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John

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Jan 30, 2000, 3:00:00 AM1/30/00
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If that sounds like your scene,and your not into "vanille"sex we got over
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Looks like strangling Is still more popular than hanging for "auto erotic
sexual asphyxia" for us guys.
Here are the latest results from:
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The question was?
What is your "favorite" method of Asphyxia,whether practiced or fantasy.

Choices Votes % 111 replies
strangle with bare hands 26 23.42%
strangle with leather gloved hands 5 4.50%
strangle with belt 0 0.00%
strangle by cord or light rope 4 3.60%
sleeper hold 7 6.31%
pressure to arteries with fingers behind adams apple 3 2.70%
asphyxia with plastic bag, 14 12.61%
asphxyia with kitchen film 0 0.00%
strangle by fabric, tee shirt ,scarf, towell ,tie 2 1.80%
asphxyia with rubber hood or mask 0 0.00%
hand over mouth 2 1.80%
gloved hand over mouth 4 3.60%
asphyxia with head held under water 2 1.80%
strangle with latex or surgical gloved hands 0 0.00%
asphyxia with duct tape over nose and mouth 1 0.90%
hanging 34 30.63%
temporary asphyxia using chemicals or drugs 0 0.00%
extreme weight on chest 0 0.00%
hogtied with noose around neck attached to ankles 3 2.70%
gas masks 1 0.90%
asphyxia using full rubber or latex suit 1 0.90%
super glue nostrils and lips.cool if you got a death wish. 1 0.90%
other. 1 0.90%
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Queer

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Nov 12, 2014, 5:51:16 AM11/12/14
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I know your website is gone, or at least, I was unable to access it. It would be interesting to take this same survey today! Maybe it's my age, that the extreme method of hanging while deadly, doesn't have the same concerns with me as it did when I was younger. When I was younger, I was a little on the risky side, and accepted the consequences. Now, I don't care about the consequences.

Asphyxia Player

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Nov 22, 2014, 8:48:09 AM11/22/14
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It would be interesting indeed! While times have changed, they haven't changed all that much. What I have picked up on is that guys, whether Gay or straight, who engage in asphyxia activities, are far more extreme these days. I took a lot of chances when I was younger and nearly lost my life numerous times. Younger guys today take way more chances than I did! It isn't uncommon to read about some guy in his late teens or early twenties who "died suddenly at home". Translation: He was an asphyxia game player and accidentally hanged himself. Not the worst way to die, for sure! And, given the mind set of an asphyxia player, they view it as a sexy death. It is sad when one of these young guys does accidentally hang himself. Someone my age though, not really that big of a deal. If I am accidentally hanged until I'm dead, oh well! David Carradine was 13-years older!
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Gay And Kinky Ashley

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Sep 21, 2022, 12:44:24 PM9/21/22
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I've sort of been laid up, so I sometimes spend time perusing through some of the more "erotic" groups for topics of interest. That was when I came across this article about, well, share I say, hot, sexy alternatives to vanilla sex, especially around Gay vanilla sex.

The first thing I have to say, the date this was posted, I was 15 years old, but only 5-months from my 16th birthday. Cool! Add to that, I had been sexually active with my boyfriend, and two other boyfriends, for about 19-months. Sex was only vanilla maybe two or three times! The rest, well...

Some of the choices listed on this survey were things I was already doing, and I'm still doing. I had been strangling myself with a belt for more than 3-1/2-years, was being strangled (bare hands) by my boyfriends as we made out, and even during sex, but mainly, one thing I was doing that was obviously dangerous, I was hanging myself, and had been doing so for over 2-1/2-years.

The thing I found interesting form the survey is that nobody chose "strangled with a belt", which was my favorite method for being strangled. In fact, belt strangulation is still my favorite method for strangulation. The next thing I found interesting is the statement that strangling is still more popular than hanging for auto erotic play. Yes, if you add up all the strangulation methods listed, they are more popular. But individually, hanging is the most popular. It's my most favorite method! I love the feel of the noose strangling me as I dangle fully suspended by my neck! It always drives my orgasm over the top! Yes, I've had close calls with almost dying several times. And I've also suffered a lot of injuries to my neck. But I still do it! The other point about hanging is that, when I hanged myself in my teen years, the possibility of dying was a concern, though not enough to make me stop. As I got older, I'm 38 now, it's not as much of a concern. In fact, I even embrace it! The only points about hanging is that, I've always been careful with the knot placement. I find it most comfortable with the knot about half-way between either my left or right ear and the back of my neck. Also, I do have to be careful with the amount of slack I leave in the rope. I try to tie the rope off so there is little if any slack, but the rope I use (a 3/4-inch cotton rope) has quite a lot of stretch, but the total slack is minimal. Last, I try to be as careful as possible stepping off the stool I use, so as not to give my neck too much of an impact, and so as not to cause the stool to tip over. If it were to tip over, I hope I don't look too bad when my body is found!

I agree with what the previous two posters said, that it would be interesting to do this same survey today and do it by ranking. For me, hanging would obviously be my number one method, followed by, in preferential order, strangle with belt; strangle with fabric (scarf); strangle with cord or light rope; strangle with bare hands; strangle with leather gloved hands; and last, strangle with latex or surgical gloved hands. One method that I tried a couple of times but didn't like was asphyxia with head held under water. While I was nearly drown twice this way, both times with my entire body submerged a couple of feet below the water's surface, and while it did feel hot, it wasn't something I would do again!

Yes, I would love to have some of those guys get their hands on my throat!

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Queer Senior

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Jun 18, 2023, 9:29:13 AM6/18/23
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Why have vanilla sex when you can add a little kink to spice things up! Besides, a little kink never hurt anyone. For me, my answer to the question, "What is your "favorite" method of Asphyxia practiced?", I would have to list my top five favorite Activities, in order, (1) hanging (fully suspended); (2) strangled with a belt; (3) strangled with a scarf; (4) strangled with latex or surgical gloved hands, and (5) strangled by bare hands.

The survey is very interesting, and as has been mentioned, I don't think things have changed all that much since this survey was taken more than 23-years ago. I do think the embracing of extremism has greatly increased, especially among Gay guys, that guys into asphyxia are far more extreme and take way more chances, too often resulting in someone accidentally hanging himself. After all, there are a lot worse ways to die! In addition, isn't doing something that gives you such a sexual high while greatly increasing the possibility of death part of the turn-on?

I know that it's my second personal preference, but I'm surprised that nobody chose to be strangled with a belt. I started out strangling myself with a leather belt when I was in my very early teens, and when I met the love of my life and became sexually active when I was 18, being strangled with a belt during a hot sexual encounter became a very important part of both foreplay and especially penetration. The one thing about the love of my life, he was also into being strangled with a belt. Having a belt looped around my neck and pulled tight to strangle me as I'm being penetrated makes penetration so heavenly! I can be penetrated hard and deep with a single hard thrust! What's surprising is that I've found guys open to accommodating my fetish. Is it a real problem that I can't enjoy having a guy shove his cock into my ass unless I am being strangled? I don't think so!

My most favorite method still is to be hanged. I first experienced the erotic pleasure derived from being hanged fully suspended by my neck when I was 14-years-old. That was such a risk for me as back when I was a teenager, I was extremely suicidal, and often thought about not stepping back onto the chair I stepped off to suspend myself by my neck. Being hanged fully suspended by my neck while my partner is enjoying my throbbing cock in his mouth drives my own orgasm over the top. Unfortunately, about six years ago, I was engaged in a hot encounter with a guy, and as I started to go, he pushed the stool away. The instant I became fully suspended and the noose tightened to the max around my neck, I felt a crack in my neck and excruciating pain that was concentrated in my upper neck, which lasted for a couple of days. A month later, it happened again, only that second time, the excruciating pain lasted several days. After it happened a third and fourth time, leaving me with excruciating neck pain that was lasting for weeks that unfortunately forced me to give up the pleasure. Oh well, being strangled with a belt looped tight around my neck is just as pleasurable and sexy.

Someone mentioned David Carradine. As I write this, I am exactly four years younger than Mr. Carradine was when he accidentally hanged himself. So, at my age, if I were to accidentally go too far, get careless and hang myself until I was dead, oh well! Plus, as I indicated, my neck has begun to weaken, so I've developed the strong possibility of me breaking my neck. Again, if it were to happen, oh well! And yes, I'm one of those guys who looks at death by either hanging or strangulation as a very sexy death even if my death when I'm hanged was due to my neck breaking!
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