Google Groups no longer supports new Usenet posts or subscriptions. Historical content remains viewable.
Dismiss

Melissa Etheridge Molested By Her Sister

989 views
Skip to first unread message

Silver Springs

unread,
Jun 22, 2001, 10:59:49 PM6/22/01
to
Does anyone know anything about Melissa Etheridge's sister, like what
she is doing now, or is she still alive? They showed her picture on
20/20. I wonder if she feels embarassed that ME has told the whole
world that she molested her four 4 years. I guess they aren't on
good terms anymore. Good interview with ME, but I wish it could've
been longer. I wonder how Lou Diamond Phillips feels about what Julie
Cypher did to her? He's having the last laugh on ME now, I guess.

Lisa

Irulan

unread,
Jun 22, 2001, 11:14:57 PM6/22/01
to
I read somewhere (can't remember where) that Melissa, who loved her father
dearly, promised him on his death bed, that she would take care of the
entire family financially as long as she can. She was already a big rock
star by then. She says she is still supporting her sister and it galls her
to do so.

--
Irulan
from the stars we came, to the stars we return
from now until the end of time
"Silver Springs" <la...@nospamhome.com> wrote in message
news:s318jto7ku16mapv6...@4ax.com...

Amy

unread,
Jun 22, 2001, 11:23:44 PM6/22/01
to
>From: Silver Springs la...@nospamhome.com

>Does anyone know anything about Melissa Etheridge's sister, like what
>she is doing now, or is she still alive?

I vaguely remember hearing they don't speak anymore, but I guess that would be
obvious.

> Good interview with ME, but I wish it could've
>been longer.

Yeah, I agree.

>I wonder how Lou Diamond Phillips feels about what Julie
>Cypher did to her? He's having the last laugh on ME now, I guess.

I never knew that Julie had an affair with KD, (learned this a few days ago)
but according to the interview ME "allowed" the affairs with both KD and a man?
In the interview it sounded like Julie asked ME, "hey can I do this?" Maybe I'm
not following what she said correctly.

-Amy


e-mail: ande...@tc.umn.edu
http://members.aol.com/celicasnaz/

Billie

unread,
Jun 22, 2001, 11:40:58 PM6/22/01
to
Okay, you know more than me...who is KD? And Julie had affairs, but Melissa
didn't, right? I saw the interview, but she was vague on some things.

Billie

Amy wrote:

>I never knew that Julie had an affair with KD, (learned this a few days ago)
>but according to the interview ME "allowed" the affairs with both KD and a
>man?
>In the interview it sounded like Julie asked ME, "hey can I do this?" Maybe
>I'm
>not following what she said correctly.
>
>-Amy
>
>
>e-mail: ande...@tc.umn.edu
>http://members.aol.com/celicasnaz/
>
>
>
>
>
>

"STUPIDITY IS NOT A HANDICAP. Park elsewhere!"

AGC FAQ and FUN STUFF
http://members.aol.com/pusssykatt/agcfaq.html
BLIND ITEM REHASH:
http://members.aol.com/agcgossipqueen/mainpage.html

Amy

unread,
Jun 23, 2001, 12:27:05 AM6/23/01
to
>From: pusss...@aol.com (Billie )
>Date: 6/22/2001 10:40 PM Central

>Okay, you know more than me...who is KD? And Julie had affairs, but Melissa
>didn't, right? I saw the interview, but she was vague on some things.
>
>Billie

KD Lang. I don't think Melissa had any affairs (reportedly) during her
relationship with Julie. Yes, it *was* pretty vague.

.. Amy ..

unread,
Jun 23, 2001, 12:28:22 AM6/23/01
to
> Okay, you know more than me...who is KD?

It's K.D. Lang.

--Amy

Tis LaLa

unread,
Jun 23, 2001, 2:36:13 AM6/23/01
to
<<
>Okay, you know more than me...who is KD? And Julie had affairs, but Melissa
>didn't, right? I saw the interview, but she was vague on some things.
>
>Billie >>


I think she wants us all to buy the book right ...so she alluded to alot..I
would buy the paperback...


lala
Keeper of the* Fine but Stupid* Hugh Grant and the* Small but Feisty* Lucy Liu!
:) Yes I am very ashamed...

Kathy

unread,
Jun 23, 2001, 9:23:35 AM6/23/01
to
Amy wrote:

I heard it the same way - ME gave her permission, but couldn't say why
when asked.

Kathy

>
>
> e-mail: ande...@tc.umn.edu
> http://members.aol.com/celicasnaz/

Kathy

unread,
Jun 23, 2001, 9:24:27 AM6/23/01
to
".. Amy .." wrote:

actually, k.d.lang. she doesn't capitalize it.

Kathy


RJRSJ1

unread,
Jun 23, 2001, 1:09:40 PM6/23/01
to
>Does anyone know anything about Melissa Etheridge's sister, like what
>she is doing now, or is she still alive? They showed her picture on
>20/20. I wonder if she feels embarassed that ME has told the whole
>world that she molested her four 4 years.

I read in People that her sister, Jennifer, is a homemaker in Arkansas.

RJRSJ1

unread,
Jun 23, 2001, 1:11:24 PM6/23/01
to

Maybe she wanted to watch??

W2will

unread,
Jun 23, 2001, 2:53:13 PM6/23/01
to
>ME gave her permission, but couldn't say why
>>when asked.

According to her book, ME was not at all happy about Julie sleeping with k.d.
or the guy (she only found out Julie slept with the guy five years later) - she
did not say that she "gave permission," just that she listened to Julie tell
her about these attractions and didn't more forcefully try to stop Julie or
leave because she couldn't handle being without Julie then.

Wormwood

unread,
Jun 23, 2001, 4:45:01 PM6/23/01
to

Hopefully she's not molesting her *own* children (if she has any) now.

--worm

"Ernest Hemmingway once wrote, 'The world is a fine place... and worth
fighting for'... I agree with the second part." -- Detective
Sommerset, SE7EN


Remove SERPENT to reply via email

Silver Springs

unread,
Jun 23, 2001, 6:01:33 PM6/23/01
to

In the 20/20 interview, ME said she gave permission for Julie to have
sex with a man IIRC.

Lisa

Carrie

unread,
Jun 23, 2001, 6:47:00 PM6/23/01
to
> >
> >I heard it the same way - ME gave her permission, but couldn't say why
> >when asked.


I remember thinking that maybe Melissa has a more relaxed view
anyhow when it comes to sex and sexuality. Recognizing Julie hadn't
really explored her sexuality and she had, maybe she wanted to give
Julie a chance to. It is well reported that Melissa prior to Julie had
several love affairs and was not monogamous. Perhpas Melissa E.
identified with Julie's desire. I also have to honestly wonder if
Melissa E. ever had an affair in these 12 years?? I wonder if for a
time they both had something with kd, as a couple. As far as I know
Melissa E. considered Kd a friend.
It may also be true that she feared losing Julie and thought if she
gave Julie permission to stray once in a while that Julie would be
more willing to stay in the relationship.

Carrie

unread,
Jun 23, 2001, 6:49:08 PM6/23/01
to
I kind of wish the interview had focused a bit more on Julie's
pronouncement of "I'm Not Gay" and how that affected ME. What she
thinks of that!

Amy

unread,
Jun 23, 2001, 7:43:44 PM6/23/01
to
>From: carrie...@aol.com (Carrie)

>I kind of wish the interview had focused a bit more on Julie's
>pronouncement of "I'm Not Gay" and how that affected ME. What she
>thinks of that!

Yeah.. that would have been interesting. Melissa's only reaction in the
interview was something like "and what am I supposed to do with that?" For some
reason it felt strange to choose this interview to ask Melissa when she knew
she was gay and how her father reacted, etc. Those might be good questions to
ask about 15 years ago. They just seem like such basic and generic questions
for a show like 20/20. I guess if people have never heard of her, they make
sense...

RJRSJ1

unread,
Jun 23, 2001, 7:43:56 PM6/23/01
to
>On 23 Jun 2001 17:09:40 GMT, rjr...@aol.comzyxqyzx (RJRSJ1) wrote:
>
>>>Does anyone know anything about Melissa Etheridge's sister, like what
>>>she is doing now, or is she still alive? They showed her picture on
>>>20/20. I wonder if she feels embarassed that ME has told the whole
>>>world that she molested her four 4 years.
>>
>>I read in People that her sister, Jennifer, is a homemaker in Arkansas.
>
>Hopefully she's not molesting her *own* children (if she has any) now.
>
>--worm

Well, statistically homemakers usually have children of their own. Let's hope
she doesn't do that to her own.

Silver Springs

unread,
Jun 23, 2001, 7:53:46 PM6/23/01
to

All the 20/20 interview was was a promotion of her book. She wants
ppl to buy the book to find out what her reaction was,so she won't say
on an interview.

Lisa

Billie

unread,
Jun 23, 2001, 10:01:45 PM6/23/01
to
>actually, k.d.lang. she doesn't capitalize it.

Well that doesn't say much for k.d., if she slept with Melissa's woman, and she
was friends with Melissa. I don't think I care much for k.d. after hearing
that.

Billie

Billie

unread,
Jun 23, 2001, 10:04:38 PM6/23/01
to
It's likely that her sister was also molested as a child by someone
else...children don't molest children as a rule, since it's a learned action.

Billie...I'm not sure about this whole story, or how much older the sister is
than Melissa.

"STUPIDITY IS NOT A HANDICAP. Park elsewhere!"

NYCTexasGirl

unread,
Jun 24, 2001, 7:28:51 AM6/24/01
to
>Well, statistically homemakers usually have children of their own. Let's hope
>she doesn't do that to her own.

From what I gather, their is not that much difference in age between the two --
something like four years and the molestation took place when ME was 4-8 and
her sister 8-12. ME even said to some it might look like they were just
playing "doctor" but it was very embarassing for her. I'm not defending her
sister, but I really don't think anything evil was intended. However, it does
sell books doesn't it?

LMF

unread,
Jun 24, 2001, 12:16:23 PM6/24/01
to
I agree with Billie, how else does an eight year old develop
an interest in abusive sex games? The age difference between
Melissa and her sister is immense, when talking about force.
You don't believe an eight year old can kill a four year old?
A bigger sibling, can force the smaller child to do almost
anything. Again, how does an eight year old become angry
enough to abuse a smaller child?

Interesting that her older sister who is married and has a
home, would still NEED financial support, as per the promise
to their father. And have so little self respect that she
would take it from someone who clearly resents it. It doesn't
sound like it's the money that's Melissa's problem though,
it's the injustice.

As for just playing "Doctor", what was actually done is
completely irrelevant. Melissa was clearly traumatized by
whatever happened. It was abuse. End of story.

And, would you have called the exact same acts "just playing
doctor" if the "Doctor" had been her grandfather, not her
older sister? With all due respect, your dismissal of
Melissa's intentions being about selling books is one of the
reasons why child sexual abuse is rampant. I think she's
brave. This isn't a pretty thing to talk about, and I'll bet
extremely painful..

>From what I gather, their is not that much difference in age
>between the two -- something like four years and the
>molestation took place when ME was 4-8 and her sister 8-12.
>ME even said to some it might look like they were just playing
>"doctor" but it was very embarassing for her. I'm not
>defending her sister, but I really don't think anything evil
>was intended. However, it does sell books doesn't it?

>>It's likely that her sister was also molested as a child

>>by someone else...children don't molest children as a
>>rule, since it's a learned action.

>>Billie...I'm not sure about this whole story, or how
>>much older the sister is than Melissa.

>>>Hopefully she's not molesting her *own* children

>>>(if she has any) now.

>>>>I read in People that her sister, Jennifer, is a
>>>>homemaker in Arkansas.

>>>>>Does anyone know anything about Melissa

Silver Springs

unread,
Jun 24, 2001, 6:04:03 PM6/24/01
to

Playing doctor for 4 years is a bit too long. If it only happened
once or maybe twice, I would agree with you.


Lisa

China Kate Sunflower

unread,
Jun 24, 2001, 11:26:07 PM6/24/01
to
Goddamn, well I declare! Have you seen the like? Their walls are built on
cannonballs, pusss...@aol.com's motto is:

>
>It's likely that her sister was also molested as a child by someone
>else...children don't molest children as a rule, since it's a learned action.

Not necessarily. Psychosexual disorders can manifest in chilren without any
"provocation."


K.

>Billie...I'm not sure about this whole story, or how much older the sister is
>than Melissa.
>
>
>>On 23 Jun 2001 17:09:40 GMT, rjr...@aol.comzyxqyzx (RJRSJ1) wrote:
>>
>>>>Does anyone know anything about Melissa Etheridge's sister, like what
>>>>she is doing now, or is she still alive? They showed her picture on
>>>>20/20. I wonder if she feels embarassed that ME has told the whole
>>>>world that she molested her four 4 years.
>>>
>>>I read in People that her sister, Jennifer, is a homemaker in Arkansas.
>>
>>Hopefully she's not molesting her *own* children (if she has any) now.
>>
>>--worm
>>
>>"Ernest Hemmingway once wrote, 'The world is a fine place... and worth
>>fighting for'... I agree with the second part." -- Detective
>>Sommerset, SE7EN
>>
>>
>>Remove SERPENT to reply via email
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>
>
>
>"STUPIDITY IS NOT A HANDICAP. Park elsewhere!"
>
>AGC FAQ and FUN STUFF
>http://members.aol.com/pusssykatt/agcfaq.html
>BLIND ITEM REHASH:
>http://members.aol.com/agcgossipqueen/mainpage.html

--
The Dude abides.

http://www.celticweb.com/users/noracharles

Writermss

unread,
Jun 26, 2001, 3:05:37 PM6/26/01
to
Now I'm going to have to get this book. Melissa's had quite a life!

Didn't Melissa have a summer fling with Ellen DeGeneres at one time as well,
before Ellen was out of the closet?

Billie

unread,
Jun 26, 2001, 3:46:54 PM6/26/01
to
writermss wrote:

Wasn't there a rumor when Melissa and Julie broke up that either Ellen or Anne
had been involved with one of them?

Billie

ElijahMH

unread,
Jun 27, 2001, 12:01:24 AM6/27/01
to
> >Didn't Melissa have a summer fling with Ellen DeGeneres at one time as
well,
> >before Ellen was out of the closet?
>

I'm not sure, but when I was in 5th grade, in 1993, my cousin told me that
"the lady from the Ocean Spray commercials" (Ellen) was dating Melissa
Etheridge.

--
*************************************************
::elijah::
::keeper of madonna::
*************************************************


undr...@gmail.com

unread,
Dec 8, 2014, 4:17:27 PM12/8/14
to
Jennifer is a good woman and a good mother to her kids

undr...@gmail.com.remove-9zq-this

unread,
Dec 9, 2014, 11:51:25 AM12/9/14
to All
Jennifer is a good woman and a good mother to her kids

--- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05
* Origin: <SpaceSST.BBS.Fidonet<>NNTP.gateway.@.piz.noip.me> (1:249/999)
--- Synchronet 3.15b-Win32 NewsLink 1.92
SpaceSST BBS Usenet <> Fidonet Gateway
0 new messages