1. someone who starts liking music to be cool
2. some one who does not respect the roots of the music that they listen to.
3. someone who embodies the culture but ends up just skimming the surface
of it.
those, obviously are not *THE RULES* on what a poser is, but they might
clarify a few things. i'll admit i wan't born punk or ska i was a little
wet baby that yelled alot, then i grew up to be a 12 year old trendy, i
listened to the comercial stations (from alternative to metal to rap). i
never thought that there was anything other than these things, it just
never entered into my. i started listening to punk and later ska to be
like some "cool" kids in my school. i admit that i was a poser, this is
something that all these people refuseto admit, the fact that they were
posers!!! this is a generalization but its true. the difference is that i
didnt dress up in a bomber jacket with pins and patches of bands that i had
never seen or heard in my life. i took the cautious route i went to shows
and just looked at what was in the stores and just bought what i liked. my
journey ends in the present, i'm alot wiser and respect the roots of ska
even if i dont necessarily listen to the music that represents the 1st or
2nd wave.
alex
I think that the term "poser" comes from the fact that people "pose" as
something they would like to be but are not. The way I see it is that
people who pretend to be something they are not and try to project a
certain image of themselves deserve the disrespect those pretentions
inspire in others. However, most of the time people have no way of
knowing if the person they think is a poser really is or not. Sometimes
it's obvious (one example that I've mentioned here before was the group
of kids yelling "Hep! Hep! Pick It Up!" during the Bosstones) but many
times it's only speculation. I don't think this is a good reason to
insult people you don't know or exclude them from some "scene" that you
percieve, but they do exist and people SHOULD try and be what they are
and try to BECOME what they want to be instead of faking it. Geno, I
wouldn't consider you a poser because you obviously have a love for the
music and don't try to present yourself as anything other than a fan of
the music you love. I agree that all the arguing about posers is dumb
but I also am disgusted by people who don't just follow the crowd, but
act like they lead it as well.
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Darren Pakravan
d-pak...@nwu.edu
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From what I know of you, you don't follow the crowd AND act like you
lead it too, so I wasn't trying to come down on you for anything. I
guess my main point is that there are different degrees to how much
people think for themselves or, conversely, let others do their thinking
for them. The thing is, I know WAY too many people who let others'
perceptions of them determine their actions. That's the kind of thing I
don't like. I wouldn't call all of those people "posers" or "trendies"
though, and I don't really care except when I notice someone acting so
preposterously that it makes me laugh out loud, and then I tell my
friends and they usually start laughing, too.