<steeles...@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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Well, you do have to keep in mind that this song is a work of art, not
an accurate biographical portrayal of what happened. I feel for
Jeremy's parents, but it seems to me that the song is just based
loosely on the actual Jeremy.
--Jett
If they really weren't to blame (and surely Eddie doesn't know if they
were), and the parents tried to stop the song, I think it really sucks that
Eddie still went on with it. He could have even changed the lyrics slightly,
omitting the parts about the parents.
It would be really hard for the parents to hear the song even if it didn't
say what it does about them as it would of course bring up memories. But to
have to hear it, and hear how it blames them must be awful. Even if some
blame was to be put on them, I'm sure they still loved the kid and it must
be awful for them if they ever hear the song.
On one hand, I agree. As a parent myself I can't imagine the incredible
pain Jeremy's parents must constantly feel at the loss of their son.
And to have the pain immortalized in a Number 1 pop song blaming you
would be unbearable.
However...
Eddie has made it clear that the song is based on two real life events.
It's quite possible that the other event that he too inspiration from
did have a lot to do with the parents neglect.
Either way, I'd guess that 99% of all songs are 'fiction,' or at least
the song writer's version of events (and what 'story line' works best
for any given song).
I'm not even sure if this is an issue anymore. I would think that the
parents asked Eddie and PJ to respect their family's tragedy, and when
PJ respectfully declined the parents went on with their lives.
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doug
I don't know.... I think this discussion don't worth it, anybody
really know the true and complete history of Jeremy?.... I don`t think
so... maybe in the time the song was written ... but now...
Seems the whole hurting and re-hurting the parents would have been
completely avoided had Ed simply changed the protagonist's name before
finishing the song.
Damn, talk about writing 101.
disi...@NOSPAMcomcast.net
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But, Ed didn't have writing 101, plus he had issues with parental
units in general. So, you end up with something like this, which I
don't think was put out to intentionally hurt anyone. Ed I don't
think knew all the facts; he went on an emotional hunch and came up
with a great song with unintended consequences--and life is just so
chock full of these.
I'm sorry for the family. And, I feel a certain sympathy for Ed. He
was being naive and, I'm sure, he thought true when he wrote the song.
--Jett