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Beavertown Box

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Oct 3, 2002, 4:58:51 PM10/3/02
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Hey all, I tried to post this once. It may come through twice.

Well, I think it's time to come clean. Although Sarah accused Linda on
this ng of being Davy's Mailbox , and on her own list she flip flopped
and told her members it was Renee, she was wrong, as always, about who
is who.

It's only me, Therra. I just had to... make fun of some of the
stupidity I was reading here. Actually for a normal fan it might be
kind of cute, taking photos of a mail box but it's kind of nutty in
this case. I wanted to inject some levity into what I saw as a real
doom and gloom time on AMM. Please know I was not making fun of the
average, starry-eyed Davy fan. I am one, myself.


I will say I greatly appreciated those of you who participated in the
fun and who wrote to , and chided, "Davy's Mailbox". Many of you
were downright hilarious. I LOVED it. You were great. I am dying to
know who House is. Will you 'fess up? You are perfectly delightful.
And Telephone? Want to speak up?

I just come around here on occasion to see the people I like, Gap and
Allie and Daye and Estrella and the other "sanies" as opposed to the
zanies. I don't hang much since the ng got ruined by the bad element.

Thanks everyone, for the last few days. You made it fun

xxoo,
Therra ( formerly...well, you know)

JanB

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Oct 3, 2002, 5:07:17 PM10/3/02
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"Beavertown Box" <davysm...@yahoo.com> wrote in message
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*APPLAUSE*

Good for you Therra!!!! I just mentioned that the mailbox was a riot!!!

JanB


§crat

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Oct 3, 2002, 5:14:48 PM10/3/02
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Therra, I had that figured out on the first post. They were funny
though.

On 3 Oct 2002 13:58:51 -0700, davysm...@yahoo.com (Beavertown Box):

Mind The Gap!

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Oct 3, 2002, 5:33:22 PM10/3/02
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> I will say I greatly appreciated those of you who participated in the
> fun and who wrote to , and chided, "Davy's Mailbox". Many of you
> were downright hilarious. I LOVED it. You were great. I am dying to
> know who House is. Will you 'fess up? You are perfectly delightful.
> And Telephone? Want to speak up?

i confess i was the house. i decide to flame 'beavertown box' because i
thought a certain individual might recognize themselves and see how silly it
all sounds. i enjoyed everyone who played along - and hope it helped to
lighten the tone around here a bit.

this is a good time to end it, as someone famous once said "we don't want to
run this thing into the ground".

therra, getting the mail will never be the same again! thanks for the
laughs, but did you have to be funnier than me? <g>

MTG
telephone?


JanB

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Oct 3, 2002, 5:42:37 PM10/3/02
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"Mind The Gap!" <mindt...@attbi.com> wrote in message
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> i confess i was the house. i decide to flame 'beavertown box' because i
> thought a certain individual might recognize themselves and see how silly
it
> all sounds. i enjoyed everyone who played along - and hope it helped to
> lighten the tone around here a bit.
>
> this is a good time to end it, as someone famous once said "we don't want
to
> run this thing into the ground".
>
> therra, getting the mail will never be the same again! thanks for the
> laughs, but did you have to be funnier than me? <g>

"APPLAUSE* to you too, MTG. Job well done.

JanB
>
> MTG
> telephone?
>
>
>
>


Davytelephone

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Oct 3, 2002, 5:49:39 PM10/3/02
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They say confession is good for the soul. I own up to DavysTelephone.

It was funny what Therra started--enjoyed it greatly.

Linda

Tunzter

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Oct 3, 2002, 6:01:55 PM10/3/02
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>Subject: Davy Drama - The Cast
>From: davysm...@yahoo.com (Beavertown Box)

>It's only me, Therra. I just had to... make fun of some of the
>stupidity I was reading here. Actually for a normal fan it might be
>kind of cute, taking photos of a mail box but it's kind of nutty in
>this case. I wanted to inject some levity into what I saw as a real
>doom and gloom time on AMM. Please know I was not making fun of the
>average, starry-eyed Davy fan. I am one, myself.
>
>
>
>
> I will say I greatly appreciated those of you who participated in the
>fun and who wrote to , and chided, "Davy's Mailbox". Many of you
>were downright hilarious. I LOVED it. You were great. I am dying to
>know who House is. Will you 'fess up? You are perfectly delightful.
>And Telephone? Want to speak up?
>
>I just come around here on occasion to see the people I like, Gap and
>Allie and Daye and Estrella and the other "sanies" as opposed to the
>zanies. I don't hang much since the ng got ruined by the bad element.
>
>Thanks everyone, for the last few days. You made it fun
>

Wait a minute....I"M THERRA....oops
.....I mean Spartacus.....No, wait a minute!

2nz
" Music is the mushroom on the dunghill of life."


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Davytelephone

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Oct 3, 2002, 7:00:50 PM10/3/02
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Sarah,

The simple matter of the fact is that you cann't handle the truth! Laura
Horrigan got herself into trouble and was busted by Peter and then banned! So
don't threaten anyone with your crap! I would strongly suggest you leave Therra
alone and myself alone before you fine yourself in deeper with certain people
then you care to be in!

Linda

Estrella

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Oct 3, 2002, 9:12:32 PM10/3/02
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Beavertown Box wrote:

> Hey all, I tried to post this once. It may come through twice.
>
> Well, I think it's time to come clean. Although Sarah accused Linda on
> this ng of being Davy's Mailbox , and on her own list she flip flopped
> and told her members it was Renee, she was wrong, as always, about who
> is who.
>
> It's only me, Therra. I just had to... make fun of some of the
> stupidity I was reading here.

((((Therra)))) How are you doing, you silly goose!!? Your
antics as Davy's mailbox was hilarious, I laughed my butt off.
Now I have to find a way to put it back on!! I haven't read anything
that funny on here for a long, long time. :)

>
> I just come around here on occasion to see the people I like, Gap and
> Allie and Daye and Estrella and the other "sanies" as opposed to the
> zanies. I don't hang much since the ng got ruined by the bad element.
>
> Thanks everyone, for the last few days. You made it fun
>
> xxoo,
> Therra ( formerly...well, you know)

Awww, feel welcome to drag yourself over here anytime
when you feel you can handle the baddies!! With all the identities,
I have on killfile, it feels like a nuclear winter on a.m.m.
I'm just keeping a vigil in hope conditions might get better. *shrug*

Stay cool, babe! :)

Estrella

==Daye==

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Oct 3, 2002, 9:16:27 PM10/3/02
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On 3 Oct 2002 13:58:51 -0700, davysm...@yahoo.com (Beavertown Box)
wrote:


>It's only me, Therra.

Hey Therra,

I was just thinking about you the other day. Glad to see you are back!


==Daye==
E-mail: brendana AT labyrinth DOT net DOT au

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T.

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Oct 3, 2002, 11:03:03 PM10/3/02
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> i confess i was the house.

GAP!!! NO way! You are hilarious. I almost died when I saw that Davy's
freaking house was flaming his Mailbox. The whole thing would have
gone nowhere without you.

> therra, getting the mail will never be the same again! thanks for the
> laughs, but did you have to be funnier than me? <g>

There's no way I'm funnier than you. I don't laugh at me. But I did
laugh at you, you bet.

I'm laughing now. You were the house!

T.

T.

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Oct 3, 2002, 11:07:47 PM10/3/02
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davyte...@aol.com (Davytelephone) wrote in message news:<20021003174939...@mb-cq.aol.com>...

> They say confession is good for the soul. I own up to DavysTelephone.
>
> It was funny what Therra started--enjoyed it greatly.
>
> Linda

Linda?! Who knew? I didn't expect that from you, girl. Thanks. You
don't usually play when it comes to David. Applause to you for going
along and being a sport.

T.

Jan

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Oct 3, 2002, 10:39:38 PM10/3/02
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"Mind The Gap!" <mindt...@attbi.com> wrote in message
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Damn! I had Therra the first post. But I was banking on Mark the Shark for
House. I'm impressed....

Jan


Jan

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Oct 3, 2002, 10:40:35 PM10/3/02
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"Davytelephone" <davyte...@aol.com> wrote in message
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> They say confession is good for the soul. I own up to DavysTelephone.
>
> It was funny what Therra started--enjoyed it greatly.
>
> Linda
>
Anybody who didn't know this one needs to hide in the closet....

Jan


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T.

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Oct 4, 2002, 5:49:29 AM10/4/02
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Estrella <pacDEL...@mailDELETEcity.com> wrote in message n

> ((((Therra)))) How are you doing, you silly goose!!?

Estrella! I'm doing well! I'm glad to venture over here and see you
are still standing. I was so happy when you joined the Mailbox
fray...no one can admonish quite like you! ( Well, Jan C is pretty
good).


Your
> antics as Davy's mailbox was hilarious, I laughed my butt off.
> Now I have to find a way to put it back on!!


LOLOLOL!! You could make a lot of money doing that. Some people
would pay to watch. I personally would pay to have mine hauled away
and replaced with a size 5.

> Awww, feel welcome to drag yourself over here anytime
> when you feel you can handle the baddies!! With all the identities,
> I have on killfile, it feels like a nuclear winter on a.m.m.
> I'm just keeping a vigil in hope conditions might get better. *shrug*
>

> Estrella

I was really missing some people during this romp....like d3 and Mark
The Shark, Donna, Lucy and others who, no doubt, would have added a
spark or two. Truly, I was SO happy to see you and Daye and Allie join
in - and a few people I didn't know ( like Tunzter and The Other One)
who obviously "got" it. Samantha was funny at baiting the objects (
and baiting Sarah) and some of her posts provided ideas. I giggled
when people started to take sides with either house or box.

Keep up the good vigil, Estrella. You are a stronger, wiser woman than
I.
( But we knew that)

T.

the other one

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"RegionalGirl" <sarahb...@girlofyourdreams.com> wrote in message news:<anig6...@enews2.newsguy.com>...
> <eg> I knew you were back into the picture somehow, Therra, so im going to
> tell you now that you have publically ADMITTED that you are all these people
> DO NOT start making false accusations against everyone else myself included,
> DO NOT start emailing me, dont start some shit on this newsgroup about Laura
> or anyone else again and most of all it would probably be better if you went
> back to keeping quiet again rather than trying to stir the shit some more.

>
>
> "Beavertown Box" <davysm...@yahoo.com> wrote in message
> news:c2921634.02100...@posting.google.com...

Ah... the point has been made - yet again! For Pete's Sake!! This
was fun, a really great laugh, except for those same old assholes that
have to trash everything in their path! GO AWAY!! Some of us like
the humor, know how to laugh, and how to play along. Some don't, but
seriously need to learn. Just don't do it on my time. It's short
enough as it is.

Mind The Gap!

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"Jan" <luvdav...@sccoast.net> wrote in message
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>
> >
> Damn! I had Therra the first post. But I was banking on Mark the Shark
for
> House. I'm impressed....
>
why thank you jan, i will take that as a compliment. i really enjoyed mark
the shark's posts.
it is a pity he isn't around, can you just imagine what he could have added?
MTG


Shoessuedeblues2

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Oct 4, 2002, 7:53:18 AM10/4/02
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Thank you. It was fun!

Linda


>inda?! Who knew? I didn't expect that from you, girl. Thanks. You
>don't usually play when it comes to David. Applause to you for going
>along and being a sport.
>
>T.
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Shoessuedeblues2

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Oct 4, 2002, 7:55:58 AM10/4/02
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Jan
your disbain of me has gone on long enough. Stuff in your ear! As I know the
stories and such that you are spreading as they are getting back to me! You
are suppose to be an adult but act like a total jerk and a moron.


I feel sorry for anyone that is so insecure that you have to make others look
bad to make themselves feel good. She was behind that joke and that is that.
You didn't see the evidence or recieve the phone calls, so shut up.

Linda


>Anybody who didn't know this one needs to hide in the closet....
>
>Jan
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Mind The Gap!

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"T." <easywri...@yahoo.com> wrote in message
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>
> GAP!!! NO way! You are hilarious. I almost died when I saw that Davy's
> freaking house was flaming his Mailbox. The whole thing would have
> gone nowhere without you.

thanks, but that sassy mailbox just had to be put in her place <g>

> I'm laughing now. You were the house!

and don't let the mailbox forget it, the house has got friends remember?
remind her what the box on the post looks like now... <g>

i enjoyed it therra, i can see why you are a successful writer
MTG


Mind The Gap!

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i second that!
mtg
>
> T.


Mind The Gap!

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"T." <easywri...@yahoo.com> wrote in message
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>
> I was really missing some people during this romp....like d3 and Mark
> The Shark, Donna, Lucy and others who, no doubt, would have added a
> spark or two. Truly, I was SO happy to see you and Daye and Allie join
> in - and a few people I didn't know ( like Tunzter and The Other One)
> who obviously "got" it. Samantha was funny at baiting the objects (
> and baiting Sarah) and some of her posts provided ideas. I giggled
> when people started to take sides with either house or box.
>
> T.

i couldn't agree more therra, i was loving it when ppl starting getting it
and playing along.
i thought i was gonna die when sarah actually answered the box and house
tho. "i didn't go ON the lawn!" "i didn't touch the box, i only crouched
in front of it!" that was classic, flew right over her head.
mtg


JanB

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Oct 4, 2002, 10:01:38 AM10/4/02
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"T." <easywri...@yahoo.com> wrote in message
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> Thanks JanB , we aims to please!
> Remember what I said about posting about the Davy show once you get
> back. I can't go, but I want to know all the details. I've never seen
> him perform solo, unfortunately.
>
> Therra

I'll email you a day or two after I get back...

JanB


JanB

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"Jan" <luvdav...@sccoast.net> wrote in message
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> Damn! I had Therra the first post. But I was banking on Mark the Shark
for
> House. I'm impressed....
>
> Jan

I'm glad you said that, Jan. I thought I saw shades of Mark the Shark's
sense of humor in there too...whoda thunk? But I believe that Mark has also
moved on to that kinder, gentler private list.

JanB


Jan

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Oct 4, 2002, 7:07:34 AM10/4/02
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That's "disDAIN", idiot child....though I'm glad you recognized it for that.

Nobody is talking about you or spreading stories. I don't even like to
sully my brain to THINK about you. Your name makes my flesh crawl.

Jan

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Jan

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Oct 4, 2002, 7:09:00 AM10/4/02
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"Mind The Gap!" <mindt...@attbi.com> wrote in message
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If I might say so, he would have added about exactly what you did. And I'm
betting he's lurking around.

jan
>
>


DiJean

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davysm...@yahoo.com (Beavertown Box) wrote in message news:<c2921634.02100...@posting.google.com>...

> Hey all, I tried to post this once. It may come through twice.
>
> Well, I think it's time to come clean. Although Sarah accused Linda on
> this ng of being Davy's Mailbox , and on her own list she flip flopped
> and told her members it was Renee, she was wrong, as always, about who
> is who.
>
> It's only me, Therra.


you were funny, but i'm suprised that you have had time to be davy's
*anything* with how *busy* youve been these days. Not that i even give
a shit anymore. you can do whatever the hell you want. i don't care.
just thought I'd mention....

Dijean

Shoessuedeblues2

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Oct 4, 2002, 3:57:44 PM10/4/02
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Name calling shows how immature you are! Bull, you are along with Sarah as
they get back to me with your name in them. Selective breeding should be in
your case.

Mark The Shark

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Oct 4, 2002, 11:54:31 PM10/4/02
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>"Jan" <luvdav...@sccoast.net> wrote in message news:<
>> Damn! I had Therra the first post. But I was banking on Mark the Shark
>for
>> House. I'm impressed....
>>
>> Jan

Mind The Gap wrote:

<<why thank you jan, i will take that as a compliment. i really enjoyed mark
the shark's posts.
it is a pity he isn't around, can you just imagine what he could have added?
MTG

JanB added:

<<I'm glad you said that, Jan. I thought I saw shades of Mark the Shark's
sense of humor in there too...whoda thunk? But I believe that Mark has also
moved on to that kinder, gentler private list.

JanB

No, I didn't contribute to this one, but I read it all, and it was great. All
of you did a great job! I've just been occasionally lurking lately. Though I
thought about jumping in. But you did a fine job, it was hilarious!

And thanks for the compliments. That really touched me.

As always,

MARK THE SHARK

Mark The Shark

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>"RegionalGirl" <sarahb...@girlofyourdreams.com> wrote in message
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>> <eg> I knew you were back into the picture somehow, Therra, so im going to
>> tell you now that you have publically ADMITTED that you are all these
>people
>> DO NOT start making false accusations against everyone else myself
>included,
>> DO NOT start emailing me, dont start some shit on this newsgroup

Fuck. Here we go again. They were having such a good time, some really classy
humor was being created and...well, forget it.

ruthie

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"Mind The Gap!" <mindt...@attbi.com> wrote in message news:<4%fn9.40091$PP.44382@rwcrnsc53>...


Thanks Therra, MTG ..for the laughs.. I haven't laughed reading AMM in....
hmmmmm....a long time! Bravo..

Ruthie

Jan

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Oct 4, 2002, 11:29:30 PM10/4/02
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"Mark The Shark" <marksh...@cs.comedy> wrote in message
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> >"Jan" <luvdav...@sccoast.net> wrote in message news:<
> >> Damn! I had Therra the first post. But I was banking on Mark the
Shark
> >for
> >> House. I'm impressed....
> No, I didn't contribute to this one, but I read it all, and it was great.
All
> of you did a great job! I've just been occasionally lurking lately. Though
I
> thought about jumping in. But you did a fine job, it was hilarious!
>
> And thanks for the compliments. That really touched me.
>
> As always,
>
> MARK THE SHARK

I knew you were out there in the shadows, Shark. I even think you might
have sent some telepathic input to the Mailbox and House saga.

Jan


Deidre

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Oct 5, 2002, 8:10:22 AM10/5/02
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On Fri, 4 Oct 2002 10:01:38 -0400, "JanB" <janb0...@yahoo.com>
wrote:

Why don't you post a review? You could do it here, on the mailing
lists, the Monkeeland board, and your own web site. <veg> Just a
suggestion.

Deidre

Deidre

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Oct 5, 2002, 8:16:32 AM10/5/02
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On Fri, 04 Oct 2002 12:40:32 GMT, "Mind The Gap!"
<mindt...@attbi.com> wrote:


>i couldn't agree more therra, i was loving it when ppl starting getting it
>and playing along.
>i thought i was gonna die when sarah actually answered the box and house
>tho. "i didn't go ON the lawn!" "i didn't touch the box, i only crouched
>in front of it!" that was classic, flew right over her head.
>mtg

As someone who has done some work with those who need therapy in the
past, would you say that usually fanatics lack a sense of humour, esp.
when it comes to the object of their obsession? I haven't read any
studies of such, but it's my humble observation that quite often
fanatics do seemingly lack a sense of humor. If you can point me to
any articles that might back up this idea, I would certainly be
grateful. Or if you know any studies of such.

Thanks,
Deidre

JanB

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Oct 5, 2002, 9:42:47 AM10/5/02
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"Deidre" <dei...@daydream.com> wrote in message
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> Why don't you post a review? You could do it here, on the mailing
> lists, the Monkeeland board, and your own web site. <veg> Just a
> suggestion.
>
> Deidre

I would...except that I find them boring to read, so I can only imagine how
boring it would be to write one...

JanB


T.

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Oct 5, 2002, 10:26:02 AM10/5/02
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>
> I knew you were out there in the shadows, Shark. I even think you might
> have sent some telepathic input to the Mailbox and House saga.
>
> Jan

I'd bet on it <g>.

T.

T.

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wasr...@yahoo.com (ruthie) wrote in message news:<

> Thanks Therra, MTG ..for the laughs.. I haven't laughed reading AMM in....
> hmmmmm....a long time! Bravo..
>
> Ruthie

Thank you, Ruthie. It was really fun. At this point, I needed to laugh
too. This group, as a whole, are really a lively, entertaining lot.
Many different personalities, for sure, but some really creative and
thoughtful types. You know who you are!

Therra

Mind The Gap!

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"Deidre" <dei...@daydream.com> wrote in message
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>
> As someone who has done some work with those who need therapy in the
> past, would you say that usually fanatics lack a sense of humour, esp.
> when it comes to the object of their obsession? I haven't read any
> studies of such, but it's my humble observation that quite often
> fanatics do seemingly lack a sense of humor. If you can point me to
> any articles that might back up this idea, I would certainly be
> grateful. Or if you know any studies of such.
>
i think in this case it was more a lack of insight than sense of humor.
sarah has shown remarkable inability to recognize her own behavior.
but in general i believe that the extreme fanatic does not see humor when it
concerns their object of affection. it is serious business for them. they
are on a mission so to speak. like any single minded pursuit it leaves out
the full spectrum of emotion. was the full spectrum there to begin with?
good question. another thing i have noticed is that the "love" seems to be
almost abusive as well, there is a desire to posess and control. we all know
the stories of fan obsessions that go too far.
i imagine some studies have been done, i don't know of any offhand. try
psychcrawler.com
interesting topic - fortunately most fans don't fall into this category.

anyone else with some thoughts?

Deidre

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Thanks for the insight and the web site search engine. A good friend
long ago came up with a name for these type of fans, after observing
Star Trek fandom for a few years. She calls them "single-interest
fans", and they can be found in any hobby or interest group, from dog
shows to Monday morning quarterbacks. She noted the total devotion to
the one and only hobby, and the upset that ensued when anyone dared to
make a joke about the interest or the obsession of that particular
fan. I'm always reminded that the dictionary shows that "fan" is,
after all, a backformation of the word "fanatic".

Deidre

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allie

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Very thoughtful post girlfriend. All I can think of is Will & Grace
the other night when Kevin Bacon says to Jack, "So, YOU'RE my
stalker," to which Jack replies, "I prefer professional crazed fan."
LOL!!!! I was "lucky" or "unlucky" enough to "enjoy" the fantasy
world for a very short while, but it still was a fantasy world. It
took me a little while longer than I would have liked for me to
realize this, but ultimately, I did.

easywri...@yahoo.com (T.) wrote in message news:<14585c71.02100...@posting.google.com>...
> MTG and Deidre have brought up some very good points, about life and
> "fan-dom" in general. Being a fan ( which originally came from the
> word fanatic anyway) of a performer is usually a very pleasurable
> experience, with the requisite enjoyment of their art, and usually a
> little fantasy -time thrown in. There's nothing wrong with it. I find
> that I am usually a fan of someone who speaks to my soul in some
> manner, someone who gets my attention and takes it off the mundane and
> everyday. The Monkees are easy to love ( I mean, how adorable were
> these guys on their TV show? Please...) and I well understand how much
> fun it is to be a fan of theirs. They really make people happy.
>
> When things get out of kilter in any situation like this is when the
> fan seeks some of sort of identity-connection with the object of
> affection and gets rebuffed. For someone to think a performer ( even
> one they may have spent a little time with) knows them "better than
> anyone in the world" is to establish a one-sided relationship that
> doesn't work. The performer DOESN'T know them bettter than anyone else
> does, and in fact, may not even care very much. It's a false , wishful
> notion on the fan's part. Nothing can be built on that. It's not real
> anyway. There's a lot of frustration when someone thinks they are
> vying for the attention of, say, a pop star, who in no way has the
> same agenda they do. They don't get what they want and treat it like
> it was a true relationship gone awry. It creates a chasm. It's a sure
> sign the fan has gone over the edge is when they start blaming people
> around the star ( instead of their own behavior) or other fans (
> instead of their own behavior) for the chasm. They can't fix this
> imaginary relationship, or keep it going, because they don't have a
> real connection with the star, not one that allows that kind of
> discussion. It's serious business to the deluded fan, hence no humor
> can penetrate, as Deidre and MTG noted. Casual (or even really
> devoted fans who are grounded) just don't do this. I have found that
> most celebs enjoy having "normal" fan friends but run away when the
> obsessive ones come in their orbit. Who can blame them?
>
> Being a fan is fun, and specifically to the Monkees, I see the guys
> enjoying their fans a great deal. They seem to really appreciate the
> turnout and support they get. I know they know many of their fans on a
> first -name basis, and love to see them at shows. THAT'S fun and
> enjoyable for all concerned. It's the other stuff, the
> he-loves-me-best and you'd-better-stay-away-from-my-Monkee that is
> just beyond the pale. What a waste of everybody's time.
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