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You’d think that when people break up with their boyfriends, girlfriends and/or spouses it would be over ‘end of story‘ and there would be a brand new start, new horizon and brand spanking new path looking quite attractive ahead of you. Perhaps, a few lucky ones feel this feeling of weightlessness and don’t go through any detachment withdrawals.
But most people feel a gravitational pull towards their ex’s. This is especially true if they haven’t been dating or found anyone they’re particularly drawn to. However, do you ever wonder why you still feel so drawn to someone you decided to break up with? It’s the unforeseen power your ex has over you. This is mainly a product of familiarity, feeling lonely and becoming nostalgic.
Chemical and psychological reactions go into play making your ex seem quite irresistible. Giving in to this feeling of euphoria triggered by an ex is often a big mistake.
What causes this euphoria for someone you broke up with?
Maybe you stumble upon his or her Facebook mug shot and you go into love limbo. Remembering all the good times, and questioning why you ever ended things. At this moment your ex is not looking or sounding too shabby at all on the contrary you might feel an overwhelming need to see him/her.
When you’re single and seeking a relationship, sometimes you start day dreaming of what could be but other times you just begin repainting the past in your mind leaving all the negativity out. This fills a void. This kind of thinking will make you feel and all in love and giddy again over your ex. Naturally, overwhelming feelings such as these can be mistaken for something more.
When this happens you need to come back to reality and ask yourself, truly, why did the relationship end to begin with? You must consider this very seriously before you make any rash decisions and go back into a relationship that was not healthy. Not only will you be returning to a doomed relationship but you’ll be robbing yourself the opportunity of meeting someone you might really like and be drawn to.
How to fight the temptation your powerful Ex has over you?
Obviously you can’t trust yourself when you’re in close proximity to your ex. You need reinforcement. A friend that perhaps, with a clearer view of the big picture can fill you in on how the relationship really use to be and how ugly things really got. This may dispel the trance you find yourself in. Detailed reminders of the ugliness of a relationship will slowly kill this need and euphoria you feel for your ex.
You see, sometimes when you think it’s over, it really isn’t. It lingers about, consuming your mind with happy thoughts that usually are delusions or were few and far between. Don’t let loneliness drag you back into a crappy relationship. Give yourself the time and the opportunity to find someone that truly makes you happy.