My MIL has 2 kidneys, but one is very small, and doesn't work. This
wasn't discovered until about 15 years ago. the other is enlarged..
She's doing fine. She's in her mid 70's.
They wanted to go in and remove the smaller one, but she refused.
Don't know if this helps you at all. But there are people who do just
fine with one kidney, after donating one to someone else. I'm sure
there are things they have to be careful about tho. surely someone who
has more experiance or knowledge than I will have some encouragement
for you.
research research research. Isn't your husband a dr? I kinda
remember something along those lines in this discussion..
good luck and keep us informed.
jeann...@aol.com (JEANNEPAUL) wrote:
Competition brings out the best in products and
the worst in people.--David Sarnoff
Don't be reckless with other people's hearts.
Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours
I am so glad to hear that you are getting some answers, even if they are not
quite what you were prepared to deal with. <<<<Big hugs>>>>>. About four
years ago my mother discovered that she has a congenitally malformed kidney,
which means that the other kidney does about 90% of that work and has,
apparently, since she was born. The way that this all came up was that she
kept getting UTI's that just wouldn't quit for about a year. She'd just get
over one and get a new one and they became pretty tough to clear. Since
they figured this out and treated aggressively once for the right UTI cause
she has not had further problems. She also eats properly for her age and
degree of activity and eats little red meat [although that probably has
nothing to do with kidney functioning] and keeps good hydration up. The
good news? She didn't have any problems until she was 69 years old and has
led [and continues to lead] a very active life.
Do so me research. I think it will go a long way to ease your worries.
But, do feel free to vent and share with us as you go through this whole
process. And, by the way, you do know how special you are for adopting that
very wonderful little girl, don't you! :-)
-Aula
~Jan
Jen :) Mom to Kyle & Allyson