It wasn't until she explained to her dad, after her and her partner
gotten engaged her great wish that she could be with her on this once
in a life time occasion. That he had suggested to her, that she would
wear her mother's wedding dress if she wants to. Because they had
keep it in storage, because they didn't want to get rid of it. With
my help, it took her months, a lot of swear and guts on her part to
loose enough weight to be able to fit in to the dress.
Since just before the wedding, we haven't been in contact. So I don't
know if she will be back for further help in the future or not. So
for the time being I am on the search again for a female who is
requiring help to achieve some or all of their goals in their life.
Because I believe that everybody need goals in order to make something
of them selves. If this is something that you believe in then please
carry on reading.
What I am looking for is a female to own and help out online. I have
had quite a bit of experience in the past with helping out females
online to achieve their goals. These range from giving up smoking,
losing weight, limiting sexually pleasure etc. But with some of them
that I have taken on, I have been unsuccessfully in achieving some or
all of there goals. Partly my fault, partly there’s. I could go in
to the different reasons and excuses for this. But over time I have
helped more people to achieve their goals, then not. And with some
even coming back at a later time, for further help.
Over time, with each new female that I take on to help out, I am
founding myself growing as a person and learning new stuff about
myself and also fine tuning and even learning new techniques that I
can use in the long term.
What I am looking for is an online female to take on, and hopefully
help you to achieve you goals. This could be anything from giving up
smoking, losing weight, eating correctly, limiting sexually pleasure,
miss treating others, better management and organisation skills, money
problems, advancing in work, getting a job and sticking to it.
Basically anything that you would like to achieve, but know that you
can't do it by yourself without any help or support?
The basic system of which I do use is a reward/punishment system. If
you have been good you will be award with either points, of which you
can trade in at a later date for a reward. The rewards will be
something that we both would come up with and agree to. If I feel you
have earned a reward, you may buy one from the list if you have got
enough reward points.
But the types of rewards that I have used in the past that I have used
have included, allowing to eating food that is otherwise off the
approved list, sweets, going out somewhere, having a day off from
exercise, free range of sexually pleasure, buying a item of clothing
that you really want etc.
If you have been naughty or bad, then you will be punished in a
suitable manner. I have find in the past that different people
responded to different types of punishments differently. At first it
will be trail and error on my part to find what works with you and
what don't.
The types of punishments I have given out in the past to females can
and have ranged from wearing smaller or even no underwear under there
clothes, humiliating them in front of others by telling them that they
lied, making the follow through with there lie, self spanking (on
cunt, tits, ass etc), removing there rights like showering in only
cold water, making them eat only food I want or even making them eat a
item of food that they won't allowed until they are at the point of
throwing up, doing extra exercise etc.
These can only be as good, if the other person have told me and
explained to me why they had done that action or even not completed a
action that was given to them. To the point where I am pleased with
their explanation of the reason why they did what ever they did to
deserve the punishment. If they cannot understand the reason, then
how can we both work towards changing your views and actuated to
achieving your goals? But as I have said, everybody is different. So
what might be a punishment for one person is not a punishment for
another.
One of my favourite methods of keeping process of how well you are or
aren’t doing is by making you keep a journal along with other types of
evidence. The journal will involve regular contact through email so
that we both are able to keep up to date with your goals and how far
away you are from achieving them.
Please note, I will only be responding to females who I feel have
shown me that they are worth my time in the first email. I have had my
full of time wasters in the past, people who wasn't 100% committed to
this, thinking this is a joke etc. So it would all depend on your
first email to me on whether I am going to consider contacting you for
further information or not at all. So to help me out, the type of
thing I am looking for in the first email to save time for both of
us. It should included information about yourself, what goals you
would like help with, what experiences you have had in the past trying
to achieve them, what do you think made you fail to achieve them, how
badly do you want to achieve some or all of the goals, what you would
do to achieve them if possible etc? Please note this isn't an over
night cure, it is going to take time. Especially for me to find, the
correct balance to make it possible for you to achieve them.
So if you are interested then my email address is the...@gmail.com