,
> than to speak and remove all doubt.

Not a single hit on "Silvan" and "Engel" in any library catalog I've tried
(including LoC). Is this just an experimental memetic mutant quotation
virus?

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"They must be mad. They sing choruses in public!"

On 15 May 2000 00:00:00 GMT, Robert M. Wilson wrote:
>"Graham J Weeks" <wee...@dircon.co.uk> wrote in message
>news:39206F93...@dircon.co.uk...

>> I have on my url,
>> It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to open your
>> mouth
>> and remove all doubt .
>> -- George Eliot
>>
>> but a reader sent me
>>
>> Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and
>> remove
>> all doubt.
>> Abraham Lincoln (also attr. Confucius)
>>
>> So is it madam GE, Abe of the ancient sage?
>

Glenn Knickerbocker

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Jun 27, 2000, 3:00:00 AM6/27/00
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Trying this one again, not content to remain silent:

Searching on George Eliot, I found this quote attributed to a Silvan
Engel. Anybody have a clue who that is? All I've found in searching for
that name is the same quote--with identical wording and punctuation--on
four (apparently) unrelated sites:

> It is better to be silent, and be thought a fool,
> than to speak and remove all doubt.

Not a single hit on "Silvan" and "Engel" in any library catalog I've tried
(including LoC). Is this just an experimental memetic mutant quotation
virus?

Since last month, it's shown up on lots more sites, again always with the
exact same wording and punctuation:

http://geocities.com/~spanoudi/quote-11a.html
http://www.zenda.demon.co.uk/cookie
http://www.andrew.cmu.edu/~bigmike/quotes1.txt
http://www.andrew.cmu.edu/user/pm3u/jokes/quotes
http://www.utahcard.com/magazine/reference/quote_line/wisdom/
http://home.planetinternet.be/~smitsr/quotes/wisdom.html
http://www.mail-archive.com/ccquotations%40onelist.com/msg00052.html
http://variant.tierranet.com/quotes/mquotes_misc_d.html
http://www.4degreez.com/quotes/quotes_misc.mv
http://www.angelfire.com/ny/cyberquotes/quotes2.html

Plus a bunch with the usual Lincoln variant:

> Better to remain silent and be thought a fool
> than to speak out and remove all doubt.

http://www.angelfire.com/wv/healthywealthywise/quotesa.html
http://www.kniskern.com/Robin/Words/good_quotations.htm
http://www.sleepwalker.net/quotes/index.php3?p=quotes&keyword=&source=&cid=wisdom&last=&flags=&offset=80&limit=20
http://www.tuvy.com/entertainment/coolquotes/wisdom/wisdom_5.htm
http://home.uchicago.edu/~cwwu/quotes.html

saying that Lincoln was quoting Silvan Engel. But still not a word about
who this Engel was!

ŹR http://www.bestweb.net/~notr/dreams.poems.html / "Hush!
They sing choruses in public. That's mad enough, I think."


Graham J Weeks

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Glenn Knickerbocker wrote:

> Trying this one again, not content to remain silent:
>
> Searching on George Eliot, I found this quote attributed to a Silvan
> Engel. Anybody have a clue who that is? All I've found in searching for
> that name is the same quote--with identical wording and punctuation--on
> four (apparently) unrelated sites:

snip

Does anyone anywhere cite any source to prove the attribution?

Obquote

Mary had a little lamb,
It's fleece was white as snow.
She took it to an abatoir
The rest I'm sure you know........

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Christopher Brown

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Graham J Weeks <wee...@dircon.co.uk> wrote in message
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>
> Glenn Knickerbocker wrote:
>
> > Trying this one again, not content to remain silent:
> >
> > Searching on George Eliot, I found this quote attributed to a Silvan
> > Engel. Anybody have a clue who that is? All I've found in searching for
> > that name is the same quote--with identical wording and punctuation--on
> > four (apparently) unrelated sites:
>
> snip
>
> Does anyone anywhere cite any source to prove the attribution?

I've looked ... and looked ... and ... well, I've never found any sort of attribution
for Lincoln, or Eliot (the two more popular choices).

Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that shutteth his
lips is esteemed a man of understanding.

~ Hebrew Bible, Proverbs 17:28

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Glenn Knickerbocker

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Jun 27, 2000, 3:00:00 AM6/27/00
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On Tue, 27 Jun 2000 07:35:17 +0100, Graham J Weeks wrote:
>Does anyone anywhere cite any source to prove the attribution?

Of course not! Otherwise there wouldn't be this wild goose chase. George
Eliot is almost certainly wrong; this sentiment runs directly counter to
her inquisitive nature. I was hoping this name Silvan Engel might lead to
a source, but I haven't found it anywhere except in these two forms of the
quotation. So the question is: Was there really a Silvan Engel, and
where do we find his or her writings?

ŹR "People late for work only deal with the essentials, cutting away
uneccesary tasks like Occam's Razor with no time to shave." --oTTo-- Bahn


Christopher Brown

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Glenn Knickerbocker <No...@bestweb.net> wrote in message
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> On Tue, 27 Jun 2000 07:35:17 +0100, Graham J Weeks wrote:
> >Does anyone anywhere cite any source to prove the attribution?
>
> Of course not! Otherwise there wouldn't be this wild goose chase. George
> Eliot is almost certainly wrong; this sentiment runs directly counter to
> her inquisitive nature. I was hoping this name Silvan Engel might lead to
> a source, but I haven't found it anywhere except in these two forms of the
> quotation. So the question is: Was there really a Silvan Engel, and
> where do we find his or her writings?

Not the Library of Congress apparently. I just did a search there with no luck.

(*stretching for an ObQuote ...*)
"An ounce of action is worth a ton of theory."
~ Friedrich Engels, quoted in: Reg Groves, The Strange Case of Victor Grayson
(1975)

Morgan Lewis

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Jun 28, 2000, 3:00:00 AM6/28/00
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Christopher Brown wrote:
>
> Graham J Weeks <wee...@dircon.co.uk> wrote in message
> news:39584B24...@dircon.co.uk...
> > Does anyone anywhere cite any source to prove the attribution?
>
> I've looked ... and looked ... and ... well, I've never found any sort
> of attribution for Lincoln, or Eliot (the two more popular choices).
>

Pick somebody who's quoted a lot. Lincoln, Twain, Franklin, anybody.
Five'll get you ten that *somebody* has mistakenly attributed this quote
to them. I have absolutely no idea who actually said it, which is why I
have it currently under "anonymous" on my page. :)

> Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that
> shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding.
> ~ Hebrew Bible, Proverbs 17:28
>

Hmm.. well, that might be what it's derived from. So at least we're
making some progress. :)

ObQuote:
SOCRATES (469 B.C.-399 B.C., Philosopher)
1. True knowledge exists in knowing that you know nothing. And in
knowing that you know nothing, that makes you the smartest of all.
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Richard Harding

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Jul 9, 2000, 3:00:00 AM7/9/00
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I had always thought it was Wilde:

Better to say nothing and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove
all doubt.

RH

Glenn Knickerbocker wrote:
>
> Trying this one again, not content to remain silent:
>
> Searching on George Eliot, I found this quote attributed to a Silvan
> Engel. Anybody have a clue who that is? All I've found in searching for
> that name is the same quote--with identical wording and punctuation--on
> four (apparently) unrelated sites:
>

Glenn Knickerbocker

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On Sun, 09 Jul 2000 03:09:42 GMT, Richard Harding wrote:
>I had always thought it was Wilde:
Interesting. I've never heard it attributed to Wilde, but searching
on the two of them together I found it attributed to Groucho Marx at:
http://www.louisville.edu/~edmean01/quotes.html

ŹR Time is not my friend, time is a relative.
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Frank Lynch

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Glenn Knickerbocker wrote:

> On Sun, 09 Jul 2000 03:09:42 GMT, Richard Harding wrote:
> >I had always thought it was Wilde:
> Interesting. I've never heard it attributed to Wilde, but searching
> on the two of them together I found it attributed to Groucho Marx at:
> http://www.louisville.edu/~edmean01/quotes.html

And today I saw it attributed to Johnson at
http://www.geocities.com/Area51/Corridor/3379/quote.html
And I checked the CD-ROM and no, it's not him.
Regrettably a date on the site suggests it hasn't been updated in nearly
two years, so I doubt I'll be able to get this one cleaned up.

And today I also ran across another non-Johnson (as opposed to Don
Johnson), but attributed to him: "The man who would go to sea for
pleasure would go to hell for a pastime." And this from a boating page
that is now two and a half years old...

However, we do know that Johnson starred in a 50's TV show with Boswell
called The Highland Roamers; Johnson was a bus driver and lived upstairs
from Boswell and would yell out the window and tell Boz to get up here
etc and then lecture him on why he would never amount to anything, how
Bos had drank too much the night before etc

Frank Lynch
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The Samuel Johnson Sound Bite Page is at:
http://www.samueljohnson.com/

Eric Arnett

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"Glenn Knickerbocker" <No...@bestweb.net> wrote in message
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> Trying this one again, not content to remain silent:
>
> Searching on George Eliot, I found this quote attributed to a Silvan
> Engel. Anybody have a clue who that is? All I've found in searching for
> that name is the same quote--with identical wording and punctuation--on
> four (apparently) unrelated sites:
>
Long ago I pulled this quote from this news group (were talking like 8 years
ago)

It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool, then to open your mouth
and remove all doubt.
- Mark Twain


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Glenn Knickerbocker

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Jul 16, 2000, 3:00:00 AM7/16/00
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On Sat, 15 Jul 2000 00:25:04 -0400, Eric Arnett wrote:
>Long ago I pulled this quote from this news group (were talking like 8 years
>ago)
>
>It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool, then to open your mouth
>and remove all doubt.
>- Mark Twain

Which is probably incorrect, as are most attributions to Twain, Churchill,
or Berra.

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alohacyberian

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It's an old Yiddish expression predating Twain. KM

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Glenn Knickerbocker

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On Sun, 16 Jul 2000 07:53:39 GMT, alohacyberian wrote:
>It's an old Yiddish expression predating Twain. KM

Now THAT sounds likely. Got documentation?

"I believe the children are our future: nasty, brutish and short."
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Reginleif the Valkyrie

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Glenn Knickerbocker wrote:

> "I believe the children are our future: nasty, brutish and short."

> --The Onion

Quite off-topic, that reminds me...

http://www.theonion.com/onion3625/harry_potter.html

Devout Christians might find a few of the "quotations" offensive. Or
maybe same quotations will confirm what they'd known all along.


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trying to persuade Satan to give back Faust's soul.
-- J.A. Hill, friend of mine, speaking about his co-workers, email of
July 27, 2000


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Glenn Knickerbocker

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Still looking for clues on this one. Both versions have spread a little
more since June, but I've still found absolutely no other references to
someone named Silvan Engel.

"I believe the children are our future: nasty, brutish and short."

ŹR / http://www.bestweb.net/~notr/engel.html \ --The Onion

On Tue, 27 Jun 2000 05:43:38 GMT, I wrote:

>Trying this one again, not content to remain silent:
>
>Searching on George Eliot, I found this quote attributed to a Silvan
>Engel. Anybody have a clue who that is? All I've found in searching for
>that name is the same quote--with identical wording and punctuation--on
>four (apparently) unrelated sites:
>

>> It is better to be silent, and be thought a fool,

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