On Tuesday, May 3, 2022 at 1:23:58 PM UTC-4, A Friend wrote:
>
> Lenona wrote:
> >
> > Robertson said, in part:
> >
> > "There is nothing that says you should marry a virgin...the fact that
> > somebody has had a little experience isn't necessarily a bad
> > thing...if she happened to have an encounter with someone she was
> > deeply attracted to, get over it."
> I'm glad to find that Robertson is not being hypocritical, as his
> girlfriend was pregnant when he married her.
>
> The guy who wrote that letter, OTOH, is three kinds of jerkwad.
As I told a certain conservative columnist, a while back, many
people don't realize a few things about the last half-century that
are unlikely to change any time soon.
1. For multiple economic reasons, it doesn't make sense for many
to marry before age 30 or sometimes even 40. (Especially if you
both want to be loan/debt-free first, live in a safe neighborhood, AND be
financially prepared for the more likely disasters in life - such as
crippling car accidents.)
2. Hardly anyone waits for sex that long. Those who do wait till 30,
gay or straight, are assumed to be either asexual or just plain unpopular.
3. If there's anything young men are scared of today, it's the horrors
of divorce court.
4. Therefore, no sensible man will marry a woman barely out of her
teens - or anyone over 25 or so who has never done more than kiss
another person. Marry an asexual person and you'll likely soon be in...
divorce court. (The same goes for those who marry people with
hidden debts.)