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1341422722.119...@web120706.mail.ne1.yahoo.com>,
green...@yahoo.com wrote:
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>OK, we know we all like to see Superman suffer. For different reasons,
>it seems, but there's that commonality. My question is for those of you
>(myself included) who like to play Superman as being helpless. I admit I
>don't have a clear answer in my own head, but here are some questions I
>ask myself a lot, and will now ask you:
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>. Is it erotic for you to play Superman (either in person or in your
> head) when he gets into trouble (e.g., atomic rays or Kryptonite)?
> Why do you think you have that reaction?
>. Would you rather see a photo of yourself in Superman costume in a
> heroic pose, or in a helpless situation? What is it about seeing
> you/him helpless that turns you on?
>. If you have the opportunity to role-play Superman vs. villain, would
> you rather be Superman or the villain, and in that case who wins?
>. If you play Superman and you lose, why is that your preference?
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>As some of you know, I am way over the hill as far as age goes, and I
>remember seeing the '50s Superman shows when they were originally
>broadcast. Even at that early age, I enjoyed seeing Superman (or the
>Lone Ranger, or Zorro) be in trouble rather than be heroic. As time went
>on, with every successive Superman on TV or movies, I had the same
>reaction -- the best parts were when Superman is in peril.
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>Since I have had the resources to get my own costumes over the last 10
>years or so, and basically create my own scenarios, I have much
>preferred to put myself in the role of suffering Superman. Yeah, I do
>heroic poses now and then, and occasionally I will play the villain to
>someone's else's hero. But my preference is always to be on the
>receiving end of Kryptonite, or atomic rays, etc.
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>For any and all of you guys who feel the same way, I'd love to hear your
>thoughts as to why you think that's the case.
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>Thanks for reading (if you made it this far).
I can only say that for me, my preference is always to watch (and play) the
suffering, rather than heroic, Superhero. That said, the suffering is so much more
erotic when it is in contrast to the heroic. That is to say, the idea of a smug,
invulnerable superhero, hands on hips, so cocky and sure of himself, confident he
could never be defeated, and then...whammo, a trap involving krytonite or atomic
rays or whatever... Man, the look of not only suffering but incredulity really
turns me on. So the answer to the question about which photo would be "both, one
of my being arrogant one second and one of me suffering a moment later when the
boom is lowered" When I am watching it (and I too am old enough to share
Greenway's memories of being turned on by watching the original George Reeves in
one of the Kryptonite episodes), I imagine that it is I who is suffering. The
fantasy for me, and it is plenty erotic, is that I AM the suffering superman. For
me this applies not only to superheros, and superman in particular, but to
musclemen in general. Steve Reeves or other sword and sandal muscle dudes being
bound and tortured has a similar effect on me. In the case of the superhero, as
with the muscle hero, a huge part of the turn on for me is the notion a supremely
muscular and powerful man with an incredible physique, weak and quivering in agony
as his muscles strain, in vain, against the evil forces against him. Superimposed
upon this is the notion of ones super power being "sapped", which is ultimately
manifest by the agony/ecstasy of a sexual climax. In addition to the suffering, I
am also turned on to the idea that people are watching and getting turned on my
watching me suffer, admiring me, even though I am the victim. Now as to WHY this
turns me on....don't know. But I can tell you that since I was a kid, I couldn't
take my eyes off of musclemen (especially those with big pecs like Mark Forest)
and superman (the epitome of a muscleman) especially if they were being tested and
suffering. One positive trend of professional wrestling in the last decades has
been a gravitation to more muscular bodybuilder type guys. I like seeing them
suffer as well and wrestling fantasies are another turn on for me if it involves
hyper muscular good guys who are suffering at the hands of also muscular heals. I
have my favorite body parts and tortures but in general there is nothing like
superman being sapped of his strength and made to suffer through creative
applications of krytonite. I have not had much time lately to explore and
contribute to the site but I was recently amazed at how much I seem to be on the
same wave length with much what was written by some members such as Skreau and
osomajor. (forgive the misspellings)
This is my very first post to this board. If I've broken any rules of etiquette,
my apologies.
Dave