Post Script: Life began anew when naturalist's famous husband died
By MELISSA WOOD, The Virginian-Pilot
Š February 19, 2003
VIRGINIA BEACH -- Freda Gibbons spent 30 years nurturing her husband's
career.
Then it was her turn.
He was wild-foods author Euell Gibbons, who found celebrity with his
campy 1970s TV commercials that compared Post Grape Nuts cereal to
``wild hickory nuts.''
Freda Fryer Gibbons, who didn't mind being the folksy naturalist's
wife but didn't want to be known as his widow, died of pneumonia Feb.
3 at age 89.
She was 34, teaching school in Hawaii in 1947, when she fell for the
charming, rugged, Texas outdoorsman, once so poor he'd foraged to
survive.
After marrying, Freda encouraged him to write about natural living.
Together, they camped, lived on wild foods, experimented with recipes.
Her delicate pen sketches of plants illustrate some of Euell's books.
The couple joined the Quakers in the 1950s but Freda was also drawn to
the teachings of Edgar Cayce, founder of the Association for Research
and Enlightenment. She longed to move near the ARE's Virginia Beach
headquarters, but Euell wasn't interested.
In 1976, after Euell's death, Freda bought property at the end of 68th
Street, at the ARE's back door. She said in a newspaper interview that
she finally felt free to lead her own life.
On the lot, Freda contracted to build a 1,500-square-foot solar
dwelling, the first of its kind in the city. Workers piled 50,000
pounds of rocks at its base to hold the collected heat.
Within, the strong-minded, handsome woman with penetrating brown eyes
lived a life as spare and uncluttered as her lanky, 5-foot-8 frame,
said her friend Susan Davis.
``She was frank, honest, tactless, wonderful,'' Davis said.
Her one luxury was a baby grand piano. She paid no attention to
fashion, hung crystal prisms that danced rainbows across the floors,
subscribed to the ``Mother Earth News.''
She prayed and meditated, said friend Genny Jacobs, for hurricanes to
veer away, for peace.
There were glimpses of her whimsy, too.
Once, said Jacobs, firefighters responded to her smoke alarm for an
unknown reason. Freda stayed seated at her baby grand, playing ``Smoke
Gets in Your Eyes.''
She remained loyal to natural foods, as well. As she told a reporter
in 1979, ``The best thing to do with crabgrass is eat it instead of
paying good money to poison it.''
Euell Gibbons died as a result of liver cancer, despite all the natural
diet, herbs, & similar. I firmly believe "you don't go until it is your
time", as my father (died at age 89, the same as Mrs. Gibbons) often said.
Therefore, I'm gonna continue a reasonable diet of fries, burgers, and such
<g>. Seriously, I feel that "moderation" is the best approach in diet and
in all other affairs of life. I do eat *what I like* _but_ include a good
amount of fruits (oranges, grapes, pears, etc) and vegetables (carrots,
beans, broccoli, asparagus, etc).
Just an observation.