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project420 <na...@main-net.com> wrote in article
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> Hello. I'm in a difficult situation and would like as much advice as I
can
> get. I could be the father of a baby girl that's been in the hands of
> foster parents for three weeks already. The mother wanted and still wants
> the baby to go up for adoption. But if I am the father I will stop the
> adoption process and try to get custody. However, the mother says if I
try
> to get custody then she's going to fight for custody so that I can't.
What
> can I do??? Even though she doesn't want the baby, has never said she
loves
> the baby, and shows no feelings for her, JUST BECAUSE she's the mother
she
> will get initial custody. But if I fight for custody, do I have a GOOD
> chance of getting full custody of my baby? I am 21 yrs old, have a
steady
> job as technical support for an ISP, graduated 6th in my class, own a
car,
> live in a better home, and LOVE MY BABY! Do I have a chance? I'm sure
> that simply because she's the "mother" she's already got the upper hand
in
> the situation...
>
> Thanks in advance for your advice!
>
>
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