Re: Aardvark (was - Re: This is on the house)

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Jenn was thinking very hard :
> G. Morgan wrote:
>> Jenn wrote:
>>
>>> I'm not "a crazy, malicious, bigot lady", and you know that,
>>
>> I know that!
>>
>>> but he
>>> doesn't know that you know that.
>>
>> How do you know one way or the other? We have emailed on occasion.
>>
>>> I've never seen you call him on that.
>>
>> I haven't. They are just plain-Jane vanilla insults. Had he said
>> something about a known medical issue and tried to exploit that I'd
>> jump all over that.
>
> An offence is what someone feels ... not what others decide is offensive,
> Graham.
>
> You have decided that one offence is worse than another, but that simply is
> not true. Aardvark has been JUST as offensive to me by posting what you call
> 'vanilla insults'. How I feel about it should be important.
>
>> You know that!
>
> I'm a female .. I don't know something unless you occasionally SAY IT! :-)
> And just because you said it 6 months ago doesn't mean I don't need you say
> it again in the present or future. Men seem to believe if they've said
> something to a female one time ... that that one time should be enough and
> it's settled!
>
> You don't read a majority of the nastiness Aardvark has said to me or about
> me, so you only see him as tossing vanilla insults my way. I'm telling you,
> there is no vanilla in his insults and when you allow him to call me 'a
> crazy, malicious, bigot lady' without any objections from you on my behalf, I
> find that disappointing and hurtful. Yet, you'll defend SN over a different
> comment that is ONLY equally an offence. If it were me getting attacked that
> way, you'd not read about it because you'd stop reading right before it
> happened. Others have said equally nasty things to me that I've objected to,
> but I was told to get over it and to 'grow a thicker skin'.
>
> Well ... SN has milked her offence enough... she needs to get a thicker skin
> and get over it already, and so does everyone else. They only use it so they
> can have an excuse to keep on complaining and never move on. Enough is
> enough.

This one is a keeper.

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