On Tuesday, August 10, 2021 at 3:35:32 AM UTC-4, Kenny McCormack wrote:
> In article <6a72a9e0-85db-4ac6...@ .com>,
> Lenona wrote:
> ...
> >relatively new adjective is very much needed. Namely, the former group spends
> >thousands of dollars trying to HAVE children, but the latter group *saves*
> >thousands of dollars by not having them. What more proof does anyone need?
>
> FTFY
>
To be fair, I don't know how much money the average childfree woman spends on birth control in a lifetime, or what sterilization costs if her insurance doesn't cover it. (Obviously, it costs far less than raising a kid!)
But...and this is pretty important - preventing unwanted pregnancies is harder than people realize. Why? Because, first of all, even the Pill has a real-life failure rate of 6%, according to the Alan Guttmacher Institute. (Of course, that includes human error.) So, a woman and her doctor have to figure out which two contraceptives she can use simultaneously that are affordable AND safe. (Plenty of women can't use hormones, and the IUD can be scary, for good reasons.)
Second, a woman has about 30 years of fertility. So, even if she wants two children, and, between age 20 and 50, has sex once a month on average, she still has to prevent pregnancy well over...300 times. With that in mind, is it really any surprise that half of all pregnancies are still unplanned? (Before the Pill, one could argue that unplanned pregnancies didn't officially exist at all, because it wasn't quite civilized for married couples to talk about them - they were just supposed to learn to love any extra children they found themselves having. After all, "if you didn't want children, why did you marry in the first place?")
On top of that, many women over 50 can still get pregnant - but they mistakenly assume they don't need birth control at that age. (In the same vein, I've heard that STDs are rampant among people that age.)