Yoni (pronounced YO-NEE) is a Sanskrit word that is loosely translated
as "Sacred Space" or "Sacred Temple." In Tantra, the Yoni is seen
from a perspective of love and respect.
The purpose of the Yoni Massage is to create a space for the woman (the
receiver) to relax, and enter a state of high arousal and experience
much pleasure from her body. Her partner (the giver) experiences the
joy of being of service and witnessing a special moment. Some massage
and sex therapists use it to assist women to break through sexual
blocks or trauma.
The goal of the Yoni massage is not orgasm. Orgasm is often a pleasant
and welcome side effect. The goal is simply to pleasure and massage the
erotic areas. From this perspective both receiver and giver can relax,
and not have to worry about achieving something. When orgasm does occur
it is usually more expanded, more intense and more satisfying. Orgasm
is allowed to happen or not happen.
The giver does not expect anything in return. The giver simply allows
the receiver to enjoy the massage and to relax into herself afterwards.
Of course, other sexual activity may follow but it is entirely the
receiver's choice. This perspective builds greater intimacy and trust,
and will greatly expand your sexual horizons.
Although orgasm is not the goal of the massage as outlined above, many
women are surprised to reach their first orgam during massage. With
proper technique, many will experience a series of ever more intense
orgams, culminating in whole body orgasms of tremendous energy. This
is called riding the wave. Many women learn to become multi-orgasmic
through this technique.
This massage allows the release of pent up sexual energy, allowing it
to be redirected to other creative areas, or to be dissipated. There
are some slight differences in the manner the giver does the massage
depending on what direction the receiver wishes the energy to take.
There is no charge for this service. There is nothing expected in
return.
I only ask the following of receivers.
1. They must be 18 or over. If they appear that they could possibly be
under 18, then I will demand proof of age. There is no maximum age.
2. They must be clean.
3. They must be discreet.
4. They must be willing to relax and allow themselves to sink into a
state of pure enjoyment.
In return I will agree to be professional, clean, caring, discreet,
gentle, and willing to do whatever I can to allow the receiver to enjoy
herself to the fullest extent possible.
Q. Is intercourse part of the massage.
A. No it is not. The massage is a giver receiver relationship, where
the giver gives pleasure, attention, and energy to the receiver.
Intercourse involves giving and receiving by both partners, and thus
can lead to the woman experiencing some feeling of violation if the
give/receive ratio is out of balance.
Q. How long will it take.
A. Most women are fulfilled in about an hour. Add an aditional half
hour to that to allow recovery to where you can function normally.
Q. Can I bring a friend.
A. Yes. The friend must be willing to not interrupt the sesssion. If
the friend is also wanting a massage, add another hour to the time, as
massages cannot be given properly to more than one receiver at a time.
Q. Why is this posting anonymous?
A. Many women will not respond to a post of this nature intially unless
they can do so anonymously. If I did not post in this manner, they
would not be able to reply anonymously.
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