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1...@reader1.panix.com>, danny burstein
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dan...@panix.com> wrote:
> I, of course, remembered [Seedman's] comments about Kitty Genoese,
> which to my surprise had been completly ignored by the media when the
> crime occured.
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> - In his book, "Chief!" (with the exclamation point), he pointed out
> that Kitty had been one of those "L" word types (and I don't mean
> librrrrrls), and that one key part of the investigation was focused
> on a lovers' spat.
Infamous '64 murder lives in heart of woman's `friend'
It became a nation's shame: Kitty Genovese was viciously slain, and
though many heard or saw, no one helped. Her gay lover recalls their
life, her grief.
March 12, 2004|By Jeff Pearlman, Tribune Newspapers. Newsday.
NEW YORK ã At the time, they were "friends"--in quotes. It's how you
would explain two women living together back in 1964, when blacks were
still trying to establish civil rights and the idea of gay marriage was
as comprehensible as a man landing on the moon.
Sometimes, if they accidentally let their guard down in public, Mary Ann
Zielonko and Kitty Genovese would exchange a loving glance, maybe even
grasp hands for a second or two. Then, quickly, they would stop.
Now, looking back at two young lovers through senior citizen eyes,
Zielonko measures her adoration for Genovese in numerous ways. Love was
their regular Monday night sojourns to Grede's, a club where they would
drink beer and listen to folk music. It was Wednesday evening meals at
Hofbrau, the German restaurant down the block. It was the late-night
chats and the intimate kisses and the idea that here is a person you can
spend your life with.
In the end, love was identifying a body.
Forty years later, Zielonko is still haunted by the vision of Catherine
"Kitty" Genovese, her partner in life, dead on a table in Queens General
Hospital.
"It is something," she says softly, "that stays with me."
To millions of Americans, the name Kitty Genovese represents anything
but love. Her death was a story of apathy and selfishness, of what
results when people ignore the terrified shrieks of a woman being
murdered.
In the early morning of March 13, 1964, Genovese, a 28-year-old bar
manager getting off work, was walking toward her apartment in the quiet
Kew Gardens section of Queens. She spotted a man on the opposite side of
a parking lot and began to walk swiftly toward her home. From behind, he
attacked, stabbing Genovese repeatedly until she was dead. The man,
29-year-old Winston Moseley, also raped Genovese. No one came to her
aid.
Alone, the crime was yet another scary moment in scary New York City.
But two weeks after the slaying, The New York Times reported that while
38 neighbors had either heard or witnessed the attack, not one had acted
to help.
The case became infamous, and four decades after her death, Kitty
Genovese is remembered not so much as a human being but as a cultural
catch phrase for inexcusable indifference. Yet to Zielonko, Genovese is
alive. She is still standing there, in the Manhattan bar where the two
first met on an early spring day in 1963, running a hand through her
short brown hair while taking a drag from the end of a Camel cigarette.
Genovese was a talkative woman with big brown eyes, an infectious giggle
and a tiny gap at the tip of her two front teeth, and the 25-year-old
Zielonko was smitten. Within a week, Zielonko found a note taped to the
front door of her Upper West Side apartment:
"WILL CALL YOU AT THE STREET CORNER PHONE BOOTH AT 7. --KITTY G."
That night, they agreed to meet at Seven Steps, a gay bar on Houston
Street. Zielonko says Genovese told her she was once married to a man,
but the marriage was annulled once she came to grips with her sexuality.
Zielonko was Genovese's second relationship with a woman.
"We just hit it off," Zielonko recalled. "We meshed. I'm very quiet, and
she talked a lot. We both had struggles with our sexuality, as did many
people back then. We had a quick bond."
It was Zielonko's first serious relationship. For two weeks, they lived
in a motel room while seeking a permanent address. Then they lucked upon
82-70 Austin St., a one-bedroom apartment above a Kew Gardens pub, Old
Bailey's Bar.
For a year--"one of the happiest years of my life," Zielonko said--the
two lived together. Genovese managed Ev's 11th Hour, a sports bar, while
Zielonko tended bar at Club Chris.
"We would usually both work days," Zielonko said. "So we would spend our
nights together."
Now 65 and retired from her job building submarines for Electric Boat in
Groton, Conn., Zielonko confessed that her memory flickers from time to
time. The once-vivid images of Kitty have yellowed like a stack of old
newspapers. But she giggled like a schoolgirl remembering Andrew, the
miniature poodle Genovese gave her. Her mind flashed back to visits with
Genovese's since-deceased parents in New Canaan, Conn. Officially, in
the home of Vincent and Rachel Genovese, two old-school Catholics, Mary
Ann was Kitty's "friend."
"But I think her mother knew," Zielonko said. "She was always very nice
to me."
On the night of March 12, 1964, Zielonko went with a friend to a bowling
alley. She got home around 11 p.m., then fell asleep. A knock on the
door woke her the next morning. It was two police officers, asking
Zielonko to accompany them to the hospital.
"I was in shock," she says, softly. "Just ... shock."
A few days later, Zielonko attended Genovese's funeral in New Canaan,
where, she said, the family refused to acknowledge her. "I think it was
because of our lifestyle."
For the next six months, Zielonko said, she locked herself in the
apartment, alternating between crying and drinking.
"I kept to myself and grieved," she said. "Finally, I knew I had to get
on with my life."
That October, she moved to Brooklyn. A year later, Zielonko resumed
dating. She took a job as a teletype operator and at nights attended
Brooklyn College. She has a bachelor's degree in social work and a
master's in statistical analysis. Retired since 1997, she lives in West
Rutland, Vt., with her partner of 3 1/2 years.
Zielonko said that over the years she has tried to reach out to the
Genovese family, but with little success. Genovese's siblings declined
to talk to a reporter.
With the passing of time, Zielonko was able to leave most of the pain
behind. But come March 13, Kitty Genovese's name is inevitably evoked.
Zielonko's thoughts are always the same: What would 68-year-old Kitty
Genovese look like? Where would she live? Would they still be together?
Would they at least be friends?
"I think Kitty would probably own a bar," Zielonko said. "And I think
she would be happy." A pause. "We would both be."
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