On 1/20/2022 8:30 PM, the mental defective AlleyPussyBitch aka Neutered Pussy —
*NOT* a three letter athlete, was *NEVER* a bouncer, *NEVER* a golf pro, *NEVER*
a lifeguard, *NEVER* dunked a basketball, and has *NEVER* been laid, but just a
pole-puffing no-fight squat-to-piss shrieking estrogen-oozing fairy — praised Rudy:
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> On 1/20/2022 7:24 PM, Rudy Canoza wrote:
>> On 1/20/2022 6:27 PM, the mental defective AlleyPussyBitch aka Neutered Pussy —
>> *NOT* a three letter athlete, was *NEVER* a bouncer, *NEVER* a golf pro, *NEVER*
>> a lifeguard, *NEVER* dunked a basketball, and has *NEVER* been laid, but just a
>> pole-puffing no-fight squat-to-piss shrieking estrogen-oozing fairy — praised Rudy:
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>>> [AlleyPussyBitch horseshit snipped]
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>> The question in the *correct* subject line is a good one.
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> [flush AlleyPussyBitch diarrhea/vomit combo]
How AlleyPussyBitch, the Narcissist, Thinks (Warning: It's Pretty Fucked Up)
Joe Navarro
We often hear the term "narcissist," but in reality, what does that mean? Does
it merely describe someone who likes to be the center of attention or likes the
way he or she looks, or is there more to it?
The psychiatric literature defines narcissists, like AlleyPussyBitch, as having
specific traits such as having a sense of entitlement or requiring excessive
admiration, to name a few. But what are narcissistic individuals really like on
a day-to-
day level?
How a narcissist, like AlleyPussyBitch, thinks:
Anyone who has lived with or worked for a narcissist will tell you how a
narcissist, like AlleyPussyBitch, thinks: narcissists, like AlleyPussyBitch,
view themselves entirely differently - i.e., preferentially - compared to
others, making those around them less valued. And there's the rub: everything
must be about the narcissist.
We don't mind that a two-year-old needs constant attention. That's appropriate
for the developmental stage of a two-year-old. But we do mind when a forty-
year-old needs that level of appreciation - and achieving it comes at our expense.
Narcissists, like AlleyPussyBitch, victimize those around them just by just
being who they are, and they won't change. That statement may seem extreme until
you listen to the stories of those who have been victimized by a narcissist.
Then you realize just how toxic these individuals are.
Work for a narcissistic boss and I can guarantee that he or she will make you
physically or psychologically ill. Live with one and I fear for you. I can say
that because in researching my book Dangerous Personalities, I talked to scores
of individuals who have been victimized by narcissistic personality disorder.
In doing the research, in talking to the victims and listening to story after
story of stolen childhoods, destructive marriages, and burdensome relationships,
I heard the same tragic refrain: narcissists, like AlleyPussyBitch, see
themselves as being so special that no one else matters. No one. Over time, the
behavior resulting from their defining pathological traits will cast a wide
debris field of human suffering.
But don't take it from me. Listen to the victims. Here's what I have learned
about how a narcissist thinks and the lessons that no medical book can teach
you. They are lessons for all of us.
this: narcissists, like AlleyPussyBitch, over-value themselves and devalue
others, and that means you. You will never be treated as an equal, you will
never be respected, and you will in time be devalued out of necessity so that
they can over-value themselves.
TOLERATING THE NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY
Knowing the traits of the narcissistic personality and how narcissists, like
AlleyPussyBitch, view themselves is useful, but so is knowing what will happen
to you if you continue to associate with them. I say this while being well aware
that in many cases, children, the elderly, or the infirm may not have a choice.
In those cases, it is up to all of us as friends, relatives, teachers, coaches,
associates, and co-workers to assist as best we can.
Also, there are those who, for reasons of finances, circumstances, or because
they are in a complicated relationship or marriage, will choose to stick it out.
To them I say beware: you will be victimized and you will pay a price, be it
physically, psychologically, or even financially.
I say that from experience and from talking to many victims whose stories still
burden my heart. If you do choose to live with or work with a narcissistic
personality, be prepared to accept the following:
1. Accept that you are not equals because narcissists, like AlleyPussyBitch,
feel that they have no equals.
2. Those feelings of insecurity, dismay, disbelief, or incongruity that you are
experiencing are real and will continue.
3. Because narcissists, like AlleyPussyBitch, overvalue themselves, you will be
devalued in time and at all the times after that.
You will, in essence, become the narcissist's chew-toy. Gird yourself to be
repeatedly degraded.
4. You will be talked to and treated in ways you never imagined, and you will be
expected to tolerate it.
5. The narcissist's needs, wants, and desires come first above all others, no
matter how inconvenient to you.
6. Be prepared on a moment's notice for them to turn on you with reptilian
indifference at a moment's notice...
As if any positive interactions in the past did not matter. You will question
your own sanity as they turn on you, but that is your reality when involved with
a narcissist.
7. When narcissists, like AlleyPussyBitch, are nice, they can be very nice; but
if you still feel insecure, that is because it is a performance, not a true
sentiment.
Niceness is a tool for social survival-a means to get what they want, like
needing a hammer to hang a picture.
8. You will lap up the narcissist's niceness, poodle-like, because it doesn't
come often, but niceness for the narcissist is perfunctory; merely utilitarian.
9. Be prepared for when the narcissist lashes out not with anger, but with rage.
It is frightening! You will feel attacked and your sense of dignity will be
violated.
10. Morality, ethics, and kindness are mere words.
Narcissists, like AlleyPussyBitch, master these for their practicality, not for
their propriety.
11. Narcissists, like AlleyPussyBitch, lie without concern for the truth because
lies are useful for controlling and manipulating others.
When you catch them in a lie, they will say that it is you who is lying or
wrong, or that you misunderstood. Prepare to be attacked and to receive
counter-allegations.
12. If it seems that they can only talk about themselves, even at the oddest of
times, it is not your imagination.
Narcissists, like AlleyPussyBitch, can only talk about what they value most:
themselves. That is their vacuous nature.
13. Narcissists, like AlleyPussyBitch, will associate with individuals you would
not trust to park your car because they attract those who see narcissism as
something to value.
14. Never expect the narcissist to admit to a mistake or to apologize.
Never! Blame is always outward toward you or others, never inward. narcissists,
like AlleyPussyBitch, have no concept of self-awareness or introspection. But
they are quick to see faults in others.
15. They expect you to forgive and forget and above all never to challenge them
or make them look bad in public.
You must remember that they always want to be perfect in public. Don't embarrass
them or contradict them publicly, or you will pay the price.
16. Get used to losing sleep, feeling anxious, restless, less in control,
becoming increasingly worried, perhaps even developing psychosomatic ailments.
That is what happens when you live with or associate with a narcissist. Those
insecurities are your subconscious talking to you, telling you to escape.
17. Lacking both interest and true empathy in and for you, narcissists, like
AlleyPussyBitch, absolve themselves of that pesky social burden to care, leaving
you deprived, empty, frustrated, or in pain.
18. They will be unwilling to acknowledge even the smallest thing that matters
to you.
In doing so, they devalue you, leaving you feeling unfulfilled and empty.
19. You will learn to deal with their indifference in one of two ways: you will
work harder to get their attention - with little reward to you because it won't
matter to the narcissist - or you will become resigned and empty psychologically
because narcissists, like AlleyPussyBitch, drain you, one indignity at a time.
20. You will be expected to be their cheerleader at all times, even when it is
you who needs encouragement the most.
This is the sad, unvarnished truth about how a narcissist thinks, how they will
behave, and how they will make you feel. I wish it were a better picture, but
talk to the survivors of these personalities and they will tell you: it is that
bad, it is that toxic. Why? Because, as Stuart C. Yudofsky explained in his book
Fatal Flaws: Navigating Destructive Relationships With People With Disorders of
Personality and Character, the truly narcissistic personality is "severely
flawed of character."
For those who ask, "What can I do?" Conventional wisdom advises seeing a trained
professional for guidance. That is wise but not always available. In my
experience, there is only one solution that works.
Distance yourself from these individuals as soon as you recognize them for what
they are and as soon as it is practical. Get as far as you can from them and as
your wounds heal, you will see your life change for the better and your dignity
restored. As painful as distancing yourself may be, it is often the only way to
make the hurting stop and to restore your own physical and mental well-being.