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We might compromise, Tom ( if such a thing is possible here) by
agreeing that maybe we both ( or we all , even ) have "security"
issues : That seems to be part of life in this crazy world these days.
One could easily question who the "bitter guy" is who hijacked the
thread, as you put it--- because , as a huge fan of the polka shows, I
was doing my usual thing , writing every week about how I l loved the
show and all of Mollie's work ( as do others ) ---When, also like
others, I ( unfortunately ?) ventured a couple of words of criticism
about one performance on the show , y o u took the whole thread away
from its usual upbeat, "Mollie B/RFD-TV all-stlye polka
theme into a sad , digression in which, you keep claiming, i.a. that
"German-style posts don't belong on POLKA sites" (discrimination that
few believe or indulge in) , parodies and many other musical styles
and themes ;are somwhow "off-limits/"verboten", too, and much more---
All of this is apparently related in some strange way to your
holstility towards me and/or to that old video which caused you to
react with such hostility at the time.
Since you go back to the records of our previous posts
( essentially a good practice : It's wonderful to have the truth of
everything available with one "mouse-click" to anyone who might be
interested in these odd issues) , I'd invite anyone concerened to
consider the following important truth which this site fortunately
shows, too: By clicking on any participant's "profile," you can
immediately see any and all of that person's contributions to this
site ever since it began: And in so doing, by looking at my "record",
you can see, for example, that , far from "imtimidating" people with
negative pposts, as you imply , virtually all my activity here
( =hundreds of posts ) over the years has been dedicated to promoting
polka music by ansering countless requests for lyrics, discussing and
explaining songs and their origins, exchanging and commenting on video
and band "finds" by myself and others, and , maybe most importrantly,
praising "to the slkies" everything that I ( "and many others", as you
put it ) love and cherish in polka music: I particularly love finding
special distinctions in many artists and groups which others may ( or
may not have ) thought of: Thus, I write on this site ( and beneath
relevant you Tube videos) of my huge admiration for four particular
polka figues ( some better, some less known) , such as John Gora, Gary
Sredzienski, Alex Meixner and M. Surratt, as my particular "polka
idols" in various ways ( which I explain); and mention repeatedly that
I admire both Alex M. and Hank Guzevich as perhaps the most dynamic ,
awesome instrumentalists in the field, cionsider John Gora the
greatest Polish singer and performer by far these days, consider the
Pan Franek group the best Polish-style trad/family style group with
the best female entertainers, Goral-style instrumentals, and more;
that I feel that Freeze Dried is the most awesomely versatile, multi-
cultural group in the field , ever ( which is thus perhaps best placed
to represent polka music to the nation and world as a whole) , that
the EFO group is "New England's hope" for keeping polka music alive as
a family/community affair --and both its music and human/community
connections are wonderful; that the Honky Express of Ohio is the best
newer/traditional style group out there and deserves much more
recognition --That Charlie Tansek's presence in the group makes it all
the greter and that Try G, with his wonderfully perfectionist,
traditionally authentic viocals and all his online work, too, for the
polka field are a real treasure ---------and much , much more. In
addition to that, I am fascinated with , and love sharing with the
field on this site, polka music's connections to other countries and
the entire world--and thus, I've explored its conenctions to France
( where I contact and report on, as do Verna M, Troy and others, too,
who are interested in the worldwide polka picture) the bands and
people who cherish this music there--as well as ( sorry German style
offends you agina) , the polka picture in Germany and its neighbors--
and this involves highlighting those great German/Austrian Swiss
groups, which I do toegether with Mike S and others -- and yes, we do
the same with groups from the Czech Republic, Lithuania, Slovenia,
etc. --In fact, anything imaginable to praise , love and giove
publicity to the whole "polka world --from Texas to South America ,
from Nebraska to Poland, from Florida to Brazil---Re Florida, I've
praised Joe Oberaitis's awesome voice, respect for the lyrics and
tradition and dynamic polaying style often---Interest in the
international polka scene has shown me ( and I passed it on here)
wonderfujl connections , and revelaed whole new "polka worlds " to us;
i.e the recent discovery that one of the Maestro's Men's songs was now
a polka hit in France ( How do I know foir sure? ---Because I wrote
the lyrics, haha--at Dennis's request for his melody) : This showed up
on a French video others and i noticed ---and in the comments below ,
a Brazilian wrote that this new song was now a hit in Brazil, too--
which led me to research the "Polish Brazilian " connection, where we
found videos showing a huge "Polish polka scene " there that has much
bigger, younger crowds tahn we do here---and others and I have made
friends with these people and been invited ( heopfully) to do a polka
tour there some day. Finally ( that should do for starters , anyway) ,
I've been a particular fan and supporter of the RFD polka TV shows ,
and this has led me to lead "write-in campaigns" to RFD to kee the
programs on the air ( as well as to coordinate petitions to Polish TV
stations encouraging them to offer some polka related programming by
leading polka artists who are "good in Polish") --- I supported Big
Joe to the end and have done the smae with Mollie B since the
begininng ( even dedicating a video/siong to her great talents and
achievements), as have many others, of course---I do consider it a
duty ( for the polka cause) as well as a pleasure to supportively
comment on the show and its content whenever I can ( like virtually
every "reviewer," volunteer or otherwise , in the "real world", I do
feel it my duty to be reasonably truthful; that is, to occasionally
mention when something is less than ideal -- Not to do so would
essentially amount to hiding the truth , or lying--That's an ever-
present danger in reviewing and in society, in general--It is
generally understood in society that "artists" shoul d live with this
fact , not take critisicm too seriously --and feel free to shrug it
off---rather than going ballistic over it). All of this has been a
"labor of love" for polka music over the years --and it has been, as
the "profile" record will show about 999.99% positive in tone--As well
as I can recall, I have only said a few words of criticism of
performances ( and in just a few words ) about three times in a total
of , again, hundreds of posts , over ten or so years.
And why do I do all this writing? ---Just, as Mike S. explained it
when someone asked him this question recently, because I love
discussing polkas ---and then, too, because I love supporting the
music and exploring it in this way--Not because I want to dominate the
field , bully others or intimidate them in any way--Anyone is
completely free to disagree any time they want, and many do. As for
the problem of not enough people posting , I think that things would
be much worse, and the polka sites much more dead and desolate , if a
few of us did not post as much as we do . ULsually , whenever there is
really interesting info , or when there are lively discussions, it is
because the saem very few ( 3-5 maybe ) people start them . I think we
all wish that more people would post more , refer us to more videos,
"discover/publicize" new bands, new venues, promising new musicians,
"cool" traditional old-timers, whatever...
Now, looking at your "profile" ( again, these things are great for
cutting through misperceptions, hype and "BS" and getting to the facts
of a situation: I wish I'd thought of this earlier as it might have
spared us much of this ), one will see ( as I thought and implied in
the last post) ----that you have apparently NEVER POSTED ONE SINGLE
POSITIVE WORD , EVER on any aspect of polka music , not one word of
praise of any artist or group ( except of course yourself and "your
group" =as part of your attack posts , when you always write how
popular and great you are and how "evil" your target is) : The record
shows, that , apart from one or two "neutral" one liners, the entire
"sum-total" of your posts on this site over the years has consisted of
two long, bitter attacks on me ( the first , in the "Palin" instance,
and the second, this week) .
I could of course resent this ( and already have : For my part, i
admit that one "hurt feeling" or bad word can lead to another and
that, in frustration with the resulting mess I said a couple words in
this exchange that I wish I hadn't said---Rather than continuing to
"pile it on " in a negative way, though, or play "tit for tat" , Tom,
i 'd rather "take the high road" for a change and use this to
challenge you , Tom, to do better: Because I know you can: You are a
fine musician, I know this , and every group you play in is much
better because of your work --I'll never take that statement back , no
matter what you think of or say about me. I also greatly enjoy the
performances of your whole family , which have contributed greatly to
recordings of groups that I love ( particularly the J. Gora group, one
of my all-time favorites) ---Being caught up in your work and problems
( as I am in mine) , you probably didn't realize this fact ( that you
could actually make a much more postive contribution online if you
chose---by praising some worthy musicians, shows, kids' performances,
videos, or whatever) : A few words of recgnitionand encouragement can
do so much ---yes, just as a few negative words can ( even
unintentionally) cause so much hurt---That's a dilemma we have to live
with--How to be positive and still truthful or somehow express the
occasional reservation or problem we have with a given performance,
style, person , or whastever--I think that's part of our human
dilemma, and as you can tell, I certainly haven't found the solution
to it all, either.
I hope this helps a bit, and wish you well : I would be so thrilled
if some good could come out of all this ---and even if not, hopefully
we can "agree to disagree" and let the thread get "less about you and
me, and more about Mollie B" again.
Sincerely, Joe R
PS: Just forgot to say that there seems to be some kind of
misunderstanding again when you say that I should get away from my
computer and come out and support polka music "which I never do" ---
Actually, I play polka music "out" with my group almost everty week
here ( as local people and clubs know---unless again, you don't count
this as "polkas" because it's German style -:(---but about 8/10 of
what we play is either polkas or waltzes...) ---and I support it,
too, by "leaving my computer" to see my favorite (Polish^) polka
groups, whenever I can, too ...