On Fri, 22 Mar 2013 07:57:06 -0500
Jude Cormier <
jh...@hotmail.com> wrote:
> I bring this up because I genuinely wonder what people thought of the
> Bronies
>
> During my last con visit I got a chance to learn about the brony
> fandom. I knew basically the focus of the fandom. I thought it was a
> little odd but I was curious enough to attend a panel called 6 Stages
> of Bronydom. I came in the middle but what I saw proved rather
> enlightening and really held up a mirror to fandom in general.I was
> really surprised how many people I interacted with were fans. people
> you wouldn't expect to. Like finding out the folks from Mayberry have
> a punk following One of the things that was notable at this panel was
> the awareness level. The panelists fully acknowledge the extremeness
> of their fandom. The extremeness of a show that targets little girls
> who could watch it with their parents yet has an adult fan base of at
> least 7 million! The extremeness by which how quickly the show_s
> fandom evolved since My Little Pony was revamped 2 years ago. The
> extreme ridicule the adult male fans risk by admitting they watch the
> show. And the extreme passion that comes from such a fan base arising
> under the above mention circumstances. I can understand the leeriness
> some folks have for this group. I think about how the general public
> felt about trekkies back in the 70s, anime folk back in the 90s and
> how some folks have come to regard the Browncoats in past years. The
> bronies are the undisputed air to that mantle. There is an inherent
> level of shame that comes with the territory It was interesting that
> the panelists said people thought the Brony phenomenon would die out
> soon enough owing to the speed and intensity by which it developed.
> It hasn_t though. It is going just as strong as ever and the fact
> that the show_s producers embrace and respond to the fandom certainly
> has helped keep it going.
>
> Anyway, the panel likened the fact that fans of the show undergo a
> process not unlike the stages of death when one discovers one has a
> terminal illness. Ergo: Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression and
> Acceptance. I came into the panel as they were wrapping up depression
> and heading into Acceptance. What was fascinating were the moments
> people said they came to terms with it and just accepted their love
> and fascination with the show. 1 guy (who was college age) said he
> finally accepted it when he had the nerve to tell his father about
> his love for the show. Naturally he was majorly embarrassed to admit
> it. But he said after his dad watched a couple of episodes to see
> what it was about, he told his son he understood why he got into it.
> It made it a lot easier on him Another person there had said that
> while he likes the show, the reason he embraces being a brony has
> less to do with the show itself and more with the impact the show has
> had on fans. He found it amazing that this show with its message
> about life lessons and friendship manages to inspire people so
> passionately and affect them in deep ways that comes out via fandom.
> It_s an interesting effect. I_ve glanced at the show and am rather
> indifferent about it but I can_t deny that at the core of any geek
> fandom is this inspirational impact. I know another costumer who has
> a grown son who is a Brony and my friend admits enjoying the show
> himself for what it is. In that respect, it_s no different than
> getting into trek, Star wars or Superheroes. It is just an unexpected
> source
>
> Sadly there was a 6th stage that they referred to as _Falling_. It
> was basically the moment some fans have suffered when the stress and
> ridicule from being a fan of the show becomes too much for them and
> they cut themselves off for the sake of peace. An extreme example was
> given when 1 of the panelists mention her college friend was
> constantly ridiculed for liking the show by his buddies-even after he
> learned not to bring it up in their presence.
>
> The breaking point came when his _friends_ bought a collectible
> figure from the show, burnt and disfigured it and then left it for
> him in his mailbox. Yes you can tell these buddies of his are not
> into the show or its message A lot of what went on in this panel gave
> me plenty of food for thought
>
Hmm.
A lot of furries I know in real life also love My Little Pony:
Friendship is Magic. A lot of them have Rainbow Dash figurines next to
holstered but loaded and live pistols.
It might seem backwards, but ironically, a society where everyone is
armed is the most polite. It reminds me of the saying that high fences
make good neighbors.
I bet his buddies wouldn't have done that if they knew he carried guns
he knew how to use. Everyone reaches a breaking point. The nicer they
are, the more terrifyingly violent they are upon reaching that breaking
point.
But I didn't post here to explain why small children and elderly sweet
grandmas should be packing heat to keep people from raping them. I just
wanted to note that there's a lot of overlap in the two fandoms, and
that the bronies are re-discovering a lot of stuff we furries have
taken for granted for a long time now. I think it's a good thing that
furry fans, brony fans and occidental otaku get along so well and have
so much overlap. Nerdy fans ought to stick together.
While individuals with nerdy tendancies are more numerous than ever
before, we're still a very distinct minority, even with all our fandoms
combined.
With all our fandoms combined, we are Captain Planet?
Anyway, I have found that the bronies are rediscovering a lot of stuff
that furries have already gone through a thousand times over. That
being said, the furry fandom has grown at an explosive rate, with lots
of new underaged members who have NOT experienced all this, so when
they look at the brony fandom who don't have experience in defending
themselves from ridicule and violence, it can be quite enlightening.
The older, wiser furries tend to go well out of their way to protect
the new ones, giving pertinent advice like hide all the things from
your family, hide it from everyone. It's not there's anything to hide,
there's absolutely nothing dirty or wrong with being a furry.
But not everyone sees it that way. Even with those who aren't very
invested or committed to the fandom, and certainly aren't 24-hour
living the fandom lifestylers, even the most minor association can be
damning. We routinely teach underaged fandom members how to encrypt
files, filesystems or entire hard disks and keep their computers and
handheld devices free from pilfering by family or schools.
This doesn't always work. They are sometimes too young to understand
that when a schoolteacher demands that you give them the password, you
have to refuse. even if they physically torture you for it, you must say
no. You must absolutely refuse to divulge access to your devices.
Even if you don't mind being kicked out your school, fired from your
job, kicked out of your family's house, all the people you've talked to
in the fandom might mind that all the things they've ever said to you
are exposed to critical eyes. I'm not talking about anything illegal or
sexual, just associating with them at all is bad enough for some people.
God forbid we treat underaged people like people! Goddamned slavers.